Wandering in Metaphysics

26/11/2020

This ghost color guide may save your life!

Posted by kenlai under death, ghost | Tags: death, dying wish, ghost, ghost color codes, God of Death, Ken Lai, murder, reincarnation, spirit, suicide, vengeance |
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Do you know the color of a ghost or spirit can tell you if this is a malicious or friendly ghost? Below are the colors of six types of ghosts:

White: White is the most commonly seen ghost color. Ghosts with this color were dead from natural causes with no malice. Ghosts who have just departed from their physical bodies and waiting for reincarnation or moving on, also have this color.

Grey: Grey color is also a commonly seen ghost color. Ghosts with this color were dead from natural causes with no malice. Ghosts who have just departed from their physical bodies and waiting for reincarnation or moving on, but have some unfinished businesses or wishes, want to find someone to help them to fulfil their final wishes, are also grey in color. If you “see” this type of ghosts, it means you are the “chosen one” to help them.

Lime: Ghosts with lime color represent some mild degree of malice with some minor grudges. Ghosts of this type usually were dead from suicides. If you can “see” them, it means they want you to help them to solve some problems or unfinished businesses.

Green: Ghosts with green color represent pretty high degree of malice with some grudges. Ghosts of this type usually were dead from murder and resent being murdered. If you can “see” them, it means you have done something connected to their death directly or indirectly. Run as fast as you could or recite your prayer/ mantra when you see a green ghost.

Red: Ghosts with red color represent very vengeful and malice with extreme high degree of grudges. Ghosts of this type usually were dead from suicide and resent being dead. If you can “see” them, it means you have done something causing their death directly or indirectly. Run as fast as you could or recite your prayer/ mantra when you see a red ghost. Kneel down and pray for forgiveness if you cannot run or forget your prayer.

Black: Black spirit represents the God of Death. This is the first “person” one sees when one dies. If you “see” a black ghost, it is possible that you have just died or you have seen God of Death coming to pick up some souls. It is “easy” to run into God of Death in hospitals as he comes over do his work.

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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15/11/2020

Headache caused by a painting

Posted by kenlai under Bazi, Feng Shui, form Feng Shui | Tags: art placement, Bagua representations, Feng Shui and headache, form Feng Shui, Ken Lai, sickness, tiger Feng Shui |
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Note: Below is a case study posted in my Feng Shui discussion groups:

Here is an interesting case study from China 30+ years ago.

A two storeys house in a village with two boys and a male owner. At first the father had headache, then the elder boy also had headache, followed by the younger boy.

They had consulted a few hospitals and could not find the cure or cause of this headache.

When modern medicine could not help, the owner thought it must be due to Feng Shui. So he had called a Feng Shui master to check his house.

The Feng Shui master could not find any problem with the house except seeing a painting of a tiger walking down the mountain hang in the NW side of the house.

The master asked, “Does your headache come after this painting is hanged in NW side of your house?”

The owner answered yes.

Master told him to put the painting away and store it in a drawer.

No more headache occurred for the males in this house afterwards.

Can you explain why? This is a simple Bagua representation topic.

Feng Shui tips: Avoid putting pictures or paintings of fierce animals like tiger and lions INSIDE your house. In this tiger scenario, resident with Chinese zodiac monkey sign is very likely to get hurt. If you have to put one up, put the painting facing the main door outside.

If you want to learn more about Form Feng Shui, you may want to check:

“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2020 w/23 hr. HD video

Ken Lai
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06/11/2020

Why major fortune and misfortune happened within the same year?

Posted by kenlai under 10 Gods, 3-penalties, 4-Pillars | Tags: 3-penalties, 4P, Bazi, children star, father-jinxing, fortune, husband star, husband-jinxing, Ken Lai, luck management, misfortune, spouse palace |
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The birth of a baby is considered a celebration. Death is a major misfortune. Both were happened within the same year for the female below.

This woman was pregnant with her second child in 2013 (gi-si). The first born is a girl. Her husband was killed by 2 cars sandwiching his car in a traffic accident before the birth of his second baby boy in 2013.

The Bazi chart of this woman is as follow:

Female born: Feb. 19, 1980, Mao hour

YEAR: Geng-shen

MONTH: Wu-yin

DAY: Ren-xu

HOUR: Gui-mao

void branch: zi/ chou

10-YEAR-LUCK

1984 ding-chou

1994 bing-zi

2004 yi-hai

2014 jia-xu

Husband had died during

10-YEARS LUCK: Yi-hai (2004- 2013)

Annual Luck: Gui-si (2013)

Annual luck-month: Xin-you (2013)

Does this woman’s chart show any clue about her husband’s death?

Question for “Destiny and Luck Management” course members: Was it possible to prevent this death?

Hints:

Which element represents children star in this chart?
Which element represents husband star in this chart?
Penalties

If you want to know more about luck management, please check out the following courses:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

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26/10/2020

Let’s talk dirty or money

Posted by kenlai under Bazi, Chinese custom, death, folklore, humor | Tags: Chinese Folklore, daoism, dead ritual, Hell Bank, joss paper money, Ken Lai, remembrance, ritual, U.S. dollar joss paper money |
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Will you be very happy if you run into a box of cool cash like this one?

But if you find out that you cannot enjoy this cash until you have died………

This box of cash looks like U.S. Dollars but actually is a version of Underworld currency or “joss paper money” for the dead. This offering of joss paper money to the deceased is popular among Chinese in Southeast Asia.

The $10,000 currency above is issued by the “Hell Bank” with the portrait of the Underworld Emperor. It beats the $500 denomination of U.S. Dollar joss paper money with Ben Franklin portrait by 20 times.

In 2009, I had written about underworld currency:

https://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2009/12/hell-does-not-take-american-express-but.html

With online marketing, there are competitions in Underworld U.S. Dollar joss paper money. You may go to AliExpress website to check.

There are denominations of US$100 to 1 Million in the joss paper money section of AliExpress. For US$5, you can get 250 pieces of US$1M denomination joss paper money issued by Heaven-Hell Bank. Five real U.S. dollars for 250M of underworld U.S. Dollars! What a deal made in hell!

There are also 5000 British pounds and 50,000 Euro denomination of joss paper money.

With different underworld currencies, the dead now can have their own FOREX trading to keep them busy.

Now comes to the million dollar questions:

Do our deceased love ones really receive the joss paper money that we offer to them?
If the answer is “yes”, do these “money” worth much in underworld given the arbitrary value assigned.
If the answer is “no” or “no idea”, what purpose does burning joss paper money serve?

From the perspective of the living (us!), this approach shows our remembrance, love and care to the deceased provides peace, emotional balance and even redemption to us regardless whether the deceased receive the offering or not.

From the perspective of the deceased (assuming souls of the deceased continue to live on), this show of remembrance, love and care from the living love ones is what counts most. The amount of offering and value of joss paper become insignificant. After all, the living project the material needs and desires on this earth to the spiritual world, which may not be true or needed.

My Daoist Sifu (teacher) told me when preparing joss paper for offering, make sure the love ones of the deceased touch all the joss paper money or fold the paper gold nuggets, to imprint their qi or energy on the paper. This energy is what makes the deceased feel comfort and loved.

Ken Lai
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Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2020 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
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“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
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“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2020 edition” with 18 hr. video

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19/10/2020

What NOT to do when your luck is bad 衰运忌讳

Posted by kenlai under 4-Pillars | Tags: 4-Pillars, bad luck, Bazi, 衰运, funeral, gambling, investment, job change, Ken Lai, loan, luck management, speculation |
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According to Bazi or 4-Pillar astrology, one’s major luck direction (good, average or bad) changes once every ten years. In others words, your current good or bad luck will not last forever!

This article shows you what NOT to do during your bad luck period:

Making major decisions that are hard to reverse, especially investment decisions: You are more likely to make the wrong decisions during your bad luck period.
Changing job frequently: This make you look bad in your work history or resume.
Loaning money to people: Your money is likely to disappear!
Gambling or making speculations: You are more likely to lose your shirt when in bad luck.
Attending funerals: Attending funeral will increase the negative energy around you. Just send flowers or donation instead of attending the funeral.
Violating laws and not following rules: You are likely to get caught if you try to take illegal shortcuts during your bad luck period.

For more info on luck management, please check out the following courses:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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Ken Lai
© 2020 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

22/09/2020

Physical Misfortune: Injury vs. Sickness 伤灾与病灾

Posted by kenlai under 4P, Bazi | Tags: 4P, 5-elements, accident, Bazi, burnt, 病灾, flooding, illness, injury, injury misfortune, Ken Lai, landslide, predict sickness, sickness, sickness misfortune, traffic accident, 伤灾 |
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Physical misfortune here refers to bodily harm attributed to the interactions or specific conditions of 5-elements inside one’s birth or Bazi chart. This bodily harm is further distinguished by whether it is a “sickness” or “injury” caused by this Bazi condition. Both sickness and injury could possibly lead to death, but in general, injury could result in quicker death like in an auto accident.

The question arises: How do we tell if the physical misfortune of a chart is an “injury” or “sickness“?

This article is written for my “Sickness Bazi” course members. Here I show you how to identify potential injury misfortune in a Bazi chart reading. This one is more complicated than spotting out sickness misfortune.

CHARACTERISTICS OF INJURY MISFORTUNE

This is characterized by two elements with strong energy battling each other without a mediator to dissipate the animosity. For example, a chart with strong water and fire elements but no wood to mediate.

Below isa list of 2-elements battling and possible injuries:

Metal and wood battling: limbs, tendon, bone and head external injuries
Wood and earth battling: skin and muscle injury; injury from falling object
Wood and fire battling: burn by fire or hot object, also bloody injury
Metal and fire battling: bleeding injury with scars later on.
Water and fire battling: bleeding, burnt and traffic accident.
Earth and water battling: landslide or flooding injury/death; drowning

Sickness misfortune is much easier to discern. Smart readers here could have figured out already. If not, take this course:

“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video

Ken Lai
© 2020 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Visual Bazi: Wealth Secrets and Maximization” w/ 18 hr. HD video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” 2020 w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods 2020 (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2020 edition” with 18 hr. video

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12/09/2020

“Single Ding-fire or lone Jia-wood implies blindness or lameness” 单丁独甲不瞎也跛

Posted by kenlai under Bazi | Tags: 4P, asthma, Bazi, blindness, chronic illness, 男怕单丁, disability, 脚跛眼瞎, hypertension, Ken Lai, lameness, scar, 单丁独甲, 女怕独甲 |
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In traditional China, street Bazi readers, especially the blind ones, has a saying:

“Single Ding or lone Jia implies lameness or blindness.” (单丁独甲，脚跛眼瞎)

“Male is scare of single ding and female is afraid of lone jia.” (男怕单丁,女怕独甲)

What it means is: when a Bazi birth chart has only one ding-fire and/ or one jia-wood, the chart owner (“daymaster” or DM) is likely blind or lame. Further extended meanings are: DM or DM’s close relative is likely to have chronic or long term illness or disability.

“Chronic or long term illness” refers to illnesses that have no cure but require long term care and medication like hypertension, heart diseases, stomach ulcer, asthma and the likes.

“Disability” here refers to missing a certain body parts like chopped finger, facial scars, broken limbs and the like.

If ding-fire or jia-wood represents +output star (shang-guan) or power stars (+/- power), the disability or injury will be a major one. If not, the effect will be minor.

This “single ding and lone jia” theory is not based on any logic but empirical observations. People with this chart condition, they or their close relative are likely blind, lame or suffering long term illness. If they have not run into this problem during their younger years, they are likely to suffer such event during middle or old age.

You can check if your Bazi birth chart has single ding or lone jia easily even if you know nothing about Bazi. Simply log into http://www.bazi-calculator.com, key in your birth day and birth hour and click the “calculate” box. Then you check the Bazi chart in the left side of the screen for red box or green box like the ones shown here.

If you have only one red ding-fire box or one green jia-wood box OR you have 1 red ding-fire and one green jia-wood box– you hit the minor misfortune jackpot. If you have 2 or more red ding-fire boxes or 2 or more green jia-wood boxes, you are OK.

There are Bazi guidelines to decipher:

who suffers (the chart owner or his/her close relative)?
which type of illness?
where in the body (organ or body part) suffers?

These guidelines are posted in my Bazi discussion lists.

If you want to know more about health/ sickness and Bazi, you may want to check this out:

“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video

Ken Lai
© 2020 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

01/09/2020

Bathroom location and related sickness 厠所与疾病

Posted by kenlai under bagua, Feng Shui, Ken Lai | Tags: Bagua representations, bathroom Feng Shui, bathroom location and health, bathroom location and illness, COVID-19, Ken Lai, toilet location and illness |
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I have written about bathroom Feng Shui in 2017:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2017/11/feng-shui-bad-locations-for-bathroom.html

Bathroom is probably the most likely location to spread germs and bacteria in a house if hygiene is neglected.

A few days ago, there is an article on how the University of Arizona predicts COVID-19 outbreak by checking the sewage system of its campus buildings.

https://www.theverge.com/21283825/sewer-systems-coronavirus-seawge-data-warning-signs-cities

In Chinese Feng Shui, we can predict the likely illnesses associated with the location of toilet.

This article discusses the likely illnesses attributed to specific bathroom locations.

BATHROOM IN:

North: Residents are prone to ear, blood, kidney, reproductive and excretory system illnesses. Middle son or middle-aged male family member is likely to get these illnesses.
South: Residents are prone to eye, heart and blood related illnesses. Middle daughter or middle-aged female family member is likely to get these illnesses.
East: Residents are prone to hand, foot, liver, gallbladder, eyes and nervous system sicknesses. Elder son or late middle-aged male family member is likely to get these illnesses.
West: Residents are prone to mouth, respiratory organs, lungs, throat, teeth and skeleton related illnesses. Youngest daughter or teenager female member is likely to get these illnesses.
Northeast: Residents are prone to skin, nose, hand, foot, stomach, spleen and intestinal illnesses. Youngest son or teenager male member is likely to get these illnesses.
Northwest: Residents are prone to mouth, respiratory organs, lungs, throat, teeth and skeleton related illnesses. Household male head or oldest male in the house is likely to get these illnesses. Bathroom in this location may create runaway/ weak husband and no husband for single female household.
Southeast: Residents are prone to hand, foot, liver, gallbladder, eyes and nervous system sicknesses. Elder daughter or late middle-aged female family member is likely to get these illnesses. Bathroom in this location also affects academic and career performance.
Southwest: Residents are prone to skin, nose, hand, foot, stomach, spleen and intestinal illnesses. Household female head or oldest female in the house is likely to get these illnesses.
Center: This is the worst location for a bathroom. Center is like the “heart” of a house and should be kept quiet, clean, minimized movements, no heavy objects, no staircase and no bathroom. Sickness like heart problem and acute illness resulting in death may occur to the residents if a bathroom is put in this location. This is also the most difficult problem to fix here. Walk away if you find a new house with a bathroom in the house center.

You should know how the above illnesses are derived if you know the representations of Bauga or “8-trigrams” in Chinese metaphysics.

You may consult your Feng Shui teacher or practitioner for remedies. Simple and inexpensive remedies are posted in my Feng Shui discussion groups. Membership for the group requires taking at least one Feng Shui course from Ken Lai.

There are some solutions for bathroom Feng Shui in my “Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” video course (please check below for details).

Ken Lai

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

21/08/2020

Secret meanings of multiple “10-Gods” within a chart 十神多重断

Posted by kenlai under 10 Gods, 4P, Bazi, Ken Lai | Tags: 0 Gods, 10 transformation stars, 4P, Bazi, 铁口直断, 食神, Ken Lai, mulitple 10-gods meaning, output, peer, power, resource, wealth, 偏财, 偏印, 劫财, 正财, 正印, 正官, 比肩, 七杀, 伤官 |
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In traditional China, blind fortune-tellers recite the coded poems from the exclusive Blindman Bazi library to give “iron mouth no-holds-barred revelation 铁口直断” in readings. Below are rare to find meanings of multiple identical “10-Gods” or transformation stars within a chart– taken from this Blindman Bazi library. For example, what is the possible meaning for a chart with 6 +wealth (zheng-cai) ?

THE AUSPICIOUS 10-GODS GROUP

+Wealth (zheng-cai 正财): this refers to wealth, regular income and wife

one +wealth element means wealth 一财是财
two +wealth mean mistresses 二财是妾
three +wealth mean lust 三财是色
four +wealth mean greed 四财是贪
five +wealth mean disasters due to chasing/ losing wealth 五财聚散成灾
six +wealth mean poverty when daymaster (DM, the person) is weak 六财身弱当贫
seven +wealth mean “follow wealth” profile and the person is likely wealthy 七财从势金玉满堂

+Power (zheng-guan 正官): this refers to superior/ boss or career luck

one +power element means power/ official 一官是官
two +power mean narrow or tight-minded 二官是狭
three +power mean sinister 三官是鬼
four +power mean too much self-control or self-suppressive 四官是难
five +power mean inevitable prison terms 五官牢刑难免
six +power mean unnatural death 六官死于非命
seven +power mean “follow power” profile and the person is noble with blessing 七官从势反为福贵

+Resource (zheng-yin 正印): this refers to mother, education or documents

one +resource element means official or real power 一印是权
two +resource represent parents 二印椿萱
three +resource mean indecisive personality 三印少决
four +resource mean handicap or disability 四印伤残
five +resource mean burying sons and no descendant 五印埋儿断后
six +resource mean laziness and eating disorder/ indulgement 六印懒惰偷馋
seven +resource mean “extreme strong” profile and the person becomes religious 七印势极反到佛前

-Peer (bi-jian 比肩): this refers to sibling, friends, coworkers and peers

one -peer element means loyalty and kindness 一比仁义
two -peer mean sociable and easy-going 二比和气
three -peer mean fierce competitions for resources/ wealth 三比争夺
four -peer mean lacking profit/ interest 四比乏利
five -peer mean leaving hometown to survive 五比离乡背井
six -peer mean struggling in poverty 六比贫困无疑
seven -peer mean “extreme strong” profile and the person becomes famous and wealthy七比势强反成名利

-Output (shi-shen 食神): this refers to children, talent, students

one -output element means the person is a scholar/ learned 一食才子
two -output mean the person likes eating 二食吃吃
three -output mean the person is stupid and swollen/ overweighted 三食愚肿
four -output mean the person is not too smart 四食弱智
five -output mean the person squanders family fortune on pleasure-making 五食败业贪欢
six -output mean the person tarnishing his family name and has a short life expectancy 六食妨祖短世
seven -output mean “follow output” profile and the person becomes a capable official 七食花红反到治世

THE INAUSPICIOUS 10-GODS GROUP

-Power (qi-sha 七杀): this refers to unofficial power
-Resource (pian-yin 偏印): this refers to step mother
+Peer (jie-cai 劫财): this refers to sibling, friends, coworkers and peers
+Output (shang-guan 伤官): this refers to children, talent, IQ, students
-Wealth (pian-cai 偏财): this refers to non-regular income and mistress (partially negative)

We only disclose the secret multiple meanings of “positive” or auspicious “10-Gods” here. The “negative” or inauspicious ones will be posted in my Bazi discussion groups. Membership in these groups requires taking at least one Bazi course from me.

Generally speaking, +wealth, +resource, -output, -peer and +power are categorically considered “positive” or auspicious. -Wealth is more positive than negative because it usually involves bigger wealth opportunities. -Resource, +output, +peer and -power are relatively “negative” or inauspicious. But all these assigned meanings are relative and not absolute. All could be positive or negative depending on the composition of a Bazi chart.

If you do not understand the Bazi terminology here, you may check:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2011/05/4p-bazi-terminology-conventions.html

If you want to learn Bazi reading but can only afford one Bazi course, this is the one to consider:

“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2020 edition” with 18 hr. video

Ken Lai

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com

14/08/2020

“This woman will marry 7 times and kill 7 husbands”

Posted by kenlai under 4P, Bazi, Chinese metaphysics, marital relationship, marriage, mate-selection | Tags: jinxing husband, marital relationship, mate-selection, serial polygamy |
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Note: Below is a case study posted in my Bazi discussion groups.

“This woman will marry 7 times and kill 7 husbands.” A blind fortune-teller in China told a Bazi enthusiast about one of his unusual readings.

This reading was done around 2009, so the woman was 28 (Ji-hai 10-years-luck) at that time. Here is her chart:

Female born: August 30, 1981, zi hour

Void Branch: shen/ you

10-years-luck when reading is done: Ji-hai

昨天他和我聊天,说他看了个女命,1981年8月初二子时的,他说她杀七夫,要结七次婚!果然那个跑了一二百里路来的女同志已经是结第六次婚了!

At time of reading, this woman had already married 6 times. “Kill 7 husbands” does not mean this woman is a serial killer. It means she jinxes 7 men to death eventually through marriage.

Could you figure out how does this blind fortune-teller arrived at jinxing 7 husbands?

Ken Lai

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Below is one of the possible explanations written by a group member:

Hi Ken,

I had a look at this interesting chart for the women who jinxes 7 husbands:

Here’s my observations:

Geng – Chen (Already a Strong day master- fai kong)

I note an outstanding feature of this chart: Full water formation, the rat, dragon and monkey – very strong water – in addition, it is the August – Metal month, so water is in season too.

Also her Bing (month stem ) and Xin (year stem) combine to form Water as it is also “in season” (monkey month).

Her chart is almost made up entirely of water – Because fire and water battle each other – the Water will win as it is in season.

Water is her Shi-shen and Shang-guan (her children ) so these in a woman’s chart can be naturally very overpowering (note: Water shang-guan hurts fire husband or power star). In her case water is super strong! It will kill her husband/partner element (he doesn’t stand a chance)

Metal and water are so strong in the chart, can mean – strong sex drive, very active organs and children. I could only think that she has :

Water elements : Zi (gui), Wu (gui) (Ren hidden in the Shen)

Then the combination – of Bing + Xin = 1 more water4 water features
Then I realised for the last she has metal : 3 strong metal elements which both support water. (metal her DM, Geng in (shen) and Xin (You) So I calculated in total 7 husbands/boyfriends. As the water and metal kill off the husbands!

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This is a great explanation written by the wife of a lucky fellow. I have asked her if she has found any “lethal weapons” in her own natal chart.

There are more mind-boggling explanations on how to arrive at 7 husbands in the original discussion. There is another “7-husbands woman” bonus case in the discussion posted in the forum. This is a great case study that I cannot resist putting this into that message:

“This tutorial alone worth the price paid for your course! Time to buy my “Sickness Bazi” or “Wealth Bazi” course if you have missed it. These two courses have 100’s of case studies that would catapult your 4P skills to another level.”

If you do not understand the Bazi terminology here, you may check:
http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2011/05/4p-bazi-terminology-conventions.html

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