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12/01/2019

Minimalist Feng Shui Guide for 2019 w/Astrology Guide

Posted by kenlai under 4-Pillars, 4P, Feng Shui | Tags: 2-black sickness, 2019 Feng Shui guide, 2019 Grand Duke, 2019 Minimalist Feng Shui, 5-yellow, 5-yellow remedy, clashing Grand Duke, fanyin, Grand Duke Remedy, Grand Duke Talisman, Ken Lai, San Sha |
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A picture is better than a thousand words. You get essential Feng Shui guidance for 2019 in a glance here. Ignore the additional notes and free Bazi guide below if you are busy or lazy (but it may save your life or marriage).

People with snake and pig animal sign should avoid seeing corpse putting in coffin or burying into the ground.

Remedy for 5-yellow disaster and 2-black sickness star– copper or brass objects. No fire or red object in these regions.

Center region is good for money this year. Sleep or sit there more often to attract wealth.

FREE ANNUAL ASTROLOGY/ BAZI GUIDE

People born in 1929, 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001 and 2013 with snake animal sign clash Grand Duke this year. This could mean:

moving
promotion or demotion
major illness
travels
funeral
accident/ death

Actually people with si (snake) day-branch in their Bazi charts are in more danger than animal sign clashing Grand Duke. They are: Ji-si, xin-si, gui-si, yi-si and ding-si day pillars. Day-branch stands for spouse palace. This may mean marital problems (if married, spouse may leave or die) but also means getting married if single.

In fact, any Bazi chart with Ji-si, xin-si, gui-si, yi-si and ding-si in any pillar of their Bazi chart have some troubles in terms of the family members each pillar represents. To find if your chart has any one of these pillars, key in your birthday here:

http://www.bazi-calculator.com

People with Gui-si and Yi-si day-pillars in their Bazi charts better pray more because their day-pillar fanyin Grand Duke (clashing 2019 Grand Duke from stem to branch). This could mean major sickness, accident or disaster to the person or his/her spouse. Avoid taking risks/ major decisions, attending funeral, visiting the sick in hospitals and unnecessary travels for this year of pig (2/4/2019- 2/3/2020).

One remedy for the above Grand Duke clash is to adopt a cat from your local animal humane society or rescue a stray/ homeless cat. This is because cat is yin or tiger in Bazi. Yin combines with Grand Duke Hai and neutralizes the clash.

If you cannot handle a cat adoption, the next best thing is to get a Grand Duke talisman from your local temple or from:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2018/12/2019-grand-duke-talisman-charity-drive.html

Ken Lai

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS” w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2018 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Move your bed, get a better boy/ girl friend

Posted by kenlai under bed Feng Shui, marriage | Tags: bed and romance, bed location, bedroom Feng Shui, dating, Feng Shui, Ken Lai, marital relationship, mate-selection, promotion, public relation, sales, social networking |
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Previous article mentions a bed-moving method to enhance romance luck of less socially active people. The method in this post is for people who are socially active and may even already have girl/ boy friends but want to get a “better” one or get a free UPGRADE.

This method is for people:

1. who are sociable and have met many opposite-sex friends but somehow are dissatisfied with the qualities of these friends as romantic partners.

2. who have many blind dates or referrals from pals or parents but are not happy with the appearance, intelligence, economic background and abilities of the prospective partners.

Here is how to do it: Use the center of your bedroom as reference, check the location of your bedroom door and relocate your bed to location listed in the table below: (for your convenience, I have also listed the one for less socially active people from previous post here)

“Ken, what can I do if I am not satisfied with the free UPGRADE?”

Great question! Come back next time and I will have a Catholic and a Buddhist priest to take you to their monastery or temple. You get free room and board for life (and no more love problems) if they take you.

Ken Lai

03/01/2019

Move your bed, change your romance luck

Posted by kenlai under Bazi, Feng Shui | Tags: bed and romance, bed location, bedroom Feng Shui, dating, Feng Shui, Ken Lai, marital relationship, mate-selection, promotion, public relation, sales, social networking |
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Not move your cheese! Today is your first lucky day of 2019 because you have clicked this link. Here is a simply method to change your opposite-sex luck by moving your bed.

This method enhances opposite-sex/ romance luck for:

1. people with poor opposite-sex luck

2. people who is not eager to fall in love (but their parents want them to).

3. people in sales/ public relations to enhance sociability/ networking.

Effects of this method:

1. Increases in social interactions

2. Enjoying life, increases in spending and consumption

You may move your bed to other location when you have achieved your romantic goal if you want to save some money.

Here is how to do it: Use the center of your bedroom as reference, check the location of your bedroom door and relocate your bed to location listed in the table below:

“Ken, what can I do if I am not satisfied with my current boy/ girl friend and want a better one?”

Great question! Come back next time for the second part of this article: “Move your bed and get a better boy/ girl friend”.

Ken Lai

27/12/2018

Top Secret Bazi Laws: Numerous vs. None

Posted by kenlai under 10 Gods, 4-Pillars, 4P, transformation star | Tags: 10 Gods, 4P, Bazi laws, blessing, clash, combination, Ken Lai, lu, output, peer, power, resource, tomb-storage, Traveling horse, wealth, yang-life, 八字定律 |
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Today is your lucky day to see the last batch of top secrets of the year.

Below are some secret Bazi laws that masters use to do quick reading:

八字定律：

命局财多愚，才多劳，官多贱，杀多死，印多孤，枭多凶，食多愁，伤多害，刃多残，劫多败，禄多贫，马多奔走，冲多不安，合多热心，阳多坦荡，阴多深重，墓库多克六亲，无财不真实，无官少压力，无印少福分。

Note: If you are not familiar with the terminology used here, check this link:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2011/05/4p-bazi-terminology-conventions.html

Chart with numerous (3+)

+wealth (zheng-cai): Daymaster (DM) is likely stupid
-wealth (pian-cai): DM likely works too much
+power (zheng-guan): DM is likely a lower class member/ depressed
-power (qi-sha): DM is likely to die prematurely
+resource (zheng-yin): DM is likely alone/ solitary
-resource (pian-yin): DM is likely a vicious person
+output (shang-guan): DM is likely a disaster/ arrogant
-output (shi-shen): DM worries too much/ likes eating
+peer (bi-jian): DM is likely a failure/ fantasizes too much
Yang-knives (+peer): DM likely has disability
Lu (-peer): DM likely lives in poverty
Traveling Horses (yin/shen/si/hai): DM travels a lot/ mobile, can’t sit still
clashes: instability and insecurity for DM
combinations: DM is enthusiastic and sociable
more yang than yin pillars: DM is open and honest
more yin than yang pillars: DM is not open and suspicious of others
tomb-storages (chen/xu/chou/wei): DM is likely jinxing close relatives

Chart with NO:

wealth star: DM is “not real” (everyone needs wealth to survive)
power star: DM has less pressure
resource star: DM has shortage of blessing

Of course, you also need to read other parts of a chart before you giving out comments based on above laws. There are always exceptions such as special profile charts which may give totally opposite meanings.

As you can see, a tiny paragraph written in Chinese takes almost one page to translate in brief. It would have taken another 2 pages if I explain what these mean in details.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Ken Lai

20/12/2018

2019 Grand Duke Talisman Charity Drive

Posted by kenlai under 4-Pillars, 4P, Bazi, Feng Shui, Grand Duke, Grand Duke Feng Shui remedy, Grand Duke Talisman | Tags: 2019 Grand Duke, Bazi, clashing Grand Duke, Feng Shui, Grand Duke Talisman, harming Grand Duke, house violating Grand Duke, Ken Lai, penalizing Grand Duke, year ruler |
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I have created a multi-years table for checking Grand Duke violations by birth year that you may use even after I had gone to see Buddha and Jesus. You may plan ahead with this table.

We still use the year 2011 old price for Grand Duke Talismans donation for this year. But you may donate more to your favorable charity if you wish.

This year we start the drive early, so you may take advantage of your usual Christmas or new year donations to get a GD talisman (and income tax deduction, if any).

For details on Grand Duke violations, you may read this posts:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2018/01/2018-grand-duke-talisman-charity-drive.html

To check if you have Grand Duke violation, check the highlighted last row (“Pig“) and check next section if you do not know your animal sign.

The animal sign with violations are pig, snake and monkey. House facing NW3 or hai mountain may need some remedies.

CHECKING YOUR BIRTH ANIMAL SIGN

RAT (years born: 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020, 2032, 2044)
OX (years born: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021, 2033, 2045)
TIGER (years born: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022, 2034 )
RABBIT (years born: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023, 2035 )
DRAGON (years born: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024, 2036)
SNAKE (years born: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013, 2025, 2037)
HORSE (years born: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026, 2038, 2050)
RAM (years born: 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027, 2039 )
MONKEY (years born: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016, 2028, 2040)
ROOSTER (years born: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017, 2029, 2041)

2019 GRAND DUKE VIOLATIONS

“Fu-yin” or same animal sign of Grand Duke 值太岁– people with pig sign

Symptoms: This is not a the worst violation. People with this animal sign usually will not have serious mishaps. They have have some minor health problem or mentally uncomfortable.

“Fan-yin” or “clashing” the animal sign of Grand Duke 冲太岁– people with snake sign

Symptoms: This is the worst violation. People with this violation are likely to have: big fluctuations and changes in luck, wealth, career, relationship and health; traffic accident, sickness like kidney, uterus, surgery, losing competitions/wealth, moving, death, negative romance, quarrels and etc.

“Hai” or “harming” the animal sign of Grand Duke害太岁– people with monkey sign

Symptoms: backstabbing at work, bad interpersonal relationship, marital disharmony, jinxing close relatives (esp. older ones, spouse and children), jealousy from others and minor health problems

“Xing” or “penalizing” the animal sign of Grand Duke刑太岁– people with pig sign

Symptoms: conflicts, backstabbing, injury, financial disagreements, lawsuits, scares, be careful with friends, romance problem and negative peach blossoms.

GRAND DUKE TALISMAN FOR FENG SHUI REMEDY

House violating Grand Duke

In 2019 ji-hai year, if your house faces hai-pig mountain or NW3 (322.5 to 337.5 degree, ) direction, your house is said to be “violating Grand Duke.” House violating GD will affect the overall luck, health and well-being of the people living inside. The remedy is either avoiding movements, construction, earth-digging and demolition there or put up a Grand Duke talisman facing NW3 direction. The opposite side of Grand Duke is Year-breaker (Sui-po, SE1). This location should avoid digging and activities too.

For details on house Grand Duke violations, check this post:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2016/12/what-is-house-violating-grand-duke-in.html

GRAND DUKE TALISMAN OFFERS

This year we use digital delivery of Grand Duke Talismans because “snail mail” is slow and prone to losses. Ken Lai will create a GD Talisman with user name, city and country imprinted, bless and “activate” individually on screen digitally. This unique activated GD file will be emailed to you. You can print as many copies as you want (but for one unique-named person only). In this way, you can replace soiled or damaged talismans yourself. You can carry one talisman in your wallet and post one in your home and/or office for Feng Shui remedy. You get more “mileage” from a single donation this way.

The offer is the same as previous years: your charity donation of US$30 or more to any legitimate local or international charity will get you a specially blessed Grand Duke talisman with your name inscribed (see below for special rate for countries with lower annual income per capita). Here are some sample charities suggested in the past drives:

homeless shelter
Save-the-Children (www.savethechildren.org)
UNICEF (United Nation Children’s Fund)
Smile Train (www.smiletrain.org)
children hospital
food shelves/soup kitchen
Red Cross
animal shelter/ humane society
Doctors without border (https://donate.doctorswithoutborders.org/onetime.cfm)

Donation made to help alleviate an urgent human/ animal need or suffering (e.g., feeding the hungry, tornado/ typhoon victims or homeless) gets you more “pain” or “misfortune” removed from you than donation for public good or improvement of public life like church/ temple or public radio/TV.

If you are worried about privacy issues and future solicitations– please be assured that I will not email you in the future. You will send me NO money. You send your money directly to your favorite local or international charity. You do NOT need to purchase any additional item from me or anyone else. No future solicitation of any type will be sent to you. This offer is for people who have no access to Daoist temples. Please support your local temple if you have access to one.

If you need more than one Grand Duke Talismans, here is the discount schedule:
–one talisman US$30 donation (US$5 if you are unemployed/under-employed)
–two talismans US$50 donation ($10 if unemployed /under-employed )
–three talismans US$60 donation ($15 if unemployed /under-employed )
(you may go to http://www.xe.com to calculate the equivalent of US$30 to your local currency)

NOTE: People from countries with annual personal income per capita income below US$8000.00 can use the “under-employed and unemployed rate“.

Talisman that is grounded with a charitable event works more effectively because it has an exchange of one type of energy for protection energy.

To claim your talismans and application instructions, please forward your donation receipt with the talisman recipient names and address to kenlai88@yahoo.com with the following info:

1. user name:

2. gender (sex):
2. city:
3. country:

Get your Grand Duke Talismans before Feb. 3, 2019 if possible. Year of Pig will start on Feb. 4, 2018 (11:16 am). Your individually consecrated digital talisman will be emailed to you or in about 1 week (after January 1, 2019) after receiving your proof of donation.

Thank you for participating in this charity drive.

Ken Lai

http://www.kenlaifengshui.com
email: kenlai88@yahoo.com

15/12/2018

Do you jinx your children? 克子女八字

Posted by kenlai under 4-Pillars, 4P, Bazi | Tags: 4P, Bazi, children luck, children palace, children prospect, children-jinxing, family relationship, favorable element, Ken Lai, output star, power star, resource star, useful god, void branch, 克子女八字 |
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Your Bazi natal chart can reveal a lot about you– your spouse, your wealth luck, your parents, your family background, if you are an angel or an ass, and even if you will jinx your children or not (time to take a Bazi course!)

People with the following Bazi characteristics in their natal Bazi chart may jinx their children:

1. “Children palace” location is occupation by unfavorable elements (ji-shen). Hour pillar is the children palace location. This means children is not good for the daymaster (DM) or they are just “average” and not doing too well.

2. Children palace is seriously clashed or penalized. This means children has little or no relationship (karma) with DM. live far away from DM or die prematurely.

3. Children palace sits on void branch. “Void” means nothing. DM may not have any children or children has little or no relationship (karma) with DM or DM cannot rely on them for old age support.

4. Children palace is occupied by output stars (shi-shen/ shang-guan) for male DM. Power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) mean children for male. The arch enemies of power stars are output stars. Hence when children palace is occupied by output stars implies jinxing children for a male DM– children do not like staying at home or have poor prospect or simply being “average“.

5. Children palace is occupied by resource stars (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) for female DM. Output stars (shi-shen/ shang-guan) mean children for female. The arch enemies of output stars are resource stars. Hence when children palace is occupied by resource stars implies jinxing children for a female DM– children do not like staying at home or have poor prospect or simply being “average“.

If you are smart, the same analytical technique can be applied to other pillars to examine other family relationship, like month pillar for parents or sibling relationship. This is equivalent to reading 1 article and get 3 free. Life is good for you.

Ken Lai

09/12/2018

12 Worrisome Birth Months of Chinese Zodiac Animals 属相十二愁月

Posted by kenlai under 4P, 4P Bootcamp, Bazi, Chinese zodiac, depressioin, Ken Lai | Tags: 12 animal sign and personality, birth month and personality, Chinese zodiac animal signs, depression, Ken Lai, personality, psychology, social interaction, worrisome month |
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In Chinese astrology, everyone is assigned an animal sign from a pool of 12 animals based on the birth year. This article discloses a rarely taught secret of “12 worrisome birth months“.

People who were born in their “worrisome month” of their own specific birth animal sign likely to have the following characteristics:

Personality: worrisome, gloomy, grumpy, down, pessimistic and feel disaster coming anytime, self-defeatist, “shooting oneself in the foot” type.

Life chances and social interactions: not getting along with neighbors and family relatives, loner and quiet type, lacking friends, marital problems and career problems.

HOW TO CALCULATE YOUR WORRISOME MONTH

Worrisome month is calculate in terms of solar months (it is about a month slower than western month). The easiest way to calculate it is to use the bazi-calculator link below, key in your birthday and check the left side table as shown below:

https://bazi-calculator.com/

The example below is to check someone with December 4, 1980 birthday was born in his worrisome month or not. The birth animal sign is monkey for the person and birth month is pig or hai.

Then we check the list of worrisome month in terms of birth animal sign below. The worrisome month for monkey sign is pig or hai month. Hence this person was born in a worrisome month (potential client for psychologist).

The followings are worrisome months based on Chinese zodiac animal signs:

RAT (years born: 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020, 2032, 2044)

–Worrisome month: rabbit or mao (second solar month)

OX (years born: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021, 2033, 2045)

–Worrisome month: dragon or chen (third solar month)

TIGER (years born: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022, 2034 )

–Worrisome month: pig or hai (10th solar month)

RABBIT (years born: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023, 2035 ) )

–Worrisome month: horse or wu (fifth solar month)

DRAGON (years born: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024, 2036)

–Worrisome month: ox or chou (twelfth solar month)

SNAKE (years born: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013, 2025, 2037)

–Worrisome month: tiger or yin month (first solar month)

HORSE (years born: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026, 2038, 2050)

–Worrisome month: rooster or you month (eighth solar month)

RAM (years born: 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027, 2039 )

–Worrisome month: dog or xu month (ninth solar month)

MONKEY (years born: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016, 2028, 2040)

–Worrisome month: snake or si month (fourth solar month)

ROOSTER (years born: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017, 2029, 2041)

–Worrisome month: rat or zi month (eleventh solar month)

DOG (years born: 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030, 2042)

–Worrisome month: ram or wei month (sixth solar month)

PIG (years born: 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2019, 2031, 2043 )

–Worrisome month: monkey or shen month (seventh solar month)

“Ken, can you explain the rationale behind these worrisome months?”

This will take 12 letter-sized pages to explain. Most of you will have no patience to read and me no time to write. For the intellectually curious– this has something to do with the interactions between the hidden elements inside the animal signs and the “12 life stages of stem” theory.

Now psychologists have one more tool to diagnose depression– to check if the patient was born in a worrisome month.

Ken Lai
© 2018 Ken Lai, all rights reserved.

Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS” w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2018 edition” with 18 hr. video

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