Most single women probably want to ask this question: “Will I get a good husband?”  Look no further.  Your own Bazi natal chart may have the answer.goodHubby

Below are 5 Bazi scenarios that a woman may get a good husband:

1.  Power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) are favorable elements in natal chart

Power stars stand for husband for a female chart.  Favorable element represents good support for the daymaster (DM) or woman here.  Power star is favorable element in a female chart means this DM will have a good husband.

2.  The element sitting in day branch or spouse palace is favorable

Some charts may not have power star.  In this case we check the element sitting inside spouse palace (day branch) to see if it is favorable or not.  If favorable, it means the potential husband will be nice and helpful to the DM.

3.  Power star combines with daymaster

This means husband gets along well with DM.  Even better if power star is also the favorable element and there is no “jealous combination” in the chart (i.e., no woman steal the good man).  In this scenario, this husband will love DM very much.

4.  Spouse palace is occupied by one of the 4 peach-blossom elements– zi, wu, mao or you. 

This husband will be handsome, sociable or knows how to please people.  However, this element must be favorable element to the chart to be positive to the DM.

5.  Wealth element sits in spouse palace

We all need wealth to survive.  Wealth stands for wife for man and also love for both sexes.  To check if the future husband has wealth (or capable of making wealth) or not, check DM’s spouse palace to see if it is occupied by a wealth element.  If wealth star sits there and is also the favorable element, DM’s husband is capable of making money and hopefully becoming rich (need to check the man’s chart too).

If you think logically, the scenarios above with minor modifications will be for a man in search of a good wife– simply change “power star” to “wealth star“.  Another ROGO (read-one-get-one) free article here!

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Believe it or not, you can find out if your marriage rocks, so-so or sucks from the day-pillar of your Bazi chart.MaritalBliss

The first part or stem of your day-pillar represents you, the “daymaster” or DM.  The second part or branch is the “spouse palace” and represents your spouse.  The “star” sits in your spouse palace will give you a glimpse of your marital bliss.

Don’t worry if you do not know Bazi.  You can read the Appendix below to figure out your day-pillar using your birthday.

MARITAL BLISS IN TERMS OF DAY-BRANCH

1. Male day branch with zheng-cai or pian-cai  (wealth star)

Day Pillars:  Yi-chou, Yi-wei, Bing-shen, Ding-you, Wu-zi, Ji-hai, Geng-yin and Ren-wu.  乙丑,乙未,丙申,丁酉,戊子,己亥,庚寅,壬午

  • Wealth is the wife star for a male daymaster.  Wealth sits in spouse palace for a man is called “Star and palace in the same place” 宫星同位.  This usually stands for a happy and perfect marriage.  If wealth star is also favorable, it means this man getting rich through wife or enjoying wife’s wealth. (Rating: Best)

2. Female day branch with zheng-guan or qi-sha (power star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-shen, Yi-you, Ding-hai, Ji-mao, Geng-wu, Xin-si, Gui-chou and Gui-wei. 甲申,乙酉,丁亥,己卯,庚午,辛巳,癸丑,癸未

  • Power is the husband star for a female daymaster.  Power star sits in spouse palace for a woman is called “Star and palace in the same place” 宫星同位.  This usually stands for a happy and perfect marriage.  If power star is also favorable, it means this couple love each other deeply and enjoy fame and wealth. (Rating: Best)

3. Both male and female day branch with zheng-yin or pian-yin (resource star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-zi, Yi-hai, Bing-yin, Ding-mao, Wu-wu, Ji-si, Geng-chen, Geng-xu, Xin-chou, Xin-wei, Ren-shen and Gui-you 甲子,乙亥,丙寅,丁卯,戊午,己巳,庚辰,庚戌,辛丑,辛未,壬申,癸酉

  • Resource stands for mother or older generation.  Resource star sits in your spouse palace means your spouse is like your mother nurturing and pampering you.  A Chinese saying goes “Marrying a mother-like wife or father-like husband” 娶妻像娘,嫁夫如父 .  This usually stands for a happy marriage.  It would be perfect If resource star is also favorable.  (Rating: Good)

4. Daymaster sitting on Shi-shen or Shang-guan (output star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-wu, Yi-si, Bing-chen, Bing-xu, Ji-you, Geng-zi, Xin-hai, Ren-yin and Gui-mao. 甲午,乙巳,丙辰,丙戌,己酉,庚子,辛亥,壬寅,癸卯

  • For male, output star nurtures wealth or wife star. So even output star is not the right star to sit in spouse palace, it still enhances wife star.  This situation will be good for strong male DM that favors wealth star (means a good marriage), but unfavorable for weak male DM (implying a disharmonious marriage). (Rating: OK)
  • For female, output star controls power or husband star. So not only output star is not the right star to sit in spouse palace, it further hurts husband star.  This usually means a less than satisfactory marriage if not jinxing the husband. (Rating: Bad)

5. Daymaster sitting on  Bi-jian or Jie-cai  (peer star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-wei, Ji-chou, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai. 甲寅,乙卯,丙午,丁巳,戊戌,戊辰,己未,己丑,庚申,辛酉,壬子,癸亥

  • Peer star stands for competitions, friends and siblings which will “snatch” wealth away.  When it sits in the spouse palace, it means competition to take your spouse away if not jinxing the wife!
  • For male DM, with peer instead of wealth star inside spouse palace, it is the “sign” for wife being “snatched” away.  This means marital disharmony and affair. (Rating: Bad)
  • For female DM, with peer instead of wealth star inside spouse palace, it is the “sign” for husband being “snatched” away.  Wealth nurtures power (husband) in Bazi.  But peer “snatches” wealth away and weakens the husband.  This means marital disharmony and affair.  This also has a relatively higher divorce rate. (Rating: OK)

This is a quick-and-easy way to check one’s marital bliss.  A more accurate reading would be taking into consideration of other stars and not just the star inside the spouse palace.

For possible remedies, consult my video courses below:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Coming Attraction:  In next blog, I will use this marital bliss theory to create an easy mate-selection guide. This guide will take over an hour to explain in live seminar but you can use it in a flash with my data reduction technique used in the blog.

APPENDIX:  How to find out your day-pillare4691-snap9_2017-02-23_003_
1.  Log into http://bazi-calculator.com/
2.  Type in your birthday
3.  Click “Calculate” button
4.  Check the “Day” column (second column) of the table in the left side
5.  The example here shows a Xin-si day-pillar

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Will your husband cheat?  Believe it or not, the answer may be found in your own Bazi chart!cheatHubby

In Bazi, power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) represent husband/ boy friend for women.  To check if your husband will cheat or not, you look at the interactions of power stars with your peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) in your own Bazi chart.  If there is/ are interactions would mean potential signs of cheating husbands or boy friends.  It could also mean long courtship/ cohabitation with separations as ending.

If your natal chart meets any one of the following conditions, your husband is a potential cheater:

  1. Peer star snatches power star“(比劫夺官 ):  Peer stars are daymaster’s (DM) sisters, friends of same gender and colleagues.  Power star is husband.  When peer star snatching power star happens, it means close friend or even sister has “snatched” DM’s husband away or simply having affair with DM’s husband.  The likelihood is higher when peer and power star are in the same pillar.  If peer star and power star show up in stem level, it means they have the affair openly without fear.  If both stars are in the branch level, the affair is going on in secret.
  2.   Power star is combined away (官杀被合 ):  Power star represents a woman DM’s husband.  When it is combined away means her husband is taken away .  For example, bing-fire is the power star of xin-metal female DM.  If there is another xin-metal in the chart, especially if it is next to bing-fire, the probability of xin-metal DM losing her husband to another female will be high.
  3. Peer star in day-branch (日支见比劫星 ):  Day-branch is the location of spouse palace or husband in a chart.  This palace prefers seeing wealth or power but not peer star.  If peer star is unfavorable in the chart, mistress may likely show up.

For example:  female chart 

  • YEAR:  Gengwu
  • DAY:   Yi-you
  • MONTH:  Geng-yin
  • HOUR:  Geng-chen

Female Geng-metal DM’s husband is wu-fire.  Wu-fire is in the year pillar.  This means her husband is likely from far away or out of state/ province.  Wu-fire is surrounded by metal (this means peer stars snatching him away).  This women had many unsuccessful romances with out-of-state boy friends.

If your chart does not see any power star, never mind if your husband will cheat or not, worry about how to get a husband first.  Usually this means you may have problem getting a husband or lacking relationship with husband if getting one.

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Male readers may find a new explanation for cheating– “wife’s chart shows that I will cheat“.  Female readers can tell their hubbies why they keep following them or put a male chastity belt on them in certain periods.  However, there are subtle and low profile Bazi remedies than these in-your-face fixes.

For possible Bazi remedies, you may take these courses:

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With Bazi knowledge, one can predict when the cheating episode may happen and do preventive measures.  It is also possible to check if your boy friend or husband will cheat or not by reading his Bazi chart too (equal opportunity Bazi reading here).  This may be a future post.

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How do you check if your spouse is prone to be “snatchedspouseSnatch away by another person or a “cheating heart”?

Below is a list of Bazi or 4-pillars conditions in a chart that will have love competitions or “spouse-snatcher” showing up:

Male chart with numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) Zheng-cai (+wealth) star stands for wife and pian-cai (-wealth) mistress for man.  Peer stars are the competitions that want to snatch your love.  This is especially valid for man DM with yang stems like jia, bing, wu, geng and ren.  If natal chart and/or luck period comes another +peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your wife or lover.  For example, ren-water male DM has another ren in his natal chart and/or another ren coming from luck period. 

Female chart with numerous output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen) Shang-guan (+ouput) and shi-shen (-output) stars attracts opposite sex but also the cause of losing one’s love.  This is especially valid if +output is in the month-branch or day-branch.   It means her spouse may find another competition for you

Female DM with yin stem like yi, ding, ji, xin and gui — if her natal chart and/or luck period comes another -peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your husband or lover.  For example, ding-fire female DM has another ding-fire in her natal chart and/or another ding coming from luck period.

When luck period clashes or combines with one’s spouse palace (day-branch)           — assuming you have already married or with a steady partner, when this happens, there will be turbulence in your relationship.  This is especially likely when bi-jian or peach-blossom star (zi, wu, mao, or you) clashes or combines with spouse palace.

When the wealth star of a male chart combines with luck period — this is the signal of another woman coming into the system.  Wealth star stands for wife and mistress for man.

When the power star of a female chart combines with luck period — this is the signal of another man coming into the system.  Power star stands for husband and lover for woman.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE

Whether your spouse or partner is guilty of cheating or not, is not always clearcut.  It could be the “script” or fate already written in your natal Bazi chart.  The best strategy is to read the natal charts of yourself and your potential partner before going “steady”.  If it is too late to do that, read the chart for the most dangerous years and avoid or keep an eye on opposite sex interactions during the period.  There are some possible preventive remedies shown in my “Destiny and Luck management” courses (see below for details).

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woman_selectThe “Secret dating guide for men” post is one of the top 3 most popular posts in this blog month after month.  Being an equal opportunity discriminator, I write up the corresponding guide for women.

Similar to the “Secret dating guide for men“, this guide is a negative guide– what not to pick.  It will help women identify unfaithful men, horny dogs and wife-beaters with Bazi.

Don’t worry about not knowing anything about Bazi (or 4-Pillars).  The appendix below will show you how to calculate the “day branch” of your potential partner.

This dating guide shows you a list of male daymasters (DM or your potential mate) born in certain days of the year.  Women may want to think twice before taking the marriage vow with these men.  Men born in the days listed below are likely to be unfaithful husbands/partners or simply jinxing their wives (not in absolute sense, still need to see other elements in his chart or consult a Bazi reader).

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF UNDESIRABLE MALE PARTNER

Match the “day pillar” (birth day) of your potential mate to see if his chart has any of the following characteristics.

  1. Male chart with numerous or strong pian-cai (-wealth) elementsaffair

— “Pian-cai” (-wealth) stands for unstable love or affairs and mistress/lover.  Chart with numerous “pian-cai” means this man (DM) is likely fickle in love, lusty and disloyal.   If you find 2 or more “pian-cai” elements in a man’s chart, you probably should walk away.  Table below shows you how to spot “pian-cai” in a chart.

  • Jia-wood DM with wu– and/ or chen-/xu-earth in chart 
  • Yi -wood DM with ji– and/ or chou-/wei-earth in chart
  • Bing-fire DM with geng- and/ or shen-metal in chart
  • Ding-fire DM with xin– and/ or you-metal in chart
  • Wu-earth DM with ren– and/ or zi-water in chart
  • Ji-earth DM with gui– and/ or hai-water in chart
  • Geng-metal DM with jia– and/ or yin-wood in chart
  • Xin-metal DM with yi– and/ or mao-wood in chart
  • Ren-water DM with bing– and/ or si-fire in chart
  • Gui-water DM with ding– and/ or wu-fire in chart
  1. Chart with strong output star/s chasing wealth stars

— Output stars means “shang-guan” and “shi-shen“.  They represent DM’s desire and impulses (and also sex organ!).  Strong output stars in a chart means DM has strong sexual desire and is impulsive.  If the chart has weak or no power star to control this desire, DM is likely be a lustful person, especially if output star is with wealth star in the same pillar.   Output stars for:

  • Jia-wood DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-fire 
  • Yi-wood DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-firehorny
  • Bing-fire DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth
  • Ding-fire DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
  • Wu-earth DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Ji-earth DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Geng-metal DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
  • Xin-metal DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
  • Ren-water DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
  • Gui-water DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood 
  1. DM with numerous peer stars

— Peer stars means “bi-jian” and “jie-cai” which stand for friends, sibling and colleagues.  In Bazi, there is a saying of “peer stars snatch wealth“.  Wealth means wife.  A strong male DM with numerous peer stars is likely “sharing” (“involuntarily” or unknowingly) a women with other men or simply jinxing wife (or wife runs away with another man!).  Besides, men with strong peer stars are likely have a impulsive personality and are possessive toward their spouses.  They are also potential wife-beaters if chart has no power star to control the peer stars.  Peer stars of:

  • Jia-wood DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
  • Yi-wood DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
  • Ding-fire DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-fire
  • Bing-fire DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-fire 
  • Wu-earth DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
  • Ji-earth DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
  • Geng-metal DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Xin-metal DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Ren-water DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
  • Gui-water DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water 
  1. DM with “jie-cai” peer star in day branch or spouse palace

— Day branch is the spouse palace of a person.  “Jie-cai ” or peer star controls “cai” or wife and sits in spouse palace means jinxing wife.  This means divorce, disharmony, wife is chronically sick or wife dies prematurely.  Think twice if your potential husband has any one of the following day pillars:

  • Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-chou, Ji-wei, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai days 
  1. Spouse palace is clashed in the natal chart

Day branch is the “spouse palace“.  When it is clashed, it means unstable marriage or jinxing spouse.  This clash could be between month and day branch or day and hour branch.  Below are the six possible clashes:

  • zi-wu  (rat and horse clash)
  • mao-you  (rabbit and rooster clash)
  • yin-shen  (tiger and monkey clash)
  • si-hai  (snake and pig clash)
  • chen-xu  (dragon and dog clash)
  • chou-wei  (ox and ram clash)

The follow branch interactions are also unfavorable to marriage:

  • self-penalties between day/month and day/hour (chen-chen, hai-hai, you-you, wu-wu (horse))
  • 3-penalties between branches and luck periods (yi-si-shen, xu-chou-wei, zi-mao)
  • when 10-year-luck period clashing day-branch
  1. DM with strong metal and water

— DM with strong metal and water implies strong kidney and sexual desire (and likely extra-marital activities).  This is especially likely to happen when DM is metal.  “Strong” means DM has 2+ metal and 2+ water elements in the chart.

  1. DM with strong fire and hot earth

This means a chart with mostly fire and hot earth (wei– and xu-earth).  DM has strong urge and hyperactive sexual desire that “normal” marital life may not satisfy his demands (and goes for extra-marital sex).  Generally speaking, people born in summer months of si, wu and wei have strong fire and earth in their charts.

If your man hits one of the above, you may not need to dump him.  But if he hits 3+ of the above, consider yourself lucky for reading this post (and run away from the guy fast).  But you may want to consult a Bazi reader and take a Bazi course before dumping a guy.

Appendix:  How to find the day-branch of a persone8f1a-sample

  1. Go to http://bazi-calculator.com/
  2. Type in the birthday and gender (F or M) in the input table in the left side.
  3. Click “CALCULATE” box
  4. Check the left color table below the input table.  See the example here:
  5. The third color column (counting from right to left) is the day branch of the person.  It is “Geng-shen” in this example of someone born in June 24, 1990.

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love_rival4This article shows the characteristics of Bazi charts that are likely to have “love rival” or competition and when this rival will show up.  Rival also means spousal affair if you are married.

If you are not familiar with Bazi terms, log into bazi-calculator.com and key in your birthday to find out your daymaster (in the day column) and the terms listed below.

Male natal chart with numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) is prone to love rival.  Peer stars stand for competitions for your girl friend or wife.  This is especially likely to happen for yang daymasters like jia, bing, wu, geng and ren (i.e. male born in these days).  The chance of rivalry increases if this is also a strong male DM.  This rivalry is likely to happen during DM’s peer luck  (bi-jian/ jie-cai) periods.

love_rival3Female natal chart with numerous output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen) is prone to love rival.  Output stars stand for pressure and jinx for boy friend or husband, resulting in him running away or going for other women or affairs (if not jinxed to death in extreme case).   This is especially likely to happen for women with strong +output stars (shang-guan) due to her strong personality.  Female yin daymasters like yi, ding, ji, xin and gui are more likely to have love rivalry.  The chance of rivalry increases if this is also a weak female DM.  This rivalry is likely to happen during DM’s output luck  (shang-guan/ shi-shen) periods.

Love rivalry or affair can happen to people who are do not fit the above parameters, even with stable love or marriage.  This may happen when 10-years-luck or annual luck pillar clashing DM’s day branch (spouse palace) or peer star combining with this branch.

Another possibility of love rivalry happens when a male DM’s wealth star (i.e. zheng-cai/ pian-cai; wife) or female DM’s power star (i.e. zheng-guan/ qi-sha; husband) is combined away by luck pillar.

Ken, is there any remedy or prevention measure available?”

Yes, consult your teacher or take these courses:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Ken Lai


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