The table below shows the auspicious days to get married in 2020 based on traditional Chinese calendar converted to western dates.marry

HOW TO USE THIS CALENDAR:

  1. Choose a date.
  2. Make sure the date chosen does not clash the Chinese birth animal sign of the couple.  If it clashes the parent/s of the couple, the remedy is to make sure the parent/s do not enter the church/ ceremonial place with the couple (enter later).  Here are the clashing animal pairs: ram/ ox, rat/ horse, rabbit/ rooster, tiger/ monkey, snake/ pig and dragon/ dog. 
  3. Sha location” or direction is the negative energy location of the day.  The couple does not drive or walk towards that direction in that day.

AUSPICIOUS MARRIAGE DATES IN 2020

DATE Week day Clash/ Sha location
2020/01/03 Friday Pig/east
2020/01/08 Wednesday Dragon/ north
2020/01/13 Monday Rooster/ west
2020/01/14 Tuesday Dog/ south
2020/01/16 Thursday Rat/ north
2020/01/25 Saturday Rooster/ west
2020/01/27 Monday Pig/east
2020/01/28 Tuesday Rat/ north
2020/01/30 Thursday Tiger/ south
2020/02/01 Saturday Dragon/ north
2020/02/02 Sunday Snake/ west
2020/02/09 Sunday Rat/ north
2020/02/10 Monday Ox/ west
2020/02/12 Wednesday Rabbit/ east
2020/02/15 Saturday Horse/ south
2020/02/18 Tuesday Rooster/ west
2020/02/22 Saturday Ox/ west
2020/02/24 Monday Rabbit/ east
2020/03/01 Sunday Rooster/ west
2020/03/02 Monday Dog/ south
2020/03/05 Thursday Ox/ west
2020/03/08 Sunday Dragon/ north
2020/03/10 Tuesday Horse/ south
2020/03/13 Friday Rooster/ west
2020/03/16 Monday Rat/ north
2020/03/17 Tuesday Ox/ west
2020/03/23 Monday Ram/ east
2020/03/29 Sunday Ox/ west
2020/04/01 Wednesday Dragon/ north
2020/04/03 Friday Horse/ south
2020/04/05 Sunday Monkey/ north
2020/04/09 Thursday Rat/ north
2020/04/17 Friday Monkey/ north
2020/04/19 Sunday Dog/ south
2020/04/24 Friday Rabbit/ east
2020/04/29 Wednesday Monkey/ north
2020/04/30 Thursday Rooster/ west
2020/05/03 Sunday Rat/ north
2020/05/07 Thursday Dragon/ north
2020/05/12 Tuesday Rooster/ west
2020/05/15 Friday Rat/ north
2020/05/17 Sunday Tiger/ south
2020/05/18 Monday Rabbit/ east
2020/05/19 Tuesday Dragon/ north
2020/05/21 Thursday Horse/ south
2020/05/23 Saturday Monkey/ north
2020/05/25 Monday Dog/ south
2020/05/27 Wednesday Rat/ north
2020/05/30 Saturday Rabbit/ east
2020/06/02 Tuesday Horse/ south
2020/06/07 Sunday Pig/east
2020/06/09 Tuesday Ox/ west
2020/06/10 Wednesday Tiger/ south
2020/06/11 Thursday Rabbit/ east
2020/06/15 Monday Ram/ east
2020/06/18 Thursday Dog/ south
2020/06/22 Monday Tiger/ south
2020/06/23 Tuesday Rabbit/ east
2020/06/24 Wednesday Dragon/ north
2020/06/27 Saturday Ram/ east
2020/06/30 Tuesday Dog/ south
2020/07/01 Wednesday Pig/east
2020/07/03 Friday Ox/ west
2020/07/10 Friday Monkey/ north
2020/07/13 Monday Pig/east
2020/07/16 Thursday Tiger/ south
2020/07/17 Friday Rabbit/ east
2020/07/18 Saturday Dragon/ north
2020/07/22 Wednesday Monkey/ north
2020/07/23 Thursday Rooster/ west
2020/07/25 Saturday Pig/east
2020/07/27 Monday Ox/ west
2020/07/28 Tuesday Tiger/ south
2020/07/29 Wednesday Rabbit/ east
2020/07/30 Thursday Dragon/ north
2020/08/03 Monday Monkey/ north
2020/08/04 Tuesday Rooster/ west
2020/08/07 Friday Rat/ north
2020/08/08 Saturday Ox/ west
2020/08/09 Sunday Tiger/ south
2020/08/11 Tuesday Dragon/ north
2020/08/13 Thursday Horse/ south
2020/08/16 Sunday Rooster/ west
2020/08/18 Tuesday Pig/east
2020/08/19 Wednesday Rat/ north
2020/08/20 Thursday Ox/ west
2020/08/21 Friday Tiger/ south
2020/08/25 Tuesday Horse/ south
2020/08/28 Friday Rooster/ west
2020/08/29 Saturday Dog/ south
2020/08/31 Monday Rat/ north
2020/09/01 Tuesday Ox/ west
2020/09/07 Monday Ram/ east
2020/09/11 Friday Pig/east
2020/09/12 Saturday Rat/ north
2020/09/14 Monday Tiger/ south
2020/09/19 Saturday Ram/ east
2020/09/22 Tuesday Dog/ south
2020/09/24 Thursday Rat/ north
2020/09/26 Saturday Tiger/ south
2020/10/01 Thursday Ram/ east
2020/10/04 Sunday Dog/ south
2020/10/06 Tuesday Rat/ north
2020/10/08 Thursday Tiger/ south
2020/10/10 Saturday Dragon/ north
2020/10/17 Saturday Pig/east
2020/10/18 Sunday Rat/ north
2020/10/20 Tuesday Tiger/ south
2020/10/21 Wednesday Rabbit/ east
2020/10/27 Tuesday Rooster/ west
2020/10/30 Friday Rat/ north
2020/11/03 Tuesday Dragon/ north
2020/11/09 Monday Dog/ south
2020/11/11 Wednesday Rat/ north
2020/11/15 Sunday Dragon/ north
2020/11/17 Tuesday Horse/ south
2020/11/21 Saturday Dog/ south
2020/11/29 Sunday Horse/ south
2020/12/02 Wednesday Rooster/ west
2020/12/05 Saturday Rat/ north
2020/12/12 Saturday Ram/ east
2020/12/16 Wednesday Pig/east
2020/12/24 Thursday Ram/ east
2020/12/28 Monday Pig/east

 

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On March 13, 2016 at 3 PM,  a black male cat was killed by a traffic accident near  a housing complex in Chongqing City, China.  A yellow female cat had stood guard near the body of the male cat and refused to leave despite the traffic.

This cat is very intelligent.  I am touched deeply 這貓太有靈性了,真的好感人”.  “Cat also griefs like human 貓也重情,不比人差 ”  Some pedestrians had commented.  cat_Qing

This female cat had kissed the male cat body frequently as if trying to “wake up” the male cat.  She also had circled around the motionless body, smelled his back, licked his tail, pushed his head with her paws and even jumped over his body from time to time.

She became nervous and crawled around the male cat whenever a car was driving by.

Bystanders were saddened by the actions of this yellow cat.  Though they had worried about her safety,  they did not want to disturb her or move her to safety.

According to the security guard of the nearby housing complex, these two cats are a stray cat couple in this area.  The deceased cat was the male partner.

Policeman there had determined the male cat was dead and made arrangement to have the carcass removed.

The security guard said that if this yellow cat stays in the area, he and the residents will feed her.

This female had stayed with the male cat carcass till the very end.

Cat also griefs.

RIP Black cat.

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On last Valentines Day (Feb. 14, 2016), someone in China has posted the pictures of two geese “goodbye kissing” with a poem:

  • Kissing my love goodbye 与君吻离别,
  • Sending you off to the village exit 相送到村口,
  • Sunset stretching our shadows 夕阳长身影,
  • From now on we are separated forever 自此各天涯!

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geese_lovershadowThese pictures become viral in the Chinese internet and are re-posted by numerous news agencies in China. Netizens said these are the most touching photos of 2016 Valentines Day.  They lamented that life is similar to the fate of these two geese lovers.  One wrong turn or incident may end a relationship forever.  “We should treasure the nice people around us now and not after we have lost them.”

Reporters have located the owner of these two geese– Miss Deng of Guangdong Province.  Her parents had raised these geese for over a year in their ancestral village.

On the second day of Lunar New Year (Feb. 9, 2016), her father had gifted the female goose to his relative.  Mr. Deng had tied up the goose, put her in a paper box and further wrapped the box with a bag.  He then tied the whole box to the back of his motorcycle.  The male goose was agitated and attempted to untie the strings wrapped around the female goose with his beck.  Miss Deng was very surprised by the male goose’s behavior.  His action was very affectionate too.  He also honked sadly as if begging the master to release the female goose.

The Deng family members also felt sad to send the goose off.  But their relative had rushed them to bring the goose for dinner.  Eventually the female goose was delivered to the relative and become part of the new year dinner.geese_roasted

What has happened to the male goose?  He was slaughtered later too.  Miss Deng said her parents will leave the village to the city to work, leaving no one to take care of the goose.  They took care of business by putting him into their stomachs.

Miss Deng hopes that netizens could understand that the final destiny of family raised geese– becoming food.

Many readers have posted poems to memorialize these two geese lovers.  Some even created follow-up stories with their imagination and Photoshop skills.  Below is one of the popular ones.

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While these two lover geese cannot “rest in peace“, but at least they are now meeting in geese heaven.  We thank them for teaching us a lesson about love and living our lives.  Maybe this is the mission of their current lifetime.  We pray for them to move on to a higher realm of being in their next lives.

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He-chi Daily of Guang-Xi Province in China has published a photo essay about a 70+ years old couple in mid April, 2015.  The essay become viral and was carried by numerous Chinese print and digital media around the world.

Wei is the 76 years old wife.  Huang is the 80 years old husband.  They have been married 55 years ago.

On the day of their wedding, Huang had promised to take care of Wei for life.

“我管你这辈子了。”

“I will depend on you forever.”  Replied Wei.

“这辈子我也就依靠你了。”

The couple live on a small plot of land and raise some chicken and ducks.  They have been living in poverty through out their lives.  The longest trip that they made is to the nearby county fair which is within walking distance.

They have no children.

In 1985, Huang had eye problems and gradually lost his eyesight.  Wei becomes his eyes and takes him around town using a bamboo stick.  She tells him what she sees on the roads and updates him on the gossips in their village.

The couple walking hand-in-hand with a bamboo stick

It is 30 years since Huang had gone blind.  Aging also catches up with Wei.  She has osteoporosis and walks with a stooped posture that limits her field of view.  But this disability does not stop her from being the “walking stick” of her husband.  The touching sight of this affectionate couple walking together with a bamboo stick becomes a famous scene of the town.

A thought-provoking view for everyone within their path

Wei is an illiterate and let Huang make financial calculations and decisions on the buying and selling of their daily necessities and produces.

The couple discuss what to buy.
Wei took out money to buy cigarettes for Huang
They walk together across the bridge
…. walking together on beaten path
… and up the hills
walking downstairs
“I’m his eyes.  He is all of me!”

For the past 55 years, Wei listens to and abides by her husband.  She does not give up nor abandon him.  “I am his eyes.  He is all of me!”  Said Wei.

55年来,韦桂义对丈夫言听计从、不离不弃。我是他的眼睛,他是我的全部!韦桂义说.

Neither poverty nor physical disabilities could break their promises to each other.

Love can be as simple as staying together.  

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