Below are the Bazi characteristics of people who are likely to perish in wars or man-made disasters like terrorist attack or mass-shooting.

BAZI CHART CHARACTERISTIC OF WAR DEAD

1. Peer stars (jie-cai/ bi-jian) are unfavorable (“annoying god“) because war involves many people of similar age groups.

2. Chart with serious clash, penalties and breakage:  these are signs of life-threatening events by itself.

3. This person stay in unfavorable location (in terms of his/her unfavorable element):  for example, person with chen (SE) in chart goes to xu (NW) battlefield.

4. Charts with 2-elements battling like wood fights earth, water battles fire and the like.  These chart owners are prone to sudden or violent death.

5. Charts that are extremely strong or extremely weak are prone to sudden death.

Above characteristics are also applicable to victims of airline disasters, stampede, riots and the like.

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The first step of a Bazi reading is to determine if the client has a “strong” or “weak” daymaster (DM) by counting the supporting and non-supporting elements in the birth chart.  “Daymaster” is a term for describing the owner of a Bazi chart.

Unfortunately, the terms “strong DM” and “weak DM” seem to infuse value judgment to some clients.  They may think a “strong daymaster” is better than a “weak” one.

While there are some distinct personality and physical characteristics associated with strong and weak DM, they are by no means “better” or “worse” but “different“.

The ultimate yardstick to measure, regardless of DM strength (“weak” or “strong“), is if there are more favorable than unfavorable luck periods (10-years-luck) in a chart.  For example, the favorable elements of a strong metal person are non-supporting elements like fire, wood and water.  Unfavorable elements are supporting elements like metal and earth.

If this strong metal DM has mostly metal and earth luck periods, especially during his first few 10-year-luck periods, this DM will not have a good life.

On the other hand, if this is a weak metal DM, metal and earth are his favorable elements.  If his luck periods are mostly metal and earth luck, he will enjoy a good life despite being a weak DM.

Similar logic also apply to “chart quality“.  One can have the chart of a king but with mostly unfavorable luck periods– his life will not be better than a born humble person with favorable luck periods.  For examples, King Louis XVI was guillotined during the French Revolution and Tsar Nicholas II was assassinated in 1918.

Good luck periods are more important than a good birth chart” is the saying in Bazi.

PS:  To find out if you have a strong or weak DM, read the following:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2018/05/wealth-enhancement-using-your.html

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Change luck” here means someone has less than average or low luck before marrying.  His/ her luck changes significantly after getting married.changeLuck

In general, people who have low or below average luck during their teen and early adult life have strong unfavorable elements in the year and month pillar of their Bazi charts.  This is because year and month pillar represent these age periods and also family background.

In addition, more than likely, their first two or three10-years-luck periods are mostly unfavorable too.

People who will get better luck after getting married IF their Bazi charts have the following features:

1.  Spouse star is favorable in the chart:  For male, the spouse star is wealth star (zheng-cai) and female is power star (zheng-guan).

2.  Spouse palace (day-branch) is favorable:  This means the element occupying spouse palace is favorable to the chart.

Of course, there are people with their luck changed for the better after marrying but does not have the above two features in their charts.  This is likely due to their 10-years-luck is favorable at time of marriage and is NOT attributed to the act of marrying.

Smart readers would figure out that the opposites of #1 and 2 in a chart mean worse (not better) luck after getting married!

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How?  Simply check your potential wife’s birth chart to see if it matchesdead_husband any of the followings.  The more her chart matches the  entries below, the faster you should run away.

HUSBAND-JINXING FEMALE BAZI CHART CHARACTERISTICS:

  1. Shang-guan (+output) sits in spouse palace (day-branch):  +Output is the “enemy” of husband star (+power).  This is especially “jinxing” if +output is unfavorable in the chart.
  2. Zheng-guan (+power, husband) sits next to a shang-guan (+output) star in the chart.
  3. Chart has weak +power star in stem level with output luck periods during adult life period will likely jinx husband.
  4. There is a “3-penalties” involving spouse palace in the chart.  It is worse if +power or husband star is part of the 3-penalties elements.  This could be death.
  5. Chart with +power star entombed implies a weak or short life-expectancy husband.

“Ken, what can I do if I am hopelessly in love with a woman who has a hubby-jinxing chart?”

Obviously today is your lucky day.  This article probably could save your life.  Simply find a Bazi reader or take the following courses for remedies:

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“Ken, will you have an article on wife-jinxing chart?”

This is a BOGO free article, simply substituting husband star (zheng-guan, +power) with wife star (zheng-cai, +wealth) and  shang-guan (+output star) with jie-cai (+peer star)— you get the wife-jinxing chart characteristics absolutely free.

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According to dictionary.com, jinx as a noun is defined as “a person, thing, or influence supposed to bring bad luck.”  Jinx as a verb is someone who “brings bad luck to; places a jinx on...”. 

The Chinese word for jinx is “ke” (克) which literally means “to restraint, subdue or overcome“.

However, even many Chinese readers have misunderstood the meaning of jinx and equated it to “jinxing someone to death“.

In the context of marriage, spouse-jinxing means the marriage has many problems and issues than average couples.

One way to determine if someone jinxes his/ her spouse is through reading his/ her Bazi birth chart.  Male chart with strong or numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) likely jinxes his wife (and also father).  Female chart with strong or numerous output stars (shi-shen/ shang-guan) likely jinxes her husband.

MANIFESTATIONS OF WIFE/ HUSBAND-JINXING

  1.  Problems getting married, late marriage or even remain single.
  2.  Disharmony between the couple after marrying; argue and fight all the time.
  3.  Separated due to career/ work or relationship problem.
  4.  Extended period of sex life issues.
  5.  Domestic violence (by husband or wife).
  6.  Husband or wife has chronic or severe illness.
  7.  Divorce.
  8.  Spouse had died prematurely (before age 60).
  9.  The divorced husband/ wife will likely remarry someone who has also divorced.
  10.  Someone whose spouse had died prematurely, when remarrying, s/he like will marry someone who will die prematurely too.

If a person’s chart shows “jinxing” certain family member, it is NOT that person causing the death or misfortune of that member.  It is the destiny of that member regardless who runs into that position (as in the context of marriage).

Ken, is there any remedy for spouse-jinxing?

The most common fix is to find someone who also jinxes spouse.  When a couple who jinx each other may neutralize the overall jinx.  For other remedies, please take my:

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Today is your lucky day!  After reading this post, you can predict one’s marriage life in general without knowing much about Bazi.

Here are the step by step procedures:

  1.   Use the birthday the person and convert it into a Bazi natal chart with 4 columns.  Each column is called a “pillar“.  Our focus is on the day-pillar (see Appendix below for simple procedures to do it).
  2. Write down the name of the day pillar from the Bazi-Calculator output (see Appendix).  In the Appendix below the example day pillar is geng-shen.
  3. Match the entries below and read explanations.

KEY TO DAY-PILLAR AND MARITAL BLISS happy_marriage

Day-pillar consists of two parts.  The upper part is the day-stem or daymaster which represents the chart owner.  Lower part is the day-branch or “spouse palace“.  It represents the spouse of the daymaster (DM).  This method checks which star occupies the spouse palace to determine marital bliss of the chart owner.

1. Great and happy marriage for male daymaster with wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) in  day-branch (spouse palace). Wealth star stands for wife for a male DM. If wealth star is favorable, the male may get wealth from wife or her family.  If DM is a female, the marriage is also above average because wealth star nurtures power star (husband star for female).  There are eight day-pillars in this category:  yi-chou, yi-wei, bing-shen, ding-you, wu-zi, ji-hai, geng-yin and ren-wu.

2. Great and happy marriage for female daymaster with power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) in day-branch (spouse palace). Power star stands for husband for a female DM. If power star is favorable, the husband is famous with high status.  If DM is a male, the marriage is also above average if he is a strong DM.  There are eight day-pillars in this category:  jia-shen, yi-you, ding-hai, ji-mao, geng-wu, xin-si, gui-chou and gui-wei. 

3. Good and happy marriage for female daymaster with resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) in day-branch (spouse palace). Resource star stands for mother or older generation.  Resource star in spouse palace means spouse nurturing DM.  Hence it will be a happy and blissful marriage for both male and female DM. There are twelve day-pillars in this category: jia-zi, yi-hai, bing-yin, ding-mao, wu-wu, ji-si, geng-chen, geng-xu, xin-chou, xin-wei and ren-shen.

4.Different outcomes for female and male daymaster with output star (shang-guan/ shi-shen) in day-branch (spouse palace). Output star nurtures wealth star (wife for male DM).  Output star is favorable when DM is strong.  Hence for strong male DM with output star in spouse palace will have an above average marriage but poor relationship if this male DM is weak.  Output star hurts power star (husband for female DM).  Hence, marital relationship will be bad if female DM has output star sitting in spouse palace.  There are nine day-pillars in this category: jia-wu, yi-si, bing-chen, bing-xu, ji-you, geng-zi, xin-hai, ren-yin and gui-mao.unhappy_marriage

5. High divorce rate for both female and male daymasters with peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai) in day-branch (spouse palace). Peer star controls or “snatches” wealth star (wife for male DM) and drains power star (husband for female DM).  Hence people with this peer star in spouse palace have higher divorce rate.  There are twelve day-pillars in this category: jia-yin, yi-mao, bing-wu, ding-si, wu-xu, ji-wei, ji-chou, geng-shen, xin-you, ren-zi and gui-hai.

6. Incorrect yin-yang days are inauspicious for marriage.  Both male and female born in these days will remarry. There are 12 “Incorrect yin-yang days” (阴阳差错日):  bing-zi, ding-chou, wu-yin, xin-mao, ren-chen, gui-si, bing-wu, ding-wei, wu-shen, xin-you, ren-xu and gui-hai.

7. This two day-pillars jinx spouse:  jia-chen and ji-xu

Appendix:  How to find the day-branch of a person

  1. Go to http://bazi-calculator.com/
  2. Type in the birthday and gender (F or M) in the input table in the left side.
  3. Click “CALCULATE” box
  4. Check the left color table below the input table.  See the example here:
  5. The third color column (counting from right to left) is the day branch of the person.  It is “Geng-shen” in this example of someone born in June 24, 1990.

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I get the following story from the web about a conversation between a venerable monk and a woman.  The original is in Chinese.  I translate it here:

一位女士不停地述說自己的苦難,沒完沒了。

A woman had been talking non-stop about her suffering and grievance.

法師打斷她的話說:你的苦還真多呀!

The master had interrupted her, “You really have lots of suffering!”

女士:別人訴苦最多需要三天三夜,我訴苦需要三年! 

 Woman:    Other people may at most take 3 days and nights, my grievance needs 3 years to spell out!

法師:那是什麼時候的苦? 

Master:   When did your sufferings occur?

女士:前幾年。

Woman:   Within the last few years.

法師:那不是過去了嗎?為什麼還緊抓不放呢?(停了一下)你拉出的糞便臭不臭? 

 Master:   Were these sufferings already passed?  Why do you still hold on to these sufferings?  (Paused).  Do the feces of your bowel movement smell?  

女士:當然很臭啦!poo

Woman:  Of course, very smelly!

法師:現在糞便在哪裡呢? 

 Master:  Where are your feces now?

女士:拉完就沖掉了。

Woman:  I had flushed them away after I was done.

法師:為什麼不把它包起來放在身上?見到人就拿出來告訴別人,說我被這東西臭過? 

Master:   Why don’t you wrap your feces up and carry with you?   Then show and tell anyone you meet that you were smoked by these feces.

女士:那多惡心!

 Woman:   This is nauseating!

法師:對呀!苦難也是一樣,它已經過去了。回憶和訴苦就如同把糞便拿出來向人展示,既臭自己又臭別人!越訴苦越苦,越抱怨越怨。

 Master:   Exactly!  Sufferings and grievance are similar.  They had already passed.   Recollection and grieving about them are similar to showing your feces to people–  smelly to other people and yourself .  You suffer more when you recollect your past suffering.  You grieve more when you talk about your past grievance.

The story above illustrates the Bazi concept of “self-penalty“– people’s tendency to relive their grievance and suffering by talking and thinking about their unpleasant experience repeatedly.  People who listen to their grievance also suffer from this self-penalty like second-hand smoking.  We may call this “second hand penalty“.

Psychologists and psychiatrists like self-penalty because they get paid US$200+ per hour here to listen to people’s grievance.

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