fu_yin_pixIn Bazi and Feng Shui,  Fu-yin means “identical” or “duplicate”.  For example, if a Bazi chart has two identical pillars or just two identical stems or branches, that pillar or element is called “fu-yin“.

Depending on the contexts, Fu-yin has multiple meanings.  There are Fu-yin meanings or implications in terms of pillars, stems, branches, illness, family members, 10 transformation stars (“10 gods“) and luck periods.

In this post, we just cover the Fu-yin meanings of luck periods.  This includes annual luck and 10-year-luck periods.

WHEN LUCK PERIOD FU-YIN (is identical to) 

  1. Hour pillar:  traveling, long trips, pregnant, giving birth
  2. Resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin):  changing residence, job relocation
  3. Wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai):  losing/ gaining wealth, wealth-related events, relationship matters, loan given out
  4. Day-branch:  one person becomes two (marrying, dating); two persons become one (separation, partner has long trips) 
  5. Relative stars (e.g., output, power, wealth..etc):  relative getting sick, injury, disaster or death.
  6. Favorable element (“yong-shen/ useful god”): doubles the joy/happiness
  7. Unfavorable element (“ji-shen/ annoying god”): doubles the misfortune, sadness, sickness

Besides doubling the effect, Fu-yin also means repetition, reality does not match expectation or planning, or success slips away in the last minute.  This is especially accurate with day-branch.

Fu-yin” does not always mean negative as long as the element “duplicated” is favorable or at least not negative.

BONUS:  FU-YIN BETWEEN NATAL CHART PILLARS

Today is your lucky day because I am in a good mood.  I throw in the following bonus info:

  • Year/ hour pillar fu-yin (i.e.: identical stems and branches)DM did not meet older relatives when born or jinxed them when DM was young;  DM jinxes his descendants at old age or lacks relationship with them 
  • Month/ day pillar fu-yin :   DM has unstable marriage, jinxing close relatives, emotional/ psychologically unstable, family disharmony 
  • Month/ hour pillar fu-yin :  numerous ups and down in career, obstacles and stagnation 
  • Day/ hour pillar fu-yin :  alone/ lonely during old age (descendants do not stay close to DM), unstable marriage/ romance

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In previous article, the star inside day-branch or marital palace is used to rate the marital bliss of the individual’s birth chart.  It is from the self-interest perspective of that individual.mate_select2

This article is 3x more complicated that requires at least an hour of live seminar time to explain.  However, with my data-reduction techniques, I have summarized the data in a little table below that you can use in a flash.

Below is a summary of previous article.  It is put here so that you do not need to scroll up and down to read previous blog: 

MARITAL BLISS IN TERMS OF DAY-PILLAR

  1.  Male day branch with zheng-cai or pian-cai  (wealth star)

Day Pillars:  Yi-chou, Yi-wei, Bing-shen, Ding-you, Wu-zi, Ji-hai, Geng-yin and Ren-wu.  乙丑,乙未,丙申,丁酉,戊子,己亥,庚寅,壬午 (Rating: Best)

  1. Female day branch with zheng-guan or qi-sha (power star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-shen, Yi-you, Ding-hai, Ji-mao, Geng-wu, Xin-si, Gui-chou and Gui-wei. 甲申,乙酉,丁亥,己卯,庚午,辛巳,癸丑,癸未 (Rating: Best) 

  1. Both male and female day branch with zheng-yin or pian-yin (resource star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-zi, Yi-hai, Bing-yin, Ding-mao, Wu-wu, Ji-si, Geng-chen, Geng-xu, Xin-chou, Xin-wei, Ren-shen and Gui-you 甲子,乙亥,丙寅,丁卯,戊午,己巳,庚辰,庚戌,辛丑,辛未,壬申,癸酉  (Rating: Good)

  1. Daymaster sitting on Shi-shen or Shang-guan (output star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-wu, Yi-si, Bing-chen, Bing-xu, Ji-you, Geng-zi, Xin-hai, Ren-yin and Gui-mao. 甲午,乙巳,丙辰,丙戌,己酉,庚子,辛亥,壬寅,癸卯dating

  • For male  (Rating: OK)
  • For female (Rating: Bad)
  1. Daymaster sitting on  Bi-jian or Jie-cai (peer star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-wei, Ji-chou, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai. 甲寅,乙卯,丙午,丁巳,戊戌,戊辰,己未,己丑,庚申,辛酉,壬子,癸亥

  • For male DM (Rating: Bad)
  • For female DM (Rating: OK)

MATE-SELECTION GUIDE BASED ON DAY-BRANCH  

The table below cross-tabulated 5 different combinations of day-branches between a male and female match from 3 perspectives:

  1. from male partner  (the “M” rating, e.g.: M5 is the best, M1 the worst)
  2. from female partner (the “F” rating, e.g.: F5 is the best, F1 the worst)
  3. independent overall rating (the “T” rating, e.g.: T5 is the best, T1 the worst)

There are a total of 75 different ratings for this guide.mate_select_guide

RATING SCALE:

  • 5 = BEST
  • 4 = GOOD
  • 3 = OK
  • 2 = BAD
  • 1 = WORST

EXAMPLE OF HOW TO USE THIS SELECTION GUIDE

For example, a man has “power star” (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) in day-branch is dating a woman with “resource star” (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) in hers.  This man wants to check if this is a good match before taking a plunge into the relationship.  He checks the intersection of blue resource column and the red power row and find these data:

SAMPLE RATING:  M3 F4 T3.   The meaning of these ratings are:

  • M3 = From the man’s personal interest, it is a 3 or “OK” rating
  • F4 = From the woman’s personal interest, it is a 4 or “GOOD” rating
  • T3 = From an unbiased rating for the match,  it is a 3 or “OK” rating

In general, if T-rating is less than 3, this is not a good match unless there are other advantages come with this potential partner, like pretty/ handsome face, wealth and the like to even out the low rating.

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Believe it or not, you can find out if your marriage rocks, so-so or sucks from the day-pillar of your Bazi chart.MaritalBliss

The first part or stem of your day-pillar represents you, the “daymaster” or DM.  The second part or branch is the “spouse palace” and represents your spouse.  The “star” sits in your spouse palace will give you a glimpse of your marital bliss.

Don’t worry if you do not know Bazi.  You can read the Appendix below to figure out your day-pillar using your birthday.

MARITAL BLISS IN TERMS OF DAY-BRANCH

1. Male day branch with zheng-cai or pian-cai  (wealth star)

Day Pillars:  Yi-chou, Yi-wei, Bing-shen, Ding-you, Wu-zi, Ji-hai, Geng-yin and Ren-wu.  乙丑,乙未,丙申,丁酉,戊子,己亥,庚寅,壬午

  • Wealth is the wife star for a male daymaster.  Wealth sits in spouse palace for a man is called “Star and palace in the same place” 宫星同位.  This usually stands for a happy and perfect marriage.  If wealth star is also favorable, it means this man getting rich through wife or enjoying wife’s wealth. (Rating: Best)

2. Female day branch with zheng-guan or qi-sha (power star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-shen, Yi-you, Ding-hai, Ji-mao, Geng-wu, Xin-si, Gui-chou and Gui-wei. 甲申,乙酉,丁亥,己卯,庚午,辛巳,癸丑,癸未

  • Power is the husband star for a female daymaster.  Power star sits in spouse palace for a woman is called “Star and palace in the same place” 宫星同位.  This usually stands for a happy and perfect marriage.  If power star is also favorable, it means this couple love each other deeply and enjoy fame and wealth. (Rating: Best)

3. Both male and female day branch with zheng-yin or pian-yin (resource star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-zi, Yi-hai, Bing-yin, Ding-mao, Wu-wu, Ji-si, Geng-chen, Geng-xu, Xin-chou, Xin-wei, Ren-shen and Gui-you 甲子,乙亥,丙寅,丁卯,戊午,己巳,庚辰,庚戌,辛丑,辛未,壬申,癸酉

  • Resource stands for mother or older generation.  Resource star sits in your spouse palace means your spouse is like your mother nurturing and pampering you.  A Chinese saying goes “Marrying a mother-like wife or father-like husband” 娶妻像娘,嫁夫如父 .  This usually stands for a happy marriage.  It would be perfect If resource star is also favorable.  (Rating: Good)

4. Daymaster sitting on Shi-shen or Shang-guan (output star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-wu, Yi-si, Bing-chen, Bing-xu, Ji-you, Geng-zi, Xin-hai, Ren-yin and Gui-mao. 甲午,乙巳,丙辰,丙戌,己酉,庚子,辛亥,壬寅,癸卯

  • For male, output star nurtures wealth or wife star. So even output star is not the right star to sit in spouse palace, it still enhances wife star.  This situation will be good for strong male DM that favors wealth star (means a good marriage), but unfavorable for weak male DM (implying a disharmonious marriage). (Rating: OK)
  • For female, output star controls power or husband star. So not only output star is not the right star to sit in spouse palace, it further hurts husband star.  This usually means a less than satisfactory marriage if not jinxing the husband. (Rating: Bad)

5. Daymaster sitting on  Bi-jian or Jie-cai  (peer star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-wei, Ji-chou, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai. 甲寅,乙卯,丙午,丁巳,戊戌,戊辰,己未,己丑,庚申,辛酉,壬子,癸亥

  • Peer star stands for competitions, friends and siblings which will “snatch” wealth away.  When it sits in the spouse palace, it means competition to take your spouse away if not jinxing the wife!
  • For male DM, with peer instead of wealth star inside spouse palace, it is the “sign” for wife being “snatched” away.  This means marital disharmony and affair. (Rating: Bad)
  • For female DM, with peer instead of wealth star inside spouse palace, it is the “sign” for husband being “snatched” away.  Wealth nurtures power (husband) in Bazi.  But peer “snatches” wealth away and weakens the husband.  This means marital disharmony and affair.  This also has a relatively higher divorce rate. (Rating: OK)

This is a quick-and-easy way to check one’s marital bliss.  A more accurate reading would be taking into consideration of other stars and not just the star inside the spouse palace.

For possible remedies, consult my video courses below:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Coming Attraction:  In next blog, I will use this marital bliss theory to create an easy mate-selection guide. This guide will take over an hour to explain in live seminar but you can use it in a flash with my data reduction technique used in the blog.

APPENDIX:  How to find out your day-pillare4691-snap9_2017-02-23_003_
1.  Log into http://bazi-calculator.com/
2.  Type in your birthday
3.  Click “Calculate” button
4.  Check the “Day” column (second column) of the table in the left side
5.  The example here shows a Xin-si day-pillar

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Note:  The article below was written for my Bazi groups in last October.

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Today is your lucky day.  Here is a so-called “Blindman secret“.

When there are two tigers (yin) in a natal chart and no ram (wei) and pig (hai) to “feed” the tigers, these are “hungry tigers” (rat, rooster, dog and monkey can’t be tiger food).
 
If there is pig and ram in the chart, these tigers are called “stomach-full tigers“.  “Stomach-full tigers” do not hurt people.
 
Hungry tigers will hurt people, but is limited to male charts– jinxing wife, most likely to death..  Female chart with hungry tigers won’t hurt people. 
双虎排下,饿虎出身;女命无妨,男主克妻。
其使用条件是有养叫饱虎,无养叫饿虎,那么什么叫有养,无养?就是命局中有鼠、鸡、狗、猴为无养,只有猪和羊能养着虎,也就是说八字中有猪羊的,虎不伤人;其他都为饿虎。男命俩饿虎定主克妻,十之八九是克死。

For your future mate-selection jobs (or for your own children), make sure the male suitor’s chart has  “stomach-full tigers” if there are 2 tigers in the chart. 
 
Ken’s comment: Female chart with hungry tigers won’t hurt people” because women are smarter– keeping the poor man alive to work his behind off OR divorcing him to collect alimony.  Dead husband does not get her paychecks.

This article still draws discussion this month.  One female member told me that she was lucky to have escaped her ex with hungry tigers chart.

Ken Lai

 

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dominant_hubbyOriginally, I want to use the word “control” instead of “manage“.  But “control” sounds manipulative and politically incorrect….

Ladies!  Today is your lucky day if your husband drives you nuts or bosses you around.  The cavalry is coming to your rescue with this little taught husband management Feng Shui.  It is based on simple Form Feng Shui theory of green dragon and white tiger (not elaborated here, take my “Visual Form Feng Shui” course if you want to know more).

FENG SHUI FEATURES THAT MAKE YOUR HUSBAND DOMINANT

1.  Too many furniture is put in the left side of your house

Fix:  move some furniture to the right side of your house; make it a balance if you want an egalitarian relationship

2.  Most activities taking place in left side of your house

Fix:  arrange more activities to the right side of your house

3.  Bedroom door is in left side of bed

Fix:  move your bed so that the door is at the right side

4.  Bedroom location is close to a road with traffic

Fix:  relocate your bedroom

5.  Stove has no support mountain (back side of stove is a window)

Fix:  relocate your stove to place it with a wall at its back

6.  Husband sleeps close to window side or open side of the bed (this will increase his peach-blossom and authority)

Fix:  switching sleeping location with husband

7.  Toilet in southwest side (SW represents woman of the house)

Fix:  stop using this toilet or at least keeping it clean

STRUCTURAL PROBLEMS FOR MALE-DOMINANT FENG SHUI

Below house features will contribute to male chauvinism to a marriage.  Avoid these features when buying a house.  If you have already bought the house, consult a Feng Shui teacher or take my “Visual Form Feng Shui” course for remedies.

  • Southwest side of your house is a missing corner
  • Northwest side of your house has a big protrusion
  • Left side of your house is much bigger than right side
  • House on top of a hill (no support and makes husband more dogmatic)

husband_beaterKen, do you have “wife management Feng Shui“?  Woman can be bossy too.”

Smart men can see this is a BOGO  article with “wife management Feng Shui” already embedded.  Simple do the opposite of the list above, like change right back to left or northwest to southwest.

May the Auspicious Qi  be with you.

Ken Lai 

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Hi girls!  Today is your lucky day.  This article may save you from an abusive relationship or a trip to divorce court.  It shows you how to spot out a potential wife-jinxer/ beater using the birthday of your potential partner.

Wife-jinxer” here means this man will unlikely bring good life/ blessing to his wife.  He may jinx his wife to death and is a potential wife-beater.

To check your potential mate before developing a relationship, first of all, you need the birthday of the potential partner.  Then follow the instructions in the appendix here to find out the data required for making the decision.

After you have found the “daymaster” of your potential mate, match it with the following table:

For example, your potential partner is a Bing-fire daymaster.  You check his Bazi chart to see if there is any Ding-fire and/or Si-fire.  If there is one or more, check if there is any Ren-, Gui-, Zi– or Hai-water in the chart.  If you see NONE, you better stay away from this man.  But if you must have this man, consult a Bazi reader to see if this man has a special chart.  If so, then he could still be your potential partner.  The probability of someone has a special chart is about 20%.

What to do if this man does not have a special chart and you still want him? (beauty loves “bad boy” syndrome?)  Here is your last hope– check your own Bazi chart to see if you are a husband-jinxer (consult a Bazi reader or wait till I write about how to spot a husband-jinxer).  When a wife-jinxer and a husband-jinxer marry, the jinxes between them will be neutralized.

If unfortunately or fortunately that you are not a husband-jinxer, the last resort is to consult the courses below to mitigate the possible jinxes through Bazi and Feng Shui techniques (click link for details):

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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For people who want to know the logic behind this wife-jinxer Bazi, the answers are posted in my  Bazi/ 4P groups.   You may want to take my 4P/ Bazi courses listed below if you are not a member of my groups.  However, if you have basic Bazi knowledge, you may easily figure out the dynamics behind.  After you have figured out the wife-jinxer logic, husband-jinxer logic will pop up in your mind in no time.

 

APPENDIX:  How to find the day-master of your boy friend:

  1.   Log into http://bazi-calculator.com/
  2.   Type in his birthday
  3.   Click “Calculate” button
  4.   Check the “Day” column of the table in the left side
  5.  The example here shows a Wu-earth DM with Chou-earth (not good!), BUT there is a Yi-wood here to control earth, so this guy is “salvageable“.

Ken Lai

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2018 edition” with 18 hr. video

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Will your husband cheat?  Believe it or not, the answer may be found in your own Bazi chart!cheatHubby

In Bazi, power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) represent husband/ boy friend for women.  To check if your husband will cheat or not, you look at the interactions of power stars with your peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) in your own Bazi chart.  If there is/ are interactions would mean potential signs of cheating husbands or boy friends.  It could also mean long courtship/ cohabitation with separations as ending.

If your natal chart meets any one of the following conditions, your husband is a potential cheater:

  1. Peer star snatches power star“(比劫夺官 ):  Peer stars are daymaster’s (DM) sisters, friends of same gender and colleagues.  Power star is husband.  When peer star snatching power star happens, it means close friend or even sister has “snatched” DM’s husband away or simply having affair with DM’s husband.  The likelihood is higher when peer and power star are in the same pillar.  If peer star and power star show up in stem level, it means they have the affair openly without fear.  If both stars are in the branch level, the affair is going on in secret.
  2.   Power star is combined away (官杀被合 ):  Power star represents a woman DM’s husband.  When it is combined away means her husband is taken away .  For example, bing-fire is the power star of xin-metal female DM.  If there is another xin-metal in the chart, especially if it is next to bing-fire, the probability of xin-metal DM losing her husband to another female will be high.
  3. Peer star in day-branch (日支见比劫星 ):  Day-branch is the location of spouse palace or husband in a chart.  This palace prefers seeing wealth or power but not peer star.  If peer star is unfavorable in the chart, mistress may likely show up.

For example:  female chart 

  • YEAR:  Gengwu
  • DAY:   Yi-you
  • MONTH:  Geng-yin
  • HOUR:  Geng-chen

Female Geng-metal DM’s husband is wu-fire.  Wu-fire is in the year pillar.  This means her husband is likely from far away or out of state/ province.  Wu-fire is surrounded by metal (this means peer stars snatching him away).  This women had many unsuccessful romances with out-of-state boy friends.

If your chart does not see any power star, never mind if your husband will cheat or not, worry about how to get a husband first.  Usually this means you may have problem getting a husband or lacking relationship with husband if getting one.

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Male readers may find a new explanation for cheating– “wife’s chart shows that I will cheat“.  Female readers can tell their hubbies why they keep following them or put a male chastity belt on them in certain periods.  However, there are subtle and low profile Bazi remedies than these in-your-face fixes.

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With Bazi knowledge, one can predict when the cheating episode may happen and do preventive measures.  It is also possible to check if your boy friend or husband will cheat or not by reading his Bazi chart too (equal opportunity Bazi reading here).  This may be a future post.

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