fisherLast month the “20/20” news program of the ABC TV network here in USA had re-examined the Amy Fisher love triangle story.  This incident is also known as the “Long Island Lolita” in which a 17 years old high schooler shot the wife of her lover.

https://www.newsday.com/entertainment/tv/abc-2020-joey-buttafuoco-mary-amy-fisher-1.38309535

Would the world be safer if we can predict:

  • who are likely to have more love rivals than others
  • when our love rivals will show up (and be prepared to guard your love property in advance)

Love rivals” here refers to people who try to snatch your husband/ boy-friend or wife/ girl friend.

Today is your lucky day!  These rarely shared Bazi secrets are put here for your eyes only.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF MALES WHO HAVE MORE LOVE RIVALS

  1. love_rivalBazi charts with numerous (3+) peer stars (jie-cai, bi-jian):  Peer stars represent competitions to steal your wealth.  “Wealth” means material things and also wife in Bazi.  Male chart with numerous peer stars also means this man is stubborn and egoistic if not chauvinistic.  His wife or girl-friend is more likely to “jump ship” when someone better showing up.
  2. Male charts with yang daymasters (DM) Jia, Bing, Wu, Geng and Ren:  This is because yang male DM combines with a wealth or wife element.  For example, Jia-wood will combine with Ji-earth. When this person runs into peer luck period, the peer star will combine with the wealth or wife star in the chart.  It means an outside man taking his girl-friend or wife away.

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF FEMALES WHO HAVE MORE LOVE RIVALS

  1. love_rival2Bazi charts with numerous (3+) output stars (shi-shen, shang-guan):  Output stars represent talents and temperament in Bazi.  Female chart with strong output stars, especially shang-guan, is demanding and exerts too much pressure to her husband or boy-friend.   The guy is likely to pick up a kinder and gentler woman if given the chance.
  2.  Female charts with yin daymasters (DM) Yi, Ding, Ji, Xin and Gui:  This is because yin female DM combines with a power or husband element.  For example, Yi-wood will combine with Geng-metal.  When this person runs into peer luck period, the peer star will combine with the power or husband star in the chart.  It means an outside woman taking her boy-friend or husband away.

PEOPLE WITH STABLE MARRIAGE/LOVE: WHEN LOVE RIVALS SHOW UP

  1. when day-stem and branch are clashed by 10-year-luck and/or annual luck
  2. when day-branch or spouse palace is clashed by luck period/s
  3. when day-branch or spouse palace is combined by luck period/s
  4. when wealth star (in any pillar) is combined away by luck period/s for male
  5. when power star (in any pillar) is combined away by luck period/s for female

Now you know your ABC or when your love rival will knock at your door.  What are the next steps?  Here are some suggestions:

  1. try to be nicer to your spouse
  2. keep an eye on his/ her interactions with any opposite sex friends
  3. take the courses below for Bazi and Feng Shui remedies:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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How?  Simply check your potential wife’s birth chart to see if it matchesdead_husband any of the followings.  The more her chart matches the  entries below, the faster you should run away.

HUSBAND-JINXING FEMALE BAZI CHART CHARACTERISTICS:

  1. Shang-guan (+output) sits in spouse palace (day-branch):  +Output is the “enemy” of husband star (+power).  This is especially “jinxing” if +output is unfavorable in the chart.
  2. Zheng-guan (+power, husband) sits next to a shang-guan (+output) star in the chart.
  3. Chart has weak +power star in stem level with output luck periods during adult life period will likely jinx husband.
  4. There is a “3-penalties” involving spouse palace in the chart.  It is worse if +power or husband star is part of the 3-penalties elements.  This could be death.
  5. Chart with +power star entombed implies a weak or short life-expectancy husband.

“Ken, what can I do if I am hopelessly in love with a woman who has a hubby-jinxing chart?”

Obviously today is your lucky day.  This article probably could save your life.  Simply find a Bazi reader or take the following courses for remedies:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

“Ken, will you have an article on wife-jinxing chart?”

This is a BOGO free article, simply substituting husband star (zheng-guan, +power) with wife star (zheng-cai, +wealth) and  shang-guan (+output star) with jie-cai (+peer star)— you get the wife-jinxing chart characteristics absolutely free.

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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According to dictionary.com, jinx as a noun is defined as “a person, thing, or influence supposed to bring bad luck.”  Jinx as a verb is someone who “brings bad luck to; places a jinx on...”. 

The Chinese word for jinx is “ke” (克) which literally means “to restraint, subdue or overcome“.

However, even many Chinese readers have misunderstood the meaning of jinx and equated it to “jinxing someone to death“.

In the context of marriage, spouse-jinxing means the marriage has many problems and issues than average couples.

One way to determine if someone jinxes his/ her spouse is through reading his/ her Bazi birth chart.  Male chart with strong or numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) likely jinxes his wife (and also father).  Female chart with strong or numerous output stars (shi-shen/ shang-guan) likely jinxes her husband.

MANIFESTATIONS OF WIFE/ HUSBAND-JINXING

  1.  Problems getting married, late marriage or even remain single.
  2.  Disharmony between the couple after marrying; argue and fight all the time.
  3.  Separated due to career/ work or relationship problem.
  4.  Extended period of sex life issues.
  5.  Domestic violence (by husband or wife).
  6.  Husband or wife has chronic or severe illness.
  7.  Divorce.
  8.  Spouse had died prematurely (before age 60).
  9.  The divorced husband/ wife will likely remarry someone who has also divorced.
  10.  Someone whose spouse had died prematurely, when remarrying, s/he like will marry someone who will die prematurely too.

If a person’s chart shows “jinxing” certain family member, it is NOT that person causing the death or misfortune of that member.  It is the destiny of that member regardless who runs into that position (as in the context of marriage).

Ken, is there any remedy for spouse-jinxing?

The most common fix is to find someone who also jinxes spouse.  When a couple who jinx each other may neutralize the overall jinx.  For other remedies, please take my:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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The Feng Shui arrangements below may give rise to husband affairs:affair2

1. Putting flowers in NW sector of house: NW is Qian palace in Feng Shui and stands for husband.  Flowers can represent females.

2. Dry and empty flower vase:  This item may attract husband affair especially when it is put in NW (Qian) or east (Zhen) sector of the house.

3. Wealth positions exposed to light: Wealth also represents woman.  When the wealth position of a house is exposed to light, it means the position is near a window, door or hallway.  The husband likes to show off his wealth and attracts other females.  

4. Fish-tank put in ESE (Mao mountain):  Mao is one of the 4 peach-blossom elements and also part of Zhen palace (East) sector.  Zhen represents male sex organ and water for lust.  Your hubby can have “fun” when all these items are in the right places.

5. Water tap faces door:  Water tap is the imagery of a male sex organ and door for female.  House with water tap facing door or water tap outside the house is prone to affairs or husband does not returns home at night.

6. Bed sits on west sector or Dui palace:  In terms of marriage, Dui stands for mistress, concubine or lover.  If a couple’s bed is located on Dui palace, husband may think about extra-marital activities.

7. Lust or sexual object in left side of bed:  Left side represents green dragon or husband and right side white tiger or wife in Feng Shui.  If left side of bed has art objects or pictures that are sexual in nature, the sexual energy may steer husband to affairs.

8. Bedroom has “room within a room”:  This is the image of a concubine or second wife.  This room within a room can be a study or any room.

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Today is your lucky day!  After reading this post, you can predict one’s marriage life in general without knowing much about Bazi.

Here are the step by step procedures:

  1.   Use the birthday the person and convert it into a Bazi natal chart with 4 columns.  Each column is called a “pillar“.  Our focus is on the day-pillar (see Appendix below for simple procedures to do it).
  2. Write down the name of the day pillar from the Bazi-Calculator output (see Appendix).  In the Appendix below the example day pillar is geng-shen.
  3. Match the entries below and read explanations.

KEY TO DAY-PILLAR AND MARITAL BLISS happy_marriage

Day-pillar consists of two parts.  The upper part is the day-stem or daymaster which represents the chart owner.  Lower part is the day-branch or “spouse palace“.  It represents the spouse of the daymaster (DM).  This method checks which star occupies the spouse palace to determine marital bliss of the chart owner.

1. Great and happy marriage for male daymaster with wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) in  day-branch (spouse palace). Wealth star stands for wife for a male DM. If wealth star is favorable, the male may get wealth from wife or her family.  If DM is a female, the marriage is also above average because wealth star nurtures power star (husband star for female).  There are eight day-pillars in this category:  yi-chou, yi-wei, bing-shen, ding-you, wu-zi, ji-hai, geng-yin and ren-wu.

2. Great and happy marriage for female daymaster with power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) in day-branch (spouse palace). Power star stands for husband for a female DM. If power star is favorable, the husband is famous with high status.  If DM is a male, the marriage is also above average if he is a strong DM.  There are eight day-pillars in this category:  jia-shen, yi-you, ding-hai, ji-mao, geng-wu, xin-si, gui-chou and gui-wei. 

3. Good and happy marriage for female daymaster with resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) in day-branch (spouse palace). Resource star stands for mother or older generation.  Resource star in spouse palace means spouse nurturing DM.  Hence it will be a happy and blissful marriage for both male and female DM. There are twelve day-pillars in this category: jia-zi, yi-hai, bing-yin, ding-mao, wu-wu, ji-si, geng-chen, geng-xu, xin-chou, xin-wei and ren-shen.

4.Different outcomes for female and male daymaster with output star (shang-guan/ shi-shen) in day-branch (spouse palace). Output star nurtures wealth star (wife for male DM).  Output star is favorable when DM is strong.  Hence for strong male DM with output star in spouse palace will have an above average marriage but poor relationship if this male DM is weak.  Output star hurts power star (husband for female DM).  Hence, marital relationship will be bad if female DM has output star sitting in spouse palace.  There are nine day-pillars in this category: jia-wu, yi-si, bing-chen, bing-xu, ji-you, geng-zi, xin-hai, ren-yin and gui-mao.unhappy_marriage

5. High divorce rate for both female and male daymasters with peer star (bi-jian/ jie-cai) in day-branch (spouse palace). Peer star controls or “snatches” wealth star (wife for male DM) and drains power star (husband for female DM).  Hence people with this peer star in spouse palace have higher divorce rate.  There are twelve day-pillars in this category: jia-yin, yi-mao, bing-wu, ding-si, wu-xu, ji-wei, ji-chou, geng-shen, xin-you, ren-zi and gui-hai.

6. Incorrect yin-yang days are inauspicious for marriage.  Both male and female born in these days will remarry. There are 12 “Incorrect yin-yang days” (阴阳差错日):  bing-zi, ding-chou, wu-yin, xin-mao, ren-chen, gui-si, bing-wu, ding-wei, wu-shen, xin-you, ren-xu and gui-hai.

7. This two day-pillars jinx spouse:  jia-chen and ji-xu

Appendix:  How to find the day-branch of a person

  1. Go to http://bazi-calculator.com/
  2. Type in the birthday and gender (F or M) in the input table in the left side.
  3. Click “CALCULATE” box
  4. Check the left color table below the input table.  See the example here:
  5. The third color column (counting from right to left) is the day branch of the person.  It is “Geng-shen” in this example of someone born in June 24, 1990.

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Below are the auspicious dates for marriage in this year.  The days with red shaded background are good days to get married.  If you have already married, whether happy or not, think about paying alimony or palimony and child-support before you plan to use these auspicious marrying dates for yourself (this post comes with one free minute of marital counseling).

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Previous article mentions a bed-moving method to enhance romance luck of less socially active people.  The method in this post is for people who are socially active and may even already have girl/ boy friends but want to get a “better” one or get a free UPGRADE.

This method is for people:

1.  who are sociable and have met many opposite-sex friends but somehow are dissatisfied with the qualities of these friends as romantic partners.

2.  who have many blind dates or referrals from pals or parents but are not happy with the appearance, intelligence, economic background and abilities of the prospective partners.

Here is how to do it:  Use the center of your bedroom as reference, check the location of your bedroom door and relocate your bed to location listed in the table below:  (for your convenience, I have also listed the one for less socially active people from previous post here)

“Ken, what can I do if I am not satisfied with the free UPGRADE?”

Great question!  Come back next time and I will have a Catholic and a Buddhist priest to take you to their monastery or temple. You get free room and board for life (and no more love problems) if they take you.

Ken Lai

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