How do you check if your spouse is prone to be “snatchedspouseSnatch away by another person or a “cheating heart”?

Below is a list of Bazi or 4-pillars conditions in a chart that will have love competitions or “spouse-snatcher” showing up:

Male chart with numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) Zheng-cai (+wealth) star stands for wife and pian-cai (-wealth) mistress for man.  Peer stars are the competitions that want to snatch your love.  This is especially valid for man DM with yang stems like jia, bing, wu, geng and ren.  If natal chart and/or luck period comes another +peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your wife or lover.  For example, ren-water male DM has another ren in his natal chart and/or another ren coming from luck period. 

Female chart with numerous output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen) Shang-guan (+ouput) and shi-shen (-output) stars attracts opposite sex but also the cause of losing one’s love.  This is especially valid if +output is in the month-branch or day-branch.   It means her spouse may find another competition for you

Female DM with yin stem like yi, ding, ji, xin and gui — if her natal chart and/or luck period comes another -peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your husband or lover.  For example, ding-fire female DM has another ding-fire in her natal chart and/or another ding coming from luck period.

When luck period clashes or combines with one’s spouse palace (day-branch)           — assuming you have already married or with a steady partner, when this happens, there will be turbulence in your relationship.  This is especially likely when bi-jian or peach-blossom star (zi, wu, mao, or you) clashes or combines with spouse palace.

When the wealth star of a male chart combines with luck period — this is the signal of another woman coming into the system.  Wealth star stands for wife and mistress for man.

When the power star of a female chart combines with luck period — this is the signal of another man coming into the system.  Power star stands for husband and lover for woman.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE

Whether your spouse or partner is guilty of cheating or not, is not always clearcut.  It could be the “script” or fate already written in your natal Bazi chart.  The best strategy is to read the natal charts of yourself and your potential partner before going “steady”.  If it is too late to do that, read the chart for the most dangerous years and avoid or keep an eye on opposite sex interactions during the period.  There are some possible preventive remedies shown in my “Destiny and Luck management” courses (see below for details).

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wealth_chartPrevious post discusses about charts with little or no wealth star, the focus of this post is the opposite– charts with too many or strong wealth stars.

Before we begin, a quick lesson on the relationship between wealth star and other elements is needed.

In Bazi, using the daymaster (DM, chart owner) as center of reference, there are 5 possible scenarios:

  1. what I control” is wealth element to the daymaster.  Besides wealth, it also stands for wife and mistress for male.  Wealth produces power and controls resource stars.
  2. what I produce” is output element to the daymaster.  Besides talent/ IQ, it also stands for children.  Output produces wealth and controls power stars.
  3. what produces me” is resource element to the daymaster.  Besides reputation/ health, it also stands for mother or older generation. Resource produces peer (DM) and controls output stars.
  4. what controls me” is power element to the daymaster.  Besides career, it also stands for authority, boss and husband/ lovers for female.  Power produces resources and controls peer (DM) stars.
  5. same as me” is peer element to the daymaster.  Besides sibling/peers, it also stands for competitions, coworkers and friends.  Peer (DM) produces output and controls wealth stars.

Now comes to the “bad” news about having too many wealth elements in a chart:

1.  Bad for marital relationship

— strong wealth element in a male chart means multiple wives or mistress, especially there are -wealth (pian-cai) in the chart.

2.  Jinxing mother

— Wealth controls resource element.  Resource stands for mother.  Hence mother may be chronically sick, DM has bad relationship with mother or mother has obstacles in life.

3.  Producing below average or stupid kids

— Output stars produce wealth.  Strong wealth means output stars are drained to produce the wealth.  Output stars also stand for children.  Hence DM’s children may be stupid, underachievers, incapable, unfilial or “free-loading” type. 

4.  DM could be dirt poor!

— Weak DM with many wealth elements is actually poor with many desires!

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woman_selectThe “Secret dating guide for men” post is one of the top 3 most popular posts in this blog month after month.  Being an equal opportunity discriminator, I write up the corresponding guide for women.

Similar to the “Secret dating guide for men“, this guide is a negative guide– what not to pick.  It will help women identify unfaithful men, horny dogs and wife-beaters with Bazi.

Don’t worry about not knowing anything about Bazi (or 4-Pillars).  The appendix below will show you how to calculate the “day branch” of your potential partner.

This dating guide shows you a list of male daymasters (DM or your potential mate) born in certain days of the year.  Women may want to think twice before taking the marriage vow with these men.  Men born in the days listed below are likely to be unfaithful husbands/partners or simply jinxing their wives (not in absolute sense, still need to see other elements in his chart or consult a Bazi reader).

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF UNDESIRABLE MALE PARTNER

Match the “day pillar” (birth day) of your potential mate to see if his chart has any of the following characteristics.

  1. Male chart with numerous or strong pian-cai (-wealth) elementsaffair

— “Pian-cai” (-wealth) stands for unstable love or affairs and mistress/lover.  Chart with numerous “pian-cai” means this man (DM) is likely fickle in love, lusty and disloyal.   If you find 2 or more “pian-cai” elements in a man’s chart, you probably should walk away.  Table below shows you how to spot “pian-cai” in a chart.

  • Jia-wood DM with wu– and/ or chen-/xu-earth in chart 
  • Yi -wood DM with ji– and/ or chou-/wei-earth in chart
  • Bing-fire DM with geng- and/ or shen-metal in chart
  • Ding-fire DM with xin– and/ or you-metal in chart
  • Wu-earth DM with ren– and/ or zi-water in chart
  • Ji-earth DM with gui– and/ or hai-water in chart
  • Geng-metal DM with jia– and/ or yin-wood in chart
  • Xin-metal DM with yi– and/ or mao-wood in chart
  • Ren-water DM with bing– and/ or si-fire in chart
  • Gui-water DM with ding– and/ or wu-fire in chart
  1. Chart with strong output star/s chasing wealth stars

— Output stars means “shang-guan” and “shi-shen“.  They represent DM’s desire and impulses (and also sex organ!).  Strong output stars in a chart means DM has strong sexual desire and is impulsive.  If the chart has weak or no power star to control this desire, DM is likely be a lustful person, especially if output star is with wealth star in the same pillar.   Output stars for:

  • Jia-wood DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-fire 
  • Yi-wood DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-firehorny
  • Bing-fire DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth
  • Ding-fire DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
  • Wu-earth DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Ji-earth DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Geng-metal DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
  • Xin-metal DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
  • Ren-water DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
  • Gui-water DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood 
  1. DM with numerous peer stars

— Peer stars means “bi-jian” and “jie-cai” which stand for friends, sibling and colleagues.  In Bazi, there is a saying of “peer stars snatch wealth“.  Wealth means wife.  A strong male DM with numerous peer stars is likely “sharing” (“involuntarily” or unknowingly) a women with other men or simply jinxing wife (or wife runs away with another man!).  Besides, men with strong peer stars are likely have a impulsive personality and are possessive toward their spouses.  They are also potential wife-beaters if chart has no power star to control the peer stars.  Peer stars of:

  • Jia-wood DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
  • Yi-wood DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
  • Ding-fire DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-fire
  • Bing-fire DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-fire 
  • Wu-earth DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
  • Ji-earth DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
  • Geng-metal DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Xin-metal DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Ren-water DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
  • Gui-water DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water 
  1. DM with “jie-cai” peer star in day branch or spouse palace

— Day branch is the spouse palace of a person.  “Jie-cai ” or peer star controls “cai” or wife and sits in spouse palace means jinxing wife.  This means divorce, disharmony, wife is chronically sick or wife dies prematurely.  Think twice if your potential husband has any one of the following day pillars:

  • Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-chou, Ji-wei, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai days 
  1. Spouse palace is clashed in the natal chart

Day branch is the “spouse palace“.  When it is clashed, it means unstable marriage or jinxing spouse.  This clash could be between month and day branch or day and hour branch.  Below are the six possible clashes:

  • zi-wu  (rat and horse clash)
  • mao-you  (rabbit and rooster clash)
  • yin-shen  (tiger and monkey clash)
  • si-hai  (snake and pig clash)
  • chen-xu  (dragon and dog clash)
  • chou-wei  (ox and ram clash)

The follow branch interactions are also unfavorable to marriage:

  • self-penalties between day/month and day/hour (chen-chen, hai-hai, you-you, wu-wu (horse))
  • 3-penalties between branches and luck periods (yi-si-shen, xu-chou-wei, zi-mao)
  • when 10-year-luck period clashing day-branch
  1. DM with strong metal and water

— DM with strong metal and water implies strong kidney and sexual desire (and likely extra-marital activities).  This is especially likely to happen when DM is metal.  “Strong” means DM has 2+ metal and 2+ water elements in the chart.

  1. DM with strong fire and hot earth

This means a chart with mostly fire and hot earth (wei– and xu-earth).  DM has strong urge and hyperactive sexual desire that “normal” marital life may not satisfy his demands (and goes for extra-marital sex).  Generally speaking, people born in summer months of si, wu and wei have strong fire and earth in their charts.

If your man hits one of the above, you may not need to dump him.  But if he hits 3+ of the above, consider yourself lucky for reading this post (and run away from the guy fast).  But you may want to consult a Bazi reader and take a Bazi course before dumping a guy.

Appendix:  How to find the day-branch of a persone8f1a-sample

  1. Go to http://bazi-calculator.com/
  2. Type in the birthday and gender (F or M) in the input table in the left side.
  3. Click “CALCULATE” box
  4. Check the left color table below the input table.  See the example here:
  5. The third color column (counting from right to left) is the day branch of the person.  It is “Geng-shen” in this example of someone born in June 24, 1990.

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When one walks into a house, one could easily predict if the residents have health problems or not.  It sounds like magic but it is really simple after you have read this article.

In Feng Shui, a house can also represent the body of the residents.  A house is divided into 8 sectors along the Bagua or 8-trigrams theory.  Each sector represents certain family member and organ.  For example, northwest or Qian sector represents the father or oldest male of the house.  It also represents the head or lungs in a body.

We keep it simple here by focusing on the location of bathroom (toilet) and kitchen locations and its effect on the health and other aspects of the residents.

KITCHEN/ TOILET LOCATION AND RESIDENT HEALTH

According to Yi-Jing (“Book of Changes”), “Fortune and misfortune are attributable to movement.”.  Kitchen and toilet have the most traffic or movements within a house.  So its location has significant effects on the well-being of the residents.

If kitchen or toilet is in the northwest side of a house, the oldest male or father of the house will have less luck or someone has headache or lung problem.  Northwest is the Qian trigram location and stands for father.

If kitchen or toilet is in the southwest side of a house, the oldest female or mother of the house is likely a weakling or someone has spleen or  stomach problems.  Southwest is the Kun trigram location and stands for mother.

If kitchen or toilet is in the east side of a house, the eldest son or 40+ years old male of the house is likely has mental problem or someone has liver or gallbladder problems.  Southwest is the Zhen trigram location and stands for eldest son.

If kitchen or toilet is in the southeast side of a house, the eldest daughter or 40+ years old female of the house may lack luck or someone has liver or gallbladder problems.  Southeast is the Xun trigram location and stands for eldest daughter.

If kitchen or toilet is in the north side of a house, the middle son or middle-age   male  of the house is likely having little or no luck or someone has kidney or urological problems.  Southwest is the Kan trigram location and stands for middle son.

If kitchen or toilet is in the south side of a house, the middle daughter or middle-age female of the house is likely having little or no luck or someone has heart or blood vessels problems.  South  is the Li  trigram location and stands for middle daughter.

If kitchen or toilet is in the northeast side of a house, the youngest son or young or teenage male of the house is likely having little or no luck or someone has stomach or spleen problems.  Southwest is the Gen trigram location and stands for youngest son.

If kitchen or toilet is in the west side of a house, the youngest daughter or young or teenage female of the house is likely having little or no luck or someone has respiratory problems.  Southwest is the Dui trigram location and stands for youngest daughter.

TOILET LOCATION,  ACADEMIC PERFORMANCE AND RELATIONSHIP

Toilet location may also affect the academic performance of your children.  Make sure the location representing your kid has no toilet.  Another precaution is the 4-academic star location of your house should have no toilet on it or the academic performance of the residents suffer.

For women live in a house with toilet in Qian (NW) sector of the house, they are likely have problem keeping a man in the house or the man has weak character and/or does not want to stay home.

Consult your Feng Shui teacher for remedies (or take my Feng Shui courses).

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000affairThis article title sounds violent.  It is actually a very humane and peaceful way of terminating affairs.  Even Arnold Schwarzengger could have recommended Maria Shriver to use this “terminator“.

Earlier this year I have posted an affair fix using a metal rooster.  But this fix is gender specific– fixing males only.   In this post,  I will show you an equal opportunity affair terminator.

This fix is for those (male or female) who wants to keep the unfaithful partner for any reasons, like needing a meal ticket.  It will work for both male and female “offenders“.

In Chinese metaphysics, affairs are attributed to one’s “peach blossom” star.  Therefore, to fix affair problems, the logical step is to work on the offender’s “peach blossom” location within his/ her residence.0000%e4%bb%99%e4%ba%ba%e6%8e%8c

Peach blossom” is a pretty fragile star and dislikes plants with sharp needles sitting there.  Therefore, to eliminate an unfaithful spouse’s affair or preventing affair from happening, is to put a plant with sharp needles, like a cactus plant,  on his/her peach blossom location.  This will weaken his/ her peach blossom luck.

Peach blossom location is calculated in terms of one’s Chinese Zodiac animal sign.  Read below for details:

PEOPLE WHOSE CHINESE ANIMAL SIGNS ARE:

  • MONKEY (years born: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016,  2028, 2040)
  • RAT (years born: 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020, 2032, 2044)
  • DRAGON (years born: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976,  1988, 2000, 2012, 2024, 2036)
  • –> peach blossom location is in the  WEST sector of the house
  • PIG  (years born: 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2019, 2031, 2043 )
  • RABBIT (years born: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023,  2035 )
  • RAM (years born: 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027, 2039 )
  • –> peach blossom location is in the NORTH sector of the house
  • SNAKE (years born: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013,  2025, 2037)
  • ROOSTER (years born: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981,  1993, 2005, 2017, 2029, 2041)
  • OX (years born: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973,  1985, 1997, 2009, 2021, 2033, 2045)
  • –> peach blossom location is in the SOUTH sector of the house
  • TIGER (years born: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022,  2034, 2046)
  • HORSE (years born: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026, 2038, 2050)
  • DOG (years born: 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970,  1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030, 2042)
  • –> peach blossom location is in the EAST sector of the house

NOTE:  If a person was born between January 1 and February 3 of the year, his/ her animal sign would be the sign of previous year (due to the Chinese solar calendar).  For example, someone born in January 1 of 2016 (monkey year) should have the ram sign of 2015.

HOW TO SETUP YOUR AFFAIR TERMINATOR

  1. Find out the Chinese zodiac sign of your unfaithful or potentially unfaithful partner.  For example, monkey.  The peach blossom location of monkey is in the west sector of your house.
  2. Put a cactus plant in the west sector of your house (for this example only).

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0000familyThe representation of 4 pillars in a Bazi chart:

  • Year pillar:  Parents/ older generations (also ancestral blessing)
  • Month pillar:  Siblings (also parents sometimes)
  • Day pillar:  Day-master (stem), spouse (branch)
  • Hour pillar:  Children

THE MEANINGS OF CLASHES BETWEEN PILLARS:

Year and month pillar clash:  the person (Day-master, DM) is likely leaving hometown to make a living or career.  This also means DM has a challenging teen years and likely not doing well in school.

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Example: day and month pillar clash (click photo to enlarge)

Year and day pillar clash:  DM does not get along with parents or no blessing from ancestors.

Day pillar clashes hour pillar:  DM jinxes wife and hurts children or has marital problem.

Day pillar clashes month pillar:  DM jinxes parents and siblings.  This could also means DM has hidden illness or marital problem because day-branch is clashed.

Year pillar clashes with month, day and hour pillar clash:  DM has fierce temper and is prone to untimely or violent death

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0000bossyBossy” is a politically correct term for “bitch” here.  Below are Feng Shui conditions that will increase the dominance or power of women in a house.  These Feng Shui conditions are not necessarily negative IF the women are subservient to the men in a family and modify their house Feng Shui to make men less dominant.

FENG SHUI CONDITIONS THAT INCREASE WOMAN DOMINANCE

  1. Kitchen is bigger than bedroom.
  2. The total size of kitchen and dinning room are bigger than the living room
  3. Wrong main door color:  In Feng Shui, main door direction is the “red phoenix” direction and should use “yang” or brighter color.  Back side is the “black tortoise” with “yin” or low profile color. What this means the main door facing outside should be in bright color (“yang“) and the back of the door should be dark color.   If the front door is in black or darker color, the “yin-yang” is inverted and promotes “yin” or woman power in the house.
  4. Right side of your house is bigger than the left side (or left side has missing corner):  Left side represents man and right side the woman of the house.  Bigger right side means the woman has more power over the man.
  5. Assuming the left and right side of the house are equal in size, but the right side has more stuff like heavy furniture and activities there.  These would also increase female dominance.

Now women can blame Feng Shui for being bossy.  Men can said bad Feng Shui make them not standing up to their bossy wives.  Self-esteem of all the parties restored.  But the best remedy is to hire a Feng Shui practitioner to fix these problems OR take my Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video.

Ken Lai

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