How do you check if your spouse is prone to be “snatchedspouseSnatch away by another person or a “cheating heart”?

Below is a list of Bazi or 4-pillars conditions in a chart that will have love competitions or “spouse-snatcher” showing up:

Male chart with numerous peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) Zheng-cai (+wealth) star stands for wife and pian-cai (-wealth) mistress for man.  Peer stars are the competitions that want to snatch your love.  This is especially valid for man DM with yang stems like jia, bing, wu, geng and ren.  If natal chart and/or luck period comes another +peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your wife or lover.  For example, ren-water male DM has another ren in his natal chart and/or another ren coming from luck period. 

Female chart with numerous output stars (shang-guan/ shi-shen) Shang-guan (+ouput) and shi-shen (-output) stars attracts opposite sex but also the cause of losing one’s love.  This is especially valid if +output is in the month-branch or day-branch.   It means her spouse may find another competition for you

Female DM with yin stem like yi, ding, ji, xin and gui — if her natal chart and/or luck period comes another -peer (bi-jian),  someone is preying on your husband or lover.  For example, ding-fire female DM has another ding-fire in her natal chart and/or another ding coming from luck period.

When luck period clashes or combines with one’s spouse palace (day-branch)           — assuming you have already married or with a steady partner, when this happens, there will be turbulence in your relationship.  This is especially likely when bi-jian or peach-blossom star (zi, wu, mao, or you) clashes or combines with spouse palace.

When the wealth star of a male chart combines with luck period — this is the signal of another woman coming into the system.  Wealth star stands for wife and mistress for man.

When the power star of a female chart combines with luck period — this is the signal of another man coming into the system.  Power star stands for husband and lover for woman.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE

Whether your spouse or partner is guilty of cheating or not, is not always clearcut.  It could be the “script” or fate already written in your natal Bazi chart.  The best strategy is to read the natal charts of yourself and your potential partner before going “steady”.  If it is too late to do that, read the chart for the most dangerous years and avoid or keep an eye on opposite sex interactions during the period.  There are some possible preventive remedies shown in my “Destiny and Luck management” courses (see below for details).

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wealth_chartPrevious post discusses about charts with little or no wealth star, the focus of this post is the opposite– charts with too many or strong wealth stars.

Before we begin, a quick lesson on the relationship between wealth star and other elements is needed.

In Bazi, using the daymaster (DM, chart owner) as center of reference, there are 5 possible scenarios:

  1. what I control” is wealth element to the daymaster.  Besides wealth, it also stands for wife and mistress for male.  Wealth produces power and controls resource stars.
  2. what I produce” is output element to the daymaster.  Besides talent/ IQ, it also stands for children.  Output produces wealth and controls power stars.
  3. what produces me” is resource element to the daymaster.  Besides reputation/ health, it also stands for mother or older generation. Resource produces peer (DM) and controls output stars.
  4. what controls me” is power element to the daymaster.  Besides career, it also stands for authority, boss and husband/ lovers for female.  Power produces resources and controls peer (DM) stars.
  5. same as me” is peer element to the daymaster.  Besides sibling/peers, it also stands for competitions, coworkers and friends.  Peer (DM) produces output and controls wealth stars.

Now comes to the “bad” news about having too many wealth elements in a chart:

1.  Bad for marital relationship

— strong wealth element in a male chart means multiple wives or mistress, especially there are -wealth (pian-cai) in the chart.

2.  Jinxing mother

— Wealth controls resource element.  Resource stands for mother.  Hence mother may be chronically sick, DM has bad relationship with mother or mother has obstacles in life.

3.  Producing below average or stupid kids

— Output stars produce wealth.  Strong wealth means output stars are drained to produce the wealth.  Output stars also stand for children.  Hence DM’s children may be stupid, underachievers, incapable, unfilial or “free-loading” type. 

4.  DM could be dirt poor!

— Weak DM with many wealth elements is actually poor with many desires!

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wealthluckMost people wish they have good wealth luck.  But according to yin-yang principle in Chinese metaphysics, positives exist only because negatives also exist.  The “goodies” that come with good wealth luck also accompany with some disadvantages or misfortunes.

Below are some of the disadvantages:

 

1.  Strong wealth elements imply numerous affairs

— Wealth element in male Bazi chart means wealth luck and woman luck.  Men with strong wealth luck usually includes “pian-cai” or “-wealth”.  This means mistress and numerous girl friends, creating difficulties in maintaining a “normal” or harmonious marital relationship.  This is easy to comprehend even without Bazi knowledge– men with money are likely to use money to attract women, not to mention some women like men with money.

2. Strong wealth elements could mean jinxing daymaster’s (DM) mother

— In Bazi formula, wealth controls resource.  What DM controls is wealth.  What gives birth to DM is resource element or mother.  For example, the mother of a Geng-metal DM is earth.  Wealth of a metal DM is wood.  By 5-elements theory, wood controls earth.  When a Geng-metal DM with strong wealth elements (wood), it means he also jinxing his mother (earth).   This usually means mother is chronically sick, suffers premature death or bad relationship with DM.

3. Strong wealth elements could mean unfilial or stupid offspring

— In Bazi formula, what DM nurtures or produces is shi-shen and shang-guan (output or children). DM’s output or talent produces wealth.  Hence wealth drains output or children.  DM with strong wealth elements will drain output even further and hence stupid or unfilial children.  We all have read about how rich kids squandered their family fortune.

Of course,  not every rich person will suffer these disadvantages due to other combinations in their natal chart like their social and karma background.

The definition of happiness is different for different people.  If one thinks rocky marital relationship, lacking maternal love and producing stupid kids, can justify good wealth luck, then these are not their disadvantages but “cost of doing business” for good wealth luck.  Some may think these sacrifices may be too much for good wealth luck.

I hope you feel better if your wealth luck is less than ideal.

Ken Lai


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wealth_nestWealth affects one’s destiny significantly.  When reading a Bazi or 4P chart, we always check if the person has wealth elements.  If s/he has wealth elements, could s/he keep the wealth or simply “money-comes-and-goes” type?

(NoteIf you know nothing about Bazi or 4-pillars, see the Appendix below for instructions.)

In Bazi, whatever one controls is classified as “wealth” element.  For example, a wood daymaster or person, his/ her wealth element is earth.

DAYMASTER AND WEALTH ELEMENT

DAYMASTER WEALTH ELEMENT
JIA or YI WOOD earth
BING or DING FIRE metal
WU or JI EARTH water
GENG or XIN METAL wood
REN or GUI WATER fire

The storage element for each one of the 5-elements are:

 5-ELEMENTS AND STORAGE      

ELEMENT STORAGE
WOOD Wei (ram)
FIRE Xu (dog)  
EARTH Chen (dragon)
METAL Chou (ox)
WATER Chen (dragon)

If one’s Bazi chart has none of these storage elements, it is likely that s/he may have problem keeping her wealth or money.

There are also specific “wealth storage” for each of the 5-elements or daymasters. For example, a Jia-wood or Yi-wood daymaster with Chen-earth in his chart is regarded as possessing a “wealth storage”.  He is likely to be able to save money and keep his wealth.

DAYMASTER AND WEALTH STORAGE

DAYMASTER WEALTH STORAGE
JIA or YI WOOD Chen (dragon)
BING or DING FIRE Chou (ox)
WU or JI EARTH Chen (dragon)
GENG or XIN METAL Wei (ram)
REN or GUI WATER Xu (dog)

 

There is a saying in Bazi,

“Whoever sits on a wealth storage will be rich. 身坐财库,无人不富

Wealth should have storage. 财宜藏

With storage one will have plentiful wealth. 藏则丰厚”

 

affairIt means your wealth is not really yours if you do not have a wealth storage because you may not be able to hold on to it.

On the other hand, “wealth” also means wife or mistress for a male daymaster in Bazi.  So a wealth storage in a male chart also means he is likely to “hide a mistress“.

APPENDIX

How to figure out your “daymaster” and if you have any “storage” elements:

1.  Click the following link:

http://bazi-calculator.com/

2.  Key in your birthday/ hour and gender info in the left “birth chart” side.

3.  Click the “CALCULATE” button.

4.  Scroll down the screen to see the colorful “birth chart” at the left side.

5.  Check the third column (count from RIGHT side!) of the chart.  It has “day master” label in the bottom of the box.  This is your day master element.  If the color of the box is:

  • red– your daymaster is fire
  • blue– your daymaster is water
  • yellow– your daymaster is earth
  • green– your daymaster is wood
  • grey– your daymaster is metal

6.  Check the second row of the chart if you have any yellow box (chen, xu, chou, wei).  This is your storage element.

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