woman_selectThe “Secret dating guide for men” post is one of the top 3 most popular posts in this blog month after month.  Being an equal opportunity discriminator, I write up the corresponding guide for women.

Similar to the “Secret dating guide for men“, this guide is a negative guide– what not to pick.  It will help women identify unfaithful men, horny dogs and wife-beaters with Bazi.

Don’t worry about not knowing anything about Bazi (or 4-Pillars).  The appendix below will show you how to calculate the “day branch” of your potential partner.

This dating guide shows you a list of male daymasters (DM or your potential mate) born in certain days of the year.  Women may want to think twice before taking the marriage vow with these men.  Men born in the days listed below are likely to be unfaithful husbands/partners or simply jinxing their wives (not in absolute sense, still need to see other elements in his chart or consult a Bazi reader).

BAZI CHARACTERISTICS OF UNDESIRABLE MALE PARTNER

Match the “day pillar” (birth day) of your potential mate to see if his chart has any of the following characteristics.

  1. Male chart with numerous or strong pian-cai (-wealth) elementsaffair

— “Pian-cai” (-wealth) stands for unstable love or affairs and mistress/lover.  Chart with numerous “pian-cai” means this man (DM) is likely fickle in love, lusty and disloyal.   If you find 2 or more “pian-cai” elements in a man’s chart, you probably should walk away.  Table below shows you how to spot “pian-cai” in a chart.

  • Jia-wood DM with wu– and/ or chen-/xu-earth in chart 
  • Yi -wood DM with ji– and/ or chou-/wei-earth in chart
  • Bing-fire DM with geng- and/ or shen-metal in chart
  • Ding-fire DM with xin– and/ or you-metal in chart
  • Wu-earth DM with ren– and/ or zi-water in chart
  • Ji-earth DM with gui– and/ or hai-water in chart
  • Geng-metal DM with jia– and/ or yin-wood in chart
  • Xin-metal DM with yi– and/ or mao-wood in chart
  • Ren-water DM with bing– and/ or si-fire in chart
  • Gui-water DM with ding– and/ or wu-fire in chart
  1. Chart with strong output star/s chasing wealth stars

— Output stars means “shang-guan” and “shi-shen“.  They represent DM’s desire and impulses (and also sex organ!).  Strong output stars in a chart means DM has strong sexual desire and is impulsive.  If the chart has weak or no power star to control this desire, DM is likely be a lustful person, especially if output star is with wealth star in the same pillar.   Output stars for:

  • Jia-wood DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-fire 
  • Yi-wood DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-firehorny
  • Bing-fire DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth
  • Ding-fire DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
  • Wu-earth DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Ji-earth DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Geng-metal DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
  • Xin-metal DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
  • Ren-water DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
  • Gui-water DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood 
  1. DM with numerous peer stars

— Peer stars means “bi-jian” and “jie-cai” which stand for friends, sibling and colleagues.  In Bazi, there is a saying of “peer stars snatch wealth“.  Wealth means wife.  A strong male DM with numerous peer stars is likely “sharing” (“involuntarily” or unknowingly) a women with other men or simply jinxing wife (or wife runs away with another man!).  Besides, men with strong peer stars are likely have a impulsive personality and are possessive toward their spouses.  They are also potential wife-beaters if chart has no power star to control the peer stars.  Peer stars of:

  • Jia-wood DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
  • Yi-wood DM are:  jia-, yi, yin- and mao-wood
  • Ding-fire DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-fire
  • Bing-fire DM are:  bing-, ding-, si– and wu-fire 
  • Wu-earth DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
  • Ji-earth DM are:  wu-, ji-, chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth 
  • Geng-metal DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Xin-metal DM are:  geng-, xin, shen– and you-metal
  • Ren-water DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water
  • Gui-water DM are:  ren-, gui, zi- and hai-water 
  1. DM with “jie-cai” peer star in day branch or spouse palace

— Day branch is the spouse palace of a person.  “Jie-cai ” or peer star controls “cai” or wife and sits in spouse palace means jinxing wife.  This means divorce, disharmony, wife is chronically sick or wife dies prematurely.  Think twice if your potential husband has any one of the following day pillars:

  • Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-chou, Ji-wei, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai days 
  1. Spouse palace is clashed in the natal chart

Day branch is the “spouse palace“.  When it is clashed, it means unstable marriage or jinxing spouse.  This clash could be between month and day branch or day and hour branch.  Below are the six possible clashes:

  • zi-wu  (rat and horse clash)
  • mao-you  (rabbit and rooster clash)
  • yin-shen  (tiger and monkey clash)
  • si-hai  (snake and pig clash)
  • chen-xu  (dragon and dog clash)
  • chou-wei  (ox and ram clash)

The follow branch interactions are also unfavorable to marriage:

  • self-penalties between day/month and day/hour (chen-chen, hai-hai, you-you, wu-wu (horse))
  • 3-penalties between branches and luck periods (yi-si-shen, xu-chou-wei, zi-mao)
  • when 10-year-luck period clashing day-branch
  1. DM with strong metal and water

— DM with strong metal and water implies strong kidney and sexual desire (and likely extra-marital activities).  This is especially likely to happen when DM is metal.  “Strong” means DM has 2+ metal and 2+ water elements in the chart.

  1. DM with strong fire and hot earth

This means a chart with mostly fire and hot earth (wei– and xu-earth).  DM has strong urge and hyperactive sexual desire that “normal” marital life may not satisfy his demands (and goes for extra-marital sex).  Generally speaking, people born in summer months of si, wu and wei have strong fire and earth in their charts.

If your man hits one of the above, you may not need to dump him.  But if he hits 3+ of the above, consider yourself lucky for reading this post (and run away from the guy fast).  But you may want to consult a Bazi reader and take a Bazi course before dumping a guy.

Appendix:  How to find the day-branch of a persone8f1a-sample

  1. Go to http://bazi-calculator.com/
  2. Type in the birthday and gender (F or M) in the input table in the left side.
  3. Click “CALCULATE” box
  4. Check the left color table below the input table.  See the example here:
  5. The third color column (counting from right to left) is the day branch of the person.  It is “Geng-shen” in this example of someone born in June 24, 1990.

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I have two cateaching assistants when I had produced my “Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management“.  They are sibling cats.

This is “Bad Boy” or BB for short.  His nickname says it all.  He is “naughty” and always looks for next adventure or trouble for me.

BB’s sister is “Good Girl” or GG for short.  But “good” is relative to BB, she still scratches my furniture and splits my window curtains.

BB crashed into my video booth while I filming course video.  I caught him red-handed. I was surprised that he is camera-shy.

GG did not want to miss the fun, so she crashed into my video booth too.

With the lovely hearts in the background, you may think that I was doing a dating show for cats.  No, I was doing the chapter on “heart diseases” while GG invaded the set.  But she was at ease with the camera.

GOOD GIRL’S SECRET

This is GG relaxing on the floor.  She likes to lay down like a human.

Do you see the “hidden animal” in GG as shown in the picture below (click picture to enlarge if you want to see more detail)?  You need to use your subconscious mind to see this animal.

Ken Lai 

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safe1_The followings are wealth positions and directions based on your Chinese zodiac animal signs

RAT (years born: 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020, 2032, 2044) 

  • Rat belongs to water element.  Water controls fire.  Fire is the wealth element for people with rat animal sign.  Rat or zi-water controls wu-fire and si-fire.  Hence, south and southeast are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for rat is west (rooster).  This is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a rat person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  South, SE and west 

OX (years born: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973,  1985, 1997, 2009, 2021, 2033, 2045)

  • Ox belongs to earth element.  Earth controls water.  Water is the wealth element for people with ox animal sign.  Ox or chou-earth controls hai– and zi-water.   Hence, northwest and north are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for ox is south (horse). It is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for an ox person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  South, northwest and north 

TIGER (years born: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022,  2034, 2046)

  • Tiger belongs to wood element. Wood controls earth.  Earth is the wealth element for people with tiger animal sign.  Tiger or yin-wood controls chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth.   Hence, southeast, northwest, northeast, and southwest are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for tiger is east (rabbit). It is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a tiger person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  Southeast, northwest, northeast, southwest and east

RABBIT (years born: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023,  2035 ) 

  • Rabbit belongs to wood element. Wood controls earth.  Earth is the wealth element for people with tiger animal sign.  Rabbit or mao-wood controls chen-, xu-, chou- and wei-earth.   Hence, southeast, northwest, northeast, and southwest are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for rabbit is north (rat). It is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a rabbit person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  Southeast, northwest, northeast, southwest and north 

DRAGON (years born: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976,  1988, 2000, 2012, 2024, 2036)

  • Dragon belongs to earth element.  Earth controls water.  Water is the wealth element for people with dragon animal sign.  Dragon or chen-earth controls hai- and zi-water.   Hence, northwest and north are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for dragon is west (rooster). It is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a dragon person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  Northwest, north and west 

SNAKE (years born: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013,  2025, 2037) 

  • Snake belongs to fire element. Fire controls metal.  Metal is the wealth element for people with snake animal sign.  Snake or si-fire controls shen– and you-metal.   Hence, southwest and west are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for snake is south (horse). It is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a dragon person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  Southwest, west and south 

HORSE (years born: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026, 2038, 2050)  

  • Horse belongs to fire element. Fire controls metal.  Metal is the wealth element for people with horse animal sign.  Horse or wu-fire controls shen– and you-metal.   Hence, southwest and west are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for horse is east (rabbit). It is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a dragon person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  Southwest, west and east 

RAM (years born: 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027, 2039 )

  • Ram belongs to earth element.  Earth controls water.  Water is the wealth element for people with ram animal sign.  Ram or wei-earth controls hai- and zi-water.   Hence, northwest and north are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for ram is north (rat). It is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a dragon person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  Northwest and north

MONKEY (years born: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016,  2028, 2040)

  • Monkey belongs to metal element.  Metal controls wood.  Wood is the wealth element for people with monkey animal sign.  Monkey or shen-metal controls yin– and mao-wood.   Hence, northeast and east are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for monkey is west (rooster). It is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a dragon person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  Northeast, east and west 

ROOSTER (years born: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981,  1993, 2005, 2017, 2029, 2041)  

  • Rooster belongs to metal element.  Metal controls wood.  Wood is the wealth element for people with rooster animal sign.  Rooster or you-metal controls yin– and mao-wood.   Hence, northeast and east are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for rooster is south (horse). It is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a dragon person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  Northeast, east and south 

DOG (years born: 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970,  1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030, 2042)

  • Dog belongs to earth element.  Earth controls water.  Water is the wealth element for people with dog animal sign.  Dog or xu-earth controls hai- and zi-water.   Hence, northwest and north are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for dog is east (rabbit). It is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a dragon person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  Northwest, north and east 

PIG  (years born: 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2019, 2031, 2043 )

  • Pig belongs to water element.  Water controls fire.  Fire is the wealth element for people with pig animal sign.  Pig or hai-water controls wu-fire and si-fire.  Hence, south and southeast are the wealth positions and directions.  Peach-blossom direction for pig is north (rat).  This is also regarded as wealth direction/ sector for a rat person.
  • Wealth sector/ direction:  South, SE and north 

NOTE:  If a person was born between January 1 and February 3 of the year, his/ her animal sign would be the sign of previous year (due to the Chinese solar calendar).  For example, someone born in January 1 of 2016 (year of monkey) should have the ram sign of 2015. 

WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR WEALTH POSITIONS AND DIRECTIONS

  1. Put wealth symbols based on your cultural beliefs.  For Chinese, they can put wealth god statue, ki-lun, money-tree, treasure bowl and the likes.
  2. Sit or sleep in the wealth position to enhance wealth luck
  3. Walk toward wealth directions to increase your wealth energy
  4. Seek wealth opportunities in your wealth directions.

Ken Lai 

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When one walks into a house, one could easily predict if the residents have health problems or not.  It sounds like magic but it is really simple after you have read this article.

In Feng Shui, a house can also represent the body of the residents.  A house is divided into 8 sectors along the Bagua or 8-trigrams theory.  Each sector represents certain family member and organ.  For example, northwest or Qian sector represents the father or oldest male of the house.  It also represents the head or lungs in a body.

We keep it simple here by focusing on the location of bathroom (toilet) and kitchen locations and its effect on the health and other aspects of the residents.

KITCHEN/ TOILET LOCATION AND RESIDENT HEALTH

According to Yi-Jing (“Book of Changes”), “Fortune and misfortune are attributable to movement.”.  Kitchen and toilet have the most traffic or movements within a house.  So its location has significant effects on the well-being of the residents.

If kitchen or toilet is in the northwest side of a house, the oldest male or father of the house will have less luck or someone has headache or lung problem.  Northwest is the Qian trigram location and stands for father.

If kitchen or toilet is in the southwest side of a house, the oldest female or mother of the house is likely a weakling or someone has spleen or  stomach problems.  Southwest is the Kun trigram location and stands for mother.

If kitchen or toilet is in the east side of a house, the eldest son or 40+ years old male of the house is likely has mental problem or someone has liver or gallbladder problems.  Southwest is the Zhen trigram location and stands for eldest son.

If kitchen or toilet is in the southeast side of a house, the eldest daughter or 40+ years old female of the house may lack luck or someone has liver or gallbladder problems.  Southeast is the Xun trigram location and stands for eldest daughter.

If kitchen or toilet is in the north side of a house, the middle son or middle-age   male  of the house is likely having little or no luck or someone has kidney or urological problems.  Southwest is the Kan trigram location and stands for middle son.

If kitchen or toilet is in the south side of a house, the middle daughter or middle-age female of the house is likely having little or no luck or someone has heart or blood vessels problems.  South  is the Li  trigram location and stands for middle daughter.

If kitchen or toilet is in the northeast side of a house, the youngest son or young or teenage male of the house is likely having little or no luck or someone has stomach or spleen problems.  Southwest is the Gen trigram location and stands for youngest son.

If kitchen or toilet is in the west side of a house, the youngest daughter or young or teenage female of the house is likely having little or no luck or someone has respiratory problems.  Southwest is the Dui trigram location and stands for youngest daughter.

TOILET LOCATION,  ACADEMIC PERFORMANCE AND RELATIONSHIP

Toilet location may also affect the academic performance of your children.  Make sure the location representing your kid has no toilet.  Another precaution is the 4-academic star location of your house should have no toilet on it or the academic performance of the residents suffer.

For women live in a house with toilet in Qian (NW) sector of the house, they are likely have problem keeping a man in the house or the man has weak character and/or does not want to stay home.

Consult your Feng Shui teacher for remedies (or take my Feng Shui courses).

For more info on prediction and prevention of sickness with Bazi knowledge,  consult my new course

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Below are general meanings of earthly branch clashes in Bazi:

1.  Zi-wu clash (similar to gui-ding clash)

  • unstable life

2.  Mao-you clash (similar to yi-xin clash)

  • losing credibility and promises not kept
  • worrisome and overworked
  • disputes due to lust.

3.  Yinshen clash (similar to Jia-geng/ bing-ren clashes)

  • showering love on uninterested party
  • over-inquisitive on other’s business

4.  Si-hai clash (similar to Bing-ren/ geng-shen clashes)

  • meddlesome
  • eager to help people

5.  Chen-xu clash (similar to yi-xin/ gui-ding clashes)

  •  jinxing close relatives
  • hurting children
  • short life-expectancy

6.  Chou-wei clash (similar to yi-xin/ gui-ding clashes)

  • encountering obstacles in life

7.  Year branch clashing month branch

  •  Daymaster (DM) is likely leaving home town or country

8.  Year branch clashing day branch

  • DM has problem getting along with parents

9.  Year branch clashing hour branch

  • DM has problem getting along with children or children die prematurely

10.  Year branch clashing day, month and hour branches

  • DM is irritable or violent or a chronically sick.

11.  Day branch clashing month branch

  • DM has problem getting along with parents and siblings

12.  Clashes of 4-cardinal elements (zi-wu-mao-you)

  • means clashing of geographic location with change of residence but not career

13.  Clashes of 4-subcardinal elements (yin-shen-si-hai)

  •  means clashing of career and residence with changes of both career and residence

14.  Clashes of 4-storage/ tomb elements (chen-xu-chou-wei)

  • means clashing of career with change of career but not residence

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In 2011, I wrote about the 1000+ years mystery of “middle-heaven bagua” that is supposedly the human level of bagua.

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2011/09/in-search-of-human-bagua-i.html

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2011/09/in-search-of-human-bagua-ii.html

A German reader wrote me about this middle-heaven bagua.  But I have a policy of not answering emails from people that I do not know (except placing course orders).  But he is so persistent, so I post his questions here for anyone interested to answer.  Other than correcting some minor misspellings, the following is taken verbatim from his email.

Dear Master Lai,

I am a private researcher of yjing the last 20 years. Because of studying a variety of books with contrary views and theories – I am lost and frustrated over the years.

When I read your blog and statements on the web, I got the impression, that you really have the fundamental plain true basics.

I would be pleased and thankful  for your help.

My main questions are:

1.  Is the houtian superpositioned on the xiantian bagua or the other way round to generate the 64 hexagrams?

2. How come the sixiang into being ? Through the middle line of a trigram, combined from earlier and later bagua, or through luoshu / hetu number grid.  Is sixiang a combination from both arrangements? You spoke of a middle gua?! Or is sixiang build from the other /uppermost bagua?

Does young yang stand in the east with lower line yin and upper yang or is it the other way round. Same for young yin in the west?

3. How does the nine palaces (eight houses) are connected in generating the 64 hexagrams?

I would be so happy to get your reply and support.

Best regards from Germany,

xxxxxxx

PS:  Ken’s comment:  These are profound questions good enough for a few PhD dissertations.

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winstonchurchill1Winston Churchill had a famous saying, “We shape our buildings, thereafter they shape us.”  It describes the interactions and influences between residents and the layout or design of the building.  This is the bread and butter of architects.

In Feng Shui, we have a similar notion of how house-shape affects the organic well-being of the occupants.  A house can project its characteristics onto the body and even social relationship of the occupants.  For example,  a house with missing northwest corner is likely to be a house without a male breadwinner or at least with a weak one.  Occupants are likely to have respiratory-related illness.

In this post, we focus on precautions for pregnant woman in terms of house missing corners.

FIRST PREGNANCY:  If this is your first pregnancy and know the baby is a boy, make sure the east side of your house is not a missing corner.  East or Zhen direction represents the eldest son.

If this is your first pregnancy and know the baby is a girl, make sure the southeast side of your house is not a missing corner.  Southeast or Xun direction represents the eldest daughter.

If  this is your first pregnancy and do not know the gender of the baby,  make sure the east and southeast side of your house have no missing corners.  

SECOND PREGNANCY:  Second pregnancy is a little bit complicated because you need to consider the gender result of first pregnancy.

If this is your second pregnancy and know the baby is a boy AND previous birth is also a boy, make sure the north side of your house is not a missing corner.  North or Kan direction represents the second or middle son.  If the previous birth is a girl, make sure east side is not missing.

If this is your second pregnancy and know the baby is a girl AND previous birth is a boy, make sure the southeast side of your house is not a missing corner.  If the previous birth is also a girl, make sure south side is not missing.  South or Li direction represents middle daughter.

If you do not know the gender of the second pregnancy, make sure north, east, southeast and south side do not have missing corners.

THIRD PREGNANCY:  If this is your third pregnancy and know the baby is a boy AND previous two births are also boys, make sure the northeast side of your house is not a missing corner.  Northeast or Gen direction represents youngest or third son.  If previous two births are both girls, make sure east side is not missing.

If this is your third pregnancy and know the baby is a girl AND previous two births are boys, make sure the southeast side of your house is not a missing corner.  If previous two births are both girls, make sure west side is not missing.  West or Dui direction represents youngest or .third daughter.

If you do not know the gender of your third pregnancy, make sure north, south, east, west, southeast, and northeast sides are not missing.

If this is your forth pregnancy……  you are too “productive” and probably overworking yourself to death either in bed or at work!

Consult a Feng Shui practitioner or take my “Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” course for remedies.