May 2018


gayIn Bazi, we check the following to see if someone has homosexual or gay tendency:

1.  Peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) are strong and favorable in natal chart- Peer stars stand for siblings, colleagues, and peer groups.  When peer stars are favorable in a chart, it means DM likes people with the same gender or s/he is like by the same sex.  DM may show homosexual or bisexual tendency.

2.  Day-branch is a peer star (bi-jian or jie-cai) with strong and favorable peer stars– Day-branch is the spouse palace of a Bazi chart.  If it is occupied by a same gender peer star and also favorable, it implies DM has a stronger liking in same sex partner or bisexual.  Here are day-branches with peer star:  Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-chen, Wu-xu, Ji-wei, Ji-chou, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi, and Gui-hai.

3.  Absence of wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) for male and power star (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) for female–  Wealth star is the wife for a male DM and power star is husband for a female DM.  When this spouse star is absent in a chart, it means lover does not show up in DM’s life  or no karma for a heterosexual relationship or problem getting an opposite sex spouse.  This may create a homosexual or bisexual tendency.

4.  Charts with strong combinations with spouse star absent or unfavorable— DM of these charts has strong urge to congregate (due to combinations) or sex drive but dislike opposite sex.

I have some gay friends and students.  They are just like ordinary people except with different sexual preference.  For me, it is actually easier to figure out if one is gay or not by looking at the energy emitted by his/ her eyes.

Ken Lai

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Today is your lucky day!  This is another ROGO (read-one-get-one free) article.

If your partner or spouse cheats on you, but for whatever reasons (like the person is the only meal ticket, trophy wife,….)  you still want to keep her/ him,  this is probably what you can do to get rid of the “third party” without shooting at each other.

In Chinese metaphysics, affairs and romance are grouped under “peach blossom“.  Each person has a peach blossom star or location in his/ her house.

Peach blossom” is a delicate flower that could be easily suppressed or crashed. By doing something on the person’s peach blossom location, you may terminate or enhance his/ her romance-related activities.

HOW TO TERMINATE AFFAIR OF CHEATING PARTNER

To get rid of your spouse’s mistress or lover,  follow these 3 steps:

1.  Find out the Chinese zodiac animal sign of your spouse.  Read the following article if you have no clue about Chinese zodiac animal:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2017/08/wealth-locations-and-directions-of-12.html

2.  Find the peach blossom location of your spouse:

  •  WEST: for people with monkey, rat or dragon animal sign
  •  NORTH: for people with pig, rabbit or ram animal sign
  •  SOUTH: for people with snake, rooster or ox animal sign 
  •  EAST: for people with tiger, horse or dog animal sign

3.  Put a cactus or thorny plant in that location.

This will also work if you are single and want to get rid of a current negative romance or unwelcome admirer by putting a thorny plant in your own peach-blossom location.  Make sure you remove the plant if you want to be on the romance market again.

Precaution:  If your peach blossom location is identical to your spouse or partner, putting a thorny plant there will also affect your relationship with the spouse!  For solution, you need to consult a Feng Shui or Bazi reader or take the following courses:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

Now get your free article:  romance enhancer.

ROMANCE ENHANCER

Instead of putting thorny plant in your peach-blossom location, you put fresh flowers there will enhance your romance luck.  Make sure replacing dead flowers or you will get negative romance.

Ken Lai

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Previous article shows you how to figure out your daymaster element and DM strength of your birthday using bazi-calculator.com.  After you have found the data, check the following table to find your personalized sound of wealth:

soundOfWealth

Click table to enlarge

You should belong to one of the 5 groups listed above. Each group consists of two choices– yang (element) or yin (element) like yang Jia-wood or yin Yi-wood.

Depending on whether you are a strong or weak DM, you check the appropriate column for your personalized sound of wealth.  For example, if you are a weak metal DM, your wealth sound is metal.

To summarize, if the “supporting elements” in your chart are:

  • smaller than 39%– you are likely a weak DM
  • between 40- 50%– about balanced DM or slightly tilted towards strong DM (if 45%+) or slightly tilted towards weak DM (if 40- 44%)
  • larger than 50%– you are likely a strong DM

If you are in the “40- 50%” group, you may use the sound for either strong or weak DM.  But it may be better to try the strong one first if your supporting score is 45%+ and then the weak one if the strong one does not work well (and vice versa for 44% or below).

HOW TO EXECUTE YOUR PERSONALIZED SOUND OF WEALTH

Your personalized sound of wealth must be generated by the hitting or striking of two identical elements.  For example, if wood sound is your personalized wealth sound, you must use two wooden objects to generate the sound and not use something like a wooden guitar or a flute.

To generate wood, metal and earth sound, the easiest and inexpensive way is getting a wind chime with corresponding element.  It needs more creativity with water and fire sound.  Below are some suggestions.  You can create your own sound generating devices.

  1. Metal sound:  copper bells, metal wind chimes, gone, cymbals 
  2. Wood sound:  wood/ bamboo wind chimes
  3. Earth sound:   clay/glass/ ceramic bottles wind chimes,  
  4. Water sound:  water fountain, fish-tank with air-pump
  5. Fire sound:  fireplace burning wood;  red painted wooden wind chimes

Ideally, put your wealth sound generator in your personalized wealth position (check my past articles for your position).  You can also put it close to where you sit or work most of the time.  I have attached a long pull string to my wooden wind chimes and pull it a few times when I feel bored or need to make wealth related decisions like buying stocks.

You cannot generate something (like wealth) from nothing. To activate this wealth exchange with the universe, make a small donation to your local charity.

I do not explain the theories behind this personalized wealth sound or this article will be too long.  If you are really curious, take my “4-Pillars Bootcamp” video course listed below.

Do not expect huge money coming in.  This technique increases the personalized wealth energy around you to help you grab the otherwise missing wealth opportunities.  It may help more if you are in wealth luck period.  I have personally tested this technique for over a year and found it works pretty well.

Troubleshooting:  If your choice of personalized wealth sound does not work after a month or two,  you may have a “special” or non-standard Bazi chart.  Try the other personalized wealth sound (i.e., if you have tried the strong one and does not work, try the weak one).   If none work, you probably are in a wealth-losing luck period.  Please consult a Bazi reader or take my Bazi course.

Feng Shui precautions:  do not put your sound generator in San-Sha, Grand Duke, annual star 5 and 2 locations.  Check my past article on the exact locations for 2018.

Ken Lai

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soundofMoneyToday is your ultra-lucky day– I will show you step-by-step how to figure out your own personalized sound of wealth to enhance your wealth luck.

The first step is to understand the “self” or daymaster (DM) in Bazi.  The second step is to find out if you have a “strong” or “weak”  DM.  The final step is to determine your personalized sound of wealth.

Bazi is based on 5-elements theory.  The 5-elements are: metal, wood, water, fire and earth.  Every person is assigned to one of these 5-elements according to their birthday.  For example, I was born in a metal day, so I am a “metal daymaster” (DM).

In Bazi, what I (metal person) control is my wealth.  Metal chops or controls wood.  So metal is my wealth element.  You will find out your wealth element following the tutorial below.   This tutorial is also helpful for you to understand my other articles on Bazi topics.

HOW TO FIND OUT YOUR DAYMASTER AND STRENGTH

1.  Log in to http://www.bazi-calculator.com

2.  In the right-side of the screen panel box, select “Ken Lai Method“.  No need to bother with anything else.

3.  Key in your birthday and hour in the left side of the screen.  Ignore the right side screen for “date to compare“.

4.  Click the “calculate” box to get results.

5.  Scroll down the screen and see your Bazi chart in the left side with a table similar to the one here.

6.  The first box of second column (the one with “day master” in it) shows the elemental nature of your daymaster  (example here is geng-metal in grey color).  Below are the colors of 5 elements:

  • Metal (Geng and Xin) in grey color (wealth is Wood)
  • Wood (Jia and Yi) in green color (wealth is Earth)
  • Water (Ren and Gui) in blue color (wealth is Fire)
  • Fire (Bing and Ding) in red color (wealth is Metal)
  • Earth (Wu and Ji) in yellow color (wealth is Water)

7.  Next to find if you are a strong or weak DM. Scroll down to the elongated box showing the words “DM strength”, similar to the one below:

 8.  Below shows you how to determine if you have a weak or strong DM if your supporting elements is

  •  25% or less = pretty weak DM
  • 40% or less = weak DM
  • 40- 50% = almost balanced DM
  •  50%+ = strong DM
  • 60%+ = strong DM

9.  This calculation is a rough estimation that is pretty accurate if you have a standard chart.  About 20% of Bazi charts are non-standard.

After you have found out your DM element and DM strength, come back next time to find out how to use your personalized sound of wealth to enhance your wealth luck.

Ken Lai

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“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
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“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
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“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video

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In previous article, the star inside day-branch or marital palace is used to rate the marital bliss of the individual’s birth chart.  It is from the self-interest perspective of that individual.mate_select2

This article is 3x more complicated that requires at least an hour of live seminar time to explain.  However, with my data-reduction techniques, I have summarized the data in a little table below that you can use in a flash.

Below is a summary of previous article.  It is put here so that you do not need to scroll up and down to read previous blog: 

MARITAL BLISS IN TERMS OF DAY-PILLAR

  1.  Male day branch with zheng-cai or pian-cai  (wealth star)

Day Pillars:  Yi-chou, Yi-wei, Bing-shen, Ding-you, Wu-zi, Ji-hai, Geng-yin and Ren-wu.  乙丑,乙未,丙申,丁酉,戊子,己亥,庚寅,壬午 (Rating: Best)

  1. Female day branch with zheng-guan or qi-sha (power star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-shen, Yi-you, Ding-hai, Ji-mao, Geng-wu, Xin-si, Gui-chou and Gui-wei. 甲申,乙酉,丁亥,己卯,庚午,辛巳,癸丑,癸未 (Rating: Best) 

  1. Both male and female day branch with zheng-yin or pian-yin (resource star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-zi, Yi-hai, Bing-yin, Ding-mao, Wu-wu, Ji-si, Geng-chen, Geng-xu, Xin-chou, Xin-wei, Ren-shen and Gui-you 甲子,乙亥,丙寅,丁卯,戊午,己巳,庚辰,庚戌,辛丑,辛未,壬申,癸酉  (Rating: Good)

  1. Daymaster sitting on Shi-shen or Shang-guan (output star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-wu, Yi-si, Bing-chen, Bing-xu, Ji-you, Geng-zi, Xin-hai, Ren-yin and Gui-mao. 甲午,乙巳,丙辰,丙戌,己酉,庚子,辛亥,壬寅,癸卯dating

  • For male  (Rating: OK)
  • For female (Rating: Bad)
  1. Daymaster sitting on  Bi-jian or Jie-cai (peer star)

Day Pillars:  Jia-yin, Yi-mao, Bing-wu, Ding-si, Wu-xu, Wu-chen, Ji-wei, Ji-chou, Geng-shen, Xin-you, Ren-zi and Gui-hai. 甲寅,乙卯,丙午,丁巳,戊戌,戊辰,己未,己丑,庚申,辛酉,壬子,癸亥

  • For male DM (Rating: Bad)
  • For female DM (Rating: OK)

MATE-SELECTION GUIDE BASED ON DAY-BRANCH  

The table below cross-tabulated 5 different combinations of day-branches between a male and female match from 3 perspectives:

  1. from male partner  (the “M” rating, e.g.: M5 is the best, M1 the worst)
  2. from female partner (the “F” rating, e.g.: F5 is the best, F1 the worst)
  3. independent overall rating (the “T” rating, e.g.: T5 is the best, T1 the worst)

There are a total of 75 different ratings for this guide.mate_select_guide

RATING SCALE:

  • 5 = BEST
  • 4 = GOOD
  • 3 = OK
  • 2 = BAD
  • 1 = WORST

EXAMPLE OF HOW TO USE THIS SELECTION GUIDE

For example, a man has “power star” (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) in day-branch is dating a woman with “resource star” (zheng-yin/ pian-yin) in hers.  This man wants to check if this is a good match before taking a plunge into the relationship.  He checks the intersection of blue resource column and the red power row and find these data:

SAMPLE RATING:  M3 F4 T3.   The meaning of these ratings are:

  • M3 = From the man’s personal interest, it is a 3 or “OK” rating
  • F4 = From the woman’s personal interest, it is a 4 or “GOOD” rating
  • T3 = From an unbiased rating for the match,  it is a 3 or “OK” rating

In general, if T-rating is less than 3, this is not a good match unless there are other advantages come with this potential partner, like pretty/ handsome face, wealth and the like to even out the low rating.

Ken Lai

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Video Correspondence Courses: (click for details)   

“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video
“Applied Bazi: Sickness Forecasting and Management” w/33 hr. HD video 
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
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