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Will your husband cheat?  Believe it or not, the answer may be found in your own Bazi chart!cheatHubby

In Bazi, power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) represent husband/ boy friend for women.  To check if your husband will cheat or not, you look at the interactions of power stars with your peer stars (bi-jian/ jie-cai) in your own Bazi chart.  If there is/ are interactions would mean potential signs of cheating husbands or boy friends.  It could also mean long courtship/ cohabitation with separations as ending.

If your natal chart meets any one of the following conditions, your husband is a potential cheater:

  1. Peer star snatches power star“(比劫夺官 ):  Peer stars are daymaster’s (DM) sisters, friends of same gender and colleagues.  Power star is husband.  When peer star snatching power star happens, it means close friend or even sister has “snatched” DM’s husband away or simply having affair with DM’s husband.  The likelihood is higher when peer and power star are in the same pillar.  If peer star and power star show up in stem level, it means they have the affair openly without fear.  If both stars are in the branch level, the affair is going on in secret.
  2.   Power star is combined away (官杀被合 ):  Power star represents a woman DM’s husband.  When it is combined away means her husband is taken away .  For example, bing-fire is the power star of xin-metal female DM.  If there is another xin-metal in the chart, especially if it is next to bing-fire, the probability of xin-metal DM losing her husband to another female will be high.
  3. Peer star in day-branch (日支见比劫星 ):  Day-branch is the location of spouse palace or husband in a chart.  This palace prefers seeing wealth or power but not peer star.  If peer star is unfavorable in the chart, mistress may likely show up.

For example:  female chart 

  • YEAR:  Gengwu
  • DAY:   Yi-you
  • MONTH:  Geng-yin
  • HOUR:  Geng-chen

Female Geng-metal DM’s husband is wu-fire.  Wu-fire is in the year pillar.  This means her husband is likely from far away or out of state/ province.  Wu-fire is surrounded by metal (this means peer stars snatching him away).  This women had many unsuccessful romances with out-of-state boy friends.

If your chart does not see any power star, never mind if your husband will cheat or not, worry about how to get a husband first.  Usually this means you may have problem getting a husband or lacking relationship with husband if getting one.

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Male readers may find a new explanation for cheating– “wife’s chart shows that I will cheat“.  Female readers can tell their hubbies why they keep following them or put a male chastity belt on them in certain periods.  However, there are subtle and low profile Bazi remedies than these in-your-face fixes.

For possible Bazi remedies, you may take these courses:

“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video

With Bazi knowledge, one can predict when the cheating episode may happen and do preventive measures.  It is also possible to check if your boy friend or husband will cheat or not by reading his Bazi chart too (equal opportunity Bazi reading here).  This may be a future post.

Ken Lai

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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In March of 2015,  a Liaoning (遼寧 China) peasant Wang Cheng De (王承德 ) had dug up a 70 Kg. “Real Grand Duke”– a rare type of mushroom that is supposedly has many medicinal applications according to ancient Chinese medicine texts.  He had sold the mushroom for RMB$ 3 million (US$500k).

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Peasant Wang and his Grand Duke mushroom

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A close-up look of this Grand Duke mushroom

Unlike other people with sudden riches, Wang did not spend his new found fortune on luxuries nor speculate on stock market.  Instead, he had invested RMB$1.5 million to build a vacation resort, RMB$260k on 50 donkeys, RMB$180k on a new car, the rest of the money is invested on a fish pond to raise fishes and ducks.

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Wang’s donkey stable

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Wang raised ducks and fishes

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Wang’s favorite pastime is looking at his fishes and ducks from this tree house

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Guests at Wang’s vacation resort

Wang is a typical industrious peasant who likes to work.

In the summer of 2017, a giant flood had destroyed Wang’s resort and fish pond.  His fishes and ducks were disappeared in a flash.  Wang did not even have a place to stay but to live on his tree house.  His capital equipment is gone and with no funding source.

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Wang lived in the tree house after the giant flood

Wang had fallen in depression.  He did some soul searching and reflection in the tree house.  He had decided to sell his remaining herds of about 40 donkeys at cost and raised RMB$200k.

He used the money to buy some pigs and raise them in the donkey stables.  He also bought 2000 chicklings to raise them up as “free range chickens“.  At the same time he formed a co-op for cultivating mushrooms.

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Wang examines his free range chickens

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Wang bought eggs of other exotic birds

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Wang raises pheasant too

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Wang feeds his pigs

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Wang once again is full of hope for his future.  He said by next year at around this time, he will have 10k free range chickens and a rebuilt fish pond.

He is unfazed by the wrath of Grand Duke.

POSTSCRIPT:  THE MANY FACES OF GRAND DUKE

Grand Duke comes in many forms.  Grand Duke can represent a direction not to be disturbed in Feng Shui or a time marker that may clash the birth year of some people.

The “Grand Duke” here is one type of Ganoderma or 肉靈芝 in Chinese.  Because of its rarity, it is enshrined with many mysterious medicinal functions.

According to traditional belief, this Grand Duke mushroom should not be touched or moved except for saving life【太歲勿動除非用作藥材救人】.  When discovered, Grand Duke mushroom is enshrined and worshiped.

According to legend, Grand Duke mushroom is the guardian spirit of the land.  If it is removed, the land in which it resides will lose its “earth energy“.  The pictures below are different variations of the Grand Duke mushroom.

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This 1000 years old Grand Duke mushroom worth US$30M!

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A suspected “Grand Duke” mushroom

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This Grand Duke was dug from a field

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White Grand Duke is more valuable

Ken Lai

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In Bazi,  one’s natal chart determines the “quality” of the chart.  But it is only part of the destiny pie.  A “good quality” chart still “sucks” if its luck periods do not bring in the elements that the chart needs to prosper.

There are two types of “luck period“– the “10-years luck” (10YL) and “annual luck” (AL).  10YL is calculated in terms of one’s birth month, which is different from person to person.  10YL provides the backdrops or “climate” of one’s luck within that 10-years period.

Annual luck means one’s overall luck for current year. In Bazi, everyone shares the same AL.  For example, current year 2017 is ding-you (fire-rooster) year.  Every person in the world is subject to the influences of the same annual luck of ding-you.  If fire and metal are favorable to one’s chart, one will enjoy better luck within 2017.  If otherwise, one’s luck will be below average.  The important thing about AL is:  Any fortune or misfortune will be triggered by AL because it brings the favorable or unfavorable elements to the chart.

In this post, we will keep it simple by focusing on how annual luck affects your luck:

1.  AL “fan-yin” or “fu-yin” 10YL:  “Fan-yin” means stem clashing stem and branch clashing branch between two pillars.  “Fu-yin” means two identical pillars.  Fan-yin and fu-yin usually are unfavorable to the daymaster (DM) and jinx his/her close relatives.

2.  Strong DM with AL brings in wealth, power and output (cai, guan and shi-shang) elements means favorable fortune for the year.  But if AL brings in resource and/ or peer (yin or bi-jian) elements, it means misfortune for the year.

3.  Weak DM with AL brings in resource and/ or peer (yin and bi-jian) elements means favorable fortune for the year.  But if AL brings in wealth, power and/ or output (cai, guan and shi-shang) elements, it means misfortune for the year.

4.  10YL is favorable with AL brings in zheng-cai (+wealth), zheng-guan (+power), zheng-yin (+resource), shi-shen (-output), and/ or bi-jian (-peer),  means current year fortune will be enhanced even further.  If AL brings in jie-cai (+peer), qi-sha (-power), pian-yin (-resource) and/ or shang-guan (+output), means current year fortune will be mixed with both good and bad fortune.

5.  10YL is unfavorable with AL brings in zheng-cai (+wealth), zheng-guan (+power), zheng-yin (+resource), shi-shen (-output), and/ or bi-jian (-peer),  means current year fortune will have minor fortunes but major mishaps.  If AL brings in jie-cai (+peer), qi-sha (-power), pian-yin (-resource) and/ or shang-guan (+output), means current year fortune will be very bad.

6.  AL stem/ branch combine with day pillar is generally considered good luck for the year.  AL fan-yin  (clashing stems and branches) or fu-yin (identical pillars) day-pillar is generally negative for DM because it affects DM and the spouse palace directly.  Usually this means something going on with marital relationship or personal sickness/ disaster.

7.  The stem and branch of AL are favorable elements (“yong-shen“) of the natal chart would imply the year will be auspicious or fortunate.  If unfavorable (“ji-shen“), the year will be below average or unfortunate.

Anyway, the above is a rough guideline for making annual luck interpretations.  You still have to take the whole chart and both luck periods into consideration to make more accurate predictions.

Ken Lai

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void2Void” means nothing, missing, lacking karma and poor or no relationship in Bazi.  “Void” occurs because there are 12 earthly branches to match with ten heavenly stems.  Two branches in each group of 10 binomials in the 60-jia-zi cycle will have no match and are defined as “in void“.

 

MEANINGS OF VOID IN PILLARS (四柱空亡)

  • Year pillar in void:  Year pillar represents life period between age 1-16.  Daymaster (DM) suffers obstacles and illness during this period; lacking support from older generations.
  • Month pillar in void:  Month pillar represents life period between age 17-32.  DM suffers obstacles more than successes during this period;  disharmony or with little or no relationship with siblings or parents.
  • Day pillar in void:  Day pillar represents life period between age 33-48.  DM suffers bad luck in career/ wealth and disharmony in family during this period;  poor relationship with wife; wife may die prematurely or simply no wife
  • Hour pillar in void:  hour pillar represents life period after age 48.  DM has little or no relationship with children or simply no children; cannot rely on children for old age support; likely to be alone and poor

MEANINGS OF VOID IN 10 TRANSFORMATION STARS  (“10 Gods十神空亡)

  1. Bi-jian (+peer) in void:  few siblings or siblings are not helpful or in disharmony; male DM will have no wife or wife is not helpful;  female DM lacks relationship with husband
  2. Jie-cai (-peer) in void:  incapable or unhelpful siblings;  problems in accumulating wealth; easy to waste money away.
  3. Shang-guan (+output) in void:  few children or no kid; marital problem or remarry
  4. Shi-shen (-output) in void:  decreases in blessing and life expectancy
  5. Zheng-cai  (+wealth) in void:  problems in accumulating wealth;  toiling hard for money; lacking relationship with wife; late marriage;  family disharmony.
  6. Pian-cai (-wealth) in void:  jinxing father;  lacking relationship with father; no “unexpected wealth” luck
  7. Zheng-guan (+power) in void:  deceases in wealth from government career; not suitable for public post;  few children for male DM;  poor relationship with husband for female DM.
  8. Qi-sha (-power) in void:  lacking mentor/ help from superiors or senior generation; DM has no authority or influence;  few children for male DM;  poor relationship with husband for female DM.
  9. Zheng-yin (+resource) in void:  problems in achieving authority and academic successes;  jinxing mother.
  10. Pian-yin (+resource) in void:  problems in getting success in academia or school; jinxing step-mother.

My “Destiny and Luck Management” courses (see below) include some remedies and fixes for void.

Ken Lai

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gambling2The tips below are for increasing the probability of winning in small group gambling like table games (blackjack, poker and the likes) and Chinese mahjog.  These games are characterized by a small group of people, usually less than 10,  sit around a table and play.

I deliberately do NOT explain the rationale behind the tips below (take my “Visual Form Feng Shui” course if you are curious).  You may understand the theories behind if you have studied Feng Shui.

FENG SHUI TIPS FOR SOCIAL GAMBLING

  1. Sitting location:  Your back must have a wall or a tall object as your “back support“.  It must not be empty or your wealth luck will suffer.
  2. Facing:  Your facing direction must be open and wide.  It is even better this open space is connected to the main door to receive wealth energy from outside. This affects the magnitude of your wealth luck.
  3. See no toilet:  Your facing must NOT seeing/facing a toilet.
  4. No toilet at your back: Your back location must not be a toilet.
  5. Round table:  If sitting around a round table, sit at the side that has a wall.
  6. Square table:  If sitting around a square or rectangular table, sit at the side with a wall.  If the side has two seats, sit at the right side.  If the side has 3 seats, sit in the middle.  If the side has 4 seats, sit at the third seat (counting from the left), if you cannot get the third seat, sit on the 4th seat.
  7. Avoid traffic:  If you cannot get the ideal seat, avoid the seat on the side with walking traffic at your back.
  8. Time-out:  Take a break to “recharge” your energy when someone keeps winning (to interrupt his winning streak energy) or you keep losing.

These tips have been tested and found high accuracy in predicting who will win or loss in small group social gambling situation.

Similar principles can be applied to casino situation.  Avoid dealer with a back support like a wall or tall object.  Sit at the right side of a table (but make sure there are people in your left side) and avoid opening/ door at your back.  Unfortunately, it is rare to find back support/ wall for gamblers in casinos.  So at the least, find a dealer with an empty space at his back, the bigger the better.

A student of mine has combined Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia and Bazi to win slot machines in casinos.  His winnings are more than enough to pay for my courses and more.

Disclaimer:  There is no guarantee for anyone to win in any gambling situation.  The author of this post will not be responsible for any losses/ profits resulting from any application of the tips listed in this post. 

Ken Lai

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NOTE:   Below is a “Reality Bazi” exercise that I give to my Bazi students today.  It is the real life version of “The Graduate” movie.love_triangle

There is a soap opera going on in Taiwan that grabs TV and people’s attention.  Here are the characters:

  1. Mother-in-law:  36 years old  (1981 xin-you)
  2. Daughter:  20 years old  (1997 ding-chou)
  3. Son-in-law (“Sing”):  18 years old (1999 ji-mao)
  4. The young couple has one kid, age and gender not reported.

This “incident” has happened in 2017 ding-you year (likely in metal months, September – October).

This mother-in-law has seduced Sing the son-in-law and has sex.  She claims that Sing loves her and tells people that Sing will divorce her daughter.  She said her current husband does not care as long as she returns home at night.

Her daughter is mad and spills out this in-laws affair in the social media.  The daughter says that she would have filed a lawsuit for damages if the mistress is not her own mother.  Mother and daughter have public “cat-fights” in the internet.  Local TV news are busy with this event to push up rating.

Most “netizens” sympathize with the daughter.  Some comment that the incident looks like a Japanese AV (adult video).

Friends of this son-in-law said he had relationship with 2 females simultaneously for a while.

Based on the limited information from the media, can you create (“guesstimate“) the possible composition of daughter’s natal Bazi chart  (incomplete chart OK, just need the critical elements)?

If you can read Chinese, here are the links for more juicy details.

Ken Lai

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I saw the this picture of a mother showing a poster-sized note about getting a man for her daughter in a Chinese website.  Here is the translation of the poster:

Female, born in November of 1991, ram sign, Beijing resident, 172 cm height, 52 kg weight, university graduate, owns 5 apartments; one of the apartments  can be assigned to the potential husband.  Bazi of the girl:  (Nov. 21, 1991, Chen hour)

  • Year:  xin-wei
  • Month:  ji-hai
  • Day:  yi-wei
  • Hour:  geng-chen

Requirement of potential mate:

OK if he does not have property and/or car; must have horse animal sign and the following Bazi:  (Nov. 20, 1990, Chen hour)

  • Year:  geng-wu
  • Month:  ding-hai 
  • Day:  ji-chou 
  • Hour:  wu-chen

Apparently this mother has a Bazi reader done a marriage Bazi matching before searching a man for her daughter.

The woman’s zodiac animal sign is ram and the potential target man is horse.  Horse and ram “combine” or getting along in Bazi astrology.

Can you figure out the reason for the male’s specific Bazi, especially you can see male’s ji-chou day-pillar clashing (fan-yin) female’s yi-wei  day-pillar?  This could result in quarreling and fighting between the couple.

Click picture to enlarge (chart by bazi-calculator.com)

From the charts, you can see earth is the wealth element of this yi-wood daymaster girl.  She has very strong wealth elements derived from older generations (owns 5 apartment at age 26).  Metal is the husband for a wood daymaster.  There are two metal elements in the stem level with a condition called “guan-sha mixing up” (numerous husbands and lovers).  Her mother does not need to help her find a husband.  Her daughter attracts men like flies.  She probably is a nosy mother to make sure her daughter gets the type of son-in-law that she wants.

What type of son-in-law does this “concerned” mother want?  A quick hint is from the poster– “owns 5 apartments“.  There is no mentioning of any personal or intangible qualities of the girl nor required personal quality from the man.   Her concern for material things is very evident here.  This is even more evident when you look at the composition of the natal chart of the potential suitor. 

The potential male is a ji-earth daymaster with strong peer (bi-jian/ jie-cai)  elements and strong strong resource (fire) to nurture earth.  Chart with strong peer elements but little or no power element (“guan” or wood here) to control them, the person will be someone with the personality of pharma bro Martin Shkreli (obnoxious), jinxing wife and father.  I guess this mother primarily focusing on the strong earth elements in the chart (means wealth to her daughter).  She hopes her wood daymaster daughter will be able to boss or control this man.  Wood is the power element to an earth daymaster.

Incidentally, both girl and potential man are likely becoming obese and problem conceiving children in the future.

From the man’s Bazi chart, we can deduce that the Bazi reader that this mother hired considered earth or wealth is the favorable element (“yong-shen“) of this girl.  After matching the animal sign of the potential couple, this Bazi reader simply searches for chart with strong earth for the girl and never minding any possible side effects.

Most Bazi readers in China laugh at the choice.  Upon looking beyond these natal charts, some important discoveries that could unlock a million dollar question in Bazi are found hidden in this marriage Bazi matching.  I let you figure it out yourself.  Hint:  check the 10-years-luck periods.

Can your Bazi chart qualify to be this girl’s husband and “share” her 5 apartments?  My chart has matched 2 of the 4 pillars posted, I will give it a try to see if I can get 2.5 apartments.

Ken Lai

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