A Buddhist disciple had called a master on the phone and complained, “I have worked hard and still not achieved much, why?  I have chanted mantra and done good deeds, but my destiny has not changed.” MonksZen

一位佛友電話抱怨道:為什麼我努力了還是得不到?念經行善了,命運卻不變?

Master: “Let me give you $500, is this OK?”

法師:我給你寄五百塊錢,好不好?

Disciple:  “Master, I dare not take your money!

佛友:師父,你的錢我不敢要呢!

Master:  “I want you to help me do one thing.”

法師:我是要你幫我辦一件事。

Disciple:Master, tell me what you want and I will absolutely do it perfectly for you!

佛友:師父,你說辦什麼,我絕對幫你辦好!

Master:  “Please buy a car for me.”

法師:幫我買一輛汽車。

Disciple (surprisingly):  “Master, you cannot buy a car with $500!”

佛友(驚呀地):師父,五百塊怎麼能買到汽車呢?!

Master:  “You also know one cannot get a car for $500?”

法師:你知道五百塊買不到汽車?!

Revelation:

There are many people in this world trying to give a little to get a lot in return.  Obviously, this is not quite possible.

啟 示:
世上有太多的人都在絞盡腦汁,只想付出一點點,就得到很多。而這,顯然是不太可能的。

Ken’s comment:  This story is applicable to any religion or even events.  For example, someone admires the income of a medical doctor but does not have the patience or putting in the effort needed to go through medical school training.  I have some people pleading for spiritual help but are not willing to put in the time and effort to get them out of their predicament.  They want instant good luck with little effort or simply hearing good news.  The universe is fair (in the long run).  You get what you put in.

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When will you get both wealth and love at the same time?” is one of the chapters in my upcoming “Wealth Bazi” course (NOT a get-rich-quick course).  In that chapter, I have used the Bazi features of people who will likely get both love and wealth in 2019 ji-hai year as illustration.  I have extracted some of the contents below for this blog.love_money

Many people fantasies getting both love and wealth through romance or marriage.  But the harsh reality is that not everyone is equipped to get wealthy and love through romance EVEN for those with pretty or handsome faces.  We have to look into the romance or peach blossom elements in their Bazi charts first.  In other words, it is already written in one’s destiny.

This chapter answers the question of when one is likely to get both love and wealth. Below are the specific timing and conditions (we use 2019 ji-hai year as example, you may figure out the rest by substituting different daymaster (DM) and annual lucks).

For Bazi terminology convention used here, check:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2011/05/4p-bazi-terminology-conventions.html

PEOPLE WHO ARE LIKELY TO GET LOVE AND WEALTH IN 2019

1. Male who is a strong jia/ yi-wood or wu/ ji-earth DM and also in strong wealth (zheng-cai/ pian-cai) luck region, will likely get both love and wealth.

2. Female who is a strong ren/ gui-water or bing/ ding-fire DM and also in strong power (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) luck region, will likely getting both love and wealth.

3. Jia-wood male DM combines with ji-earth in 2019 (ji-hai).  Ding-fire female DM combines with ren-water +power star (hidden in hai).  Ji-earth female DM combines with jia-wood +power star (hidden in hai).  These combinations with annual wealth and power luck reflect potentials for getting both wealth and love for the DM.

4. For 2019 ji-hai year, ji-hai is the strong output annual luck for bing, ding, geng and xin DMs.  These DMs are likely to have “getting both love and wealth” events if they have strong output stars in their natal chart already.

5. For 2019 ji-hai year, charts with mao, wei, yin, zi, chou and wu in the branches, are likely to have “wealth and love” events due to combination/s with annual luck branch  (Note: hai-mao-wei wood 3-unities, yin-hai combination, hai-zi-chou water 3-meetings, hai-wu hidden combination).

(Original chapter has more detailed explanations)

FINAL REMARKS

While one’s chart may look getting “both love and wealth“, one still needs to check if power star (as in female DM) or wealth star (for male) is favorable to him or her.  If favorable, everything will be great and happy.  If not, it could mean losing wealth for male DM and being implicated/ hurt emotionally/ physically by males for female DM.

Ken Lai

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You are where you live.  The conditions of a residence could reflect the potential happenings of its residents.  The house omens listed below foretell the future of certain resident of a house:

1.  Treasured arts, antique or mirror cracked suddenly–  alarm for unexpected disaster happen to someone in the family 

2.  Door frame of main door cracked or crooked— foretells family principal may have disaster or sickness

3.  Sitting mountain (back side of house) or the wall next to altar cracked— children of the family may have misfortune

4.  Cooking stove/ utensils/ bowls/ dishes suddenly cracked or broken—  leaking wealth or marital disharmony

5.  Photographs of late ancestors tilted or dropping tears—  family may have funeral in the near future

6.  Plants in the house suddenly wilted or fishes in the aquarium died—  warning for damaging wealth luck, career obstacles and family disharmony

7.  House suddenly has many bugs or spider webs overnight—  warning for infectious diseases or marital disharmony

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This article assumes you are biological capable of producing a baby AND your Bazi birth chart shows you have children in your chart.  But for whatever reason, you have problem conceiving a baby.  Then we suspect it has something to do with your house Feng Shui.

Here are some Feng Shui tips to help you overcome this baby-making difficulty.

Feng Shui separates your house into 8 major sectors:  N, S, E, W, NE, SE, SW and NW.  Each direction handles some functions and representations.

North stands for water and reproductive system for Feng Shui.  When this sector has Feng Shui problem, the residents will likely have reproductive illnesses.  Hence the North sector of your house must have correct Feng Shui arrangement before you can make any baby.  (Free bonus here:  fix this sector if you have impotence or ED problem)

In Yi-jing (“Book of Changes“), young boy is represented by Gen trigram or NE sector.  Pre-heaven location of Gen is in NW and post-heaven location is in NE.  Hence, if you want a baby boy,  make sure the Feng Shui of NE and NW sector of your house are not messed up.  Otherwise, the boy born will be a weakling.  Gen is earth and NW is metal in nature.

Dui trigram or West represents young girl in Yi-jing.  Pre-heaven location of Dui is SE and post-heaven is West.  Hence, if you want a baby girl, you make sure this two sectors are clean and the appropriate Feng Shui setup, especially if you want a pretty girl.  SE is wood and West is metal in nature.

Before you fix the baby Feng Shui, fix the North side first because you need a working reproductive system before you can make babies.

Ken, you have not told us what is appropriate Feng Shui for these sectors.”

This is simple Bagua Feng Shui.  Consult your Feng Shui teacher or books for details.  Simply put, do not put things that clash the elemental nature of a specific sector.  For example, water is the elemental nature of North sector, avoid putting earth element there and put things that will strengthen water, especially if you have impotency problem  (please donate your saving in Viagra to charity).

Special Chinese New Year Bonus:  North, West and NW also stand for wealth and career luck.  SE stands for academic luck.  Fix up the Feng Shui in these sectors will also help procreation, wealth, career and academic progress.

Ken Lai

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Today is your lucky day to see the last batch of top secrets of the year. 

Below are some secret Bazi laws that masters use to do quick reading:

八字定律

命局财多愚,才多劳,官多贱,杀多死,印多孤,枭多凶,食多愁,伤多害,刃多残,劫多败,禄多贫,马多奔走,冲多不安,合多热心,阳多坦荡,阴多深重,墓库多克六亲,无财不真实,无官少压力,无印少福分。

Note:  If you are not familiar with the terminology used here, check this link:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2011/05/4p-bazi-terminology-conventions.html

Chart with numerous (3+)

  1. +wealth (zheng-cai):  Daymaster (DM) is likely stupid
  2. -wealth (pian-cai):  DM likely works too much
  3. +power (zheng-guan):  DM is likely a lower class member/ depressed 
  4. -power (qi-sha):  DM is likely to die prematurely
  5. +resource (zheng-yin):  DM is likely alone/ solitary
  6. -resource (pian-yin):  DM is likely a vicious person
  7. +output (shang-guan):  DM is likely a disaster/ arrogant
  8. -output (shi-shen):  DM worries too much/ likes eating
  9. +peer (bi-jian):  DM is likely a failure/ fantasizes too much
  10. Yang-knives (+peer):  DM likely has disability
  11. Lu (-peer):  DM likely lives in poverty
  12. Traveling Horses (yin/shen/si/hai):  DM travels a lot/ mobile, can’t sit still
  13. clashes:  instability and insecurity for DM
  14. combinations:  DM is enthusiastic and sociable
  15. more yang than yin pillars:  DM is open and honest
  16. more yin than yang pillars:  DM is not open and suspicious of others
  17. tomb-storages (chen/xu/chou/wei): DM is likely jinxing close relatives

Chart with NO:

  • wealth star:  DM is “not real” (everyone needs wealth to survive)
  • power star:  DM has less pressure
  • resource star:  DM has shortage of blessing

Of course, you also need to read other parts of a chart before you giving out comments based on above laws.  There are always exceptions such as special profile charts which may give totally opposite meanings.

As you can see, a tiny paragraph written in  Chinese takes almost one page to translate in brief.  It would have taken another 2 pages if I explain what these mean in details.    

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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one_womanMan4Most if not all women want a “one-woman man” as their spouse.  While “one-woman man” probably becomes an endangered species,  you may get lucky if you find a man with some of the following Bazi characteristics in his natal chart.  For our male readers here, you may get a “sudden enlightenment 頓悟” if you read this article from the beginning to the end without skipping anything (no enlightenment if you cheat).

Click the following link if you want to understand the Bazi/4P terminology used here as compared to yours:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2011/05/4p-bazi-terminology-conventions.html

Click the following link to find out the day-pillar of your potential spouse:

http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2018/02/bazi-spotting-out-wife-jinxer-beater-in.html

For single woman, grab the guy if he has any of the following Bazi features:

1. +wealth (zheng-cai) sits in spouse palace:  +wealth stands for wife for male chart.  When wife star sits in spouse palace, it is considered a perfect star and palace match and means this male only loves this woman.  The probability of getting this guy is 1/60– Wu-earth DM with zi-water as +wealth.  Wu-zi DM is usually NOT poor!  But you need to make sure there is no -wealth (pian-cai, stands for mistress) in other pillars before betting yourself to this guy.  The following four day-pillars are the “runners-up” with hidden +wealth in spouse palace:  jia-wu, ji-hai, xin-hai and ren-wu.

2. output (shi-shen) sits in spouse palace:  -output is the original producer of +wealth.  When -output sits in spouse palace of a male chart, it means this man will wholeheartedly love, nurture and give-in to wife’s demands, including the unreasonable ones.  The probability of getting this guy is 1/6.  Here are the day pillars that have -output in spouse palace: Bing-chen, bing-xu, ding-chou, ding-wei, wu-shen, ji-you, geng-zi, xin-hai, ren-yin and gui-mao.  Like in #1 above, make sure there is no -wealth (mistress) in other pillars.

3. Daymaster (DM) combines with +wealth:   +wealth stands for wife for a male chart.  When +wealth combines with DM, it means the couple gets along well and loves each other with a trusting relationship. The probability of getting this guy is less than 1/12.  Here are the DMs that will combine with +wealth (zheng-cai)–Geng-DM with yi  as +wealth;  bing-DM with xin, ren-DM with ding, jia-DM with ji and wu-DM with gui.  You may notice these men are all yang DMs. 

4. No combination in spouse palace:  Day-stem represents the man in a chart.  Day-branch represents his psyche and also spouse palace.  When day-branch has no combination with other branches, it means DM is likely a faithful husband with no association with other females.

Of course, you also have to check other pillars to see no other woman/ women is/ are in the chart,  if this guy jinxes wife or not, if he can be rich, if he will run into major life-threatening events in next 20- 30 years……. before placing your bet on the guy.  If you need help, take the following course:

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POSTSCRIPT:  This article is posted in advance in my Bazi groups.  A student asks me for the Bazi characteristics of “one-man woman“.  It is already embedded in this article– the opposite of the characteristics from #1 to 3.  #4 is applicable to both sexes.

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A few males get “sudden enlightenment” after seeing these 2 pixes

Most single women probably want to ask this question: “Will I get a good husband?”  Look no further.  Your own Bazi natal chart may have the answer.goodHubby

Below are 5 Bazi scenarios that a woman may get a good husband:

1.  Power stars (zheng-guan/ qi-sha) are favorable elements in natal chart

Power stars stand for husband for a female chart.  Favorable element represents good support for the daymaster (DM) or woman here.  Power star is favorable element in a female chart means this DM will have a good husband.

2.  The element sitting in day branch or spouse palace is favorable

Some charts may not have power star.  In this case we check the element sitting inside spouse palace (day branch) to see if it is favorable or not.  If favorable, it means the potential husband will be nice and helpful to the DM.

3.  Power star combines with daymaster

This means husband gets along well with DM.  Even better if power star is also the favorable element and there is no “jealous combination” in the chart (i.e., no woman steal the good man).  In this scenario, this husband will love DM very much.

4.  Spouse palace is occupied by one of the 4 peach-blossom elements– zi, wu, mao or you. 

This husband will be handsome, sociable or knows how to please people.  However, this element must be favorable element to the chart to be positive to the DM.

5.  Wealth element sits in spouse palace

We all need wealth to survive.  Wealth stands for wife for man and also love for both sexes.  To check if the future husband has wealth (or capable of making wealth) or not, check DM’s spouse palace to see if it is occupied by a wealth element.  If wealth star sits there and is also the favorable element, DM’s husband is capable of making money and hopefully becoming rich (need to check the man’s chart too).

If you think logically, the scenarios above with minor modifications will be for a man in search of a good wife– simply change “power star” to “wealth star“.  Another ROGO (read-one-get-one) free article here!

Ken Lai

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