one_womanMan4Most if not all women want a “one-woman man” as their spouse.  While “one-woman man” probably becomes an endangered species,  you may get lucky if you find a man with some of the following Bazi characteristics in his natal chart.  For our male readers here, you may get a “sudden enlightenment 頓悟” if you read this article from the beginning to the end without skipping anything (no enlightenment if you cheat).

Click the following link if you want to understand the Bazi/4P terminology used here as compared to yours:

Click the following link to find out the day-pillar of your potential spouse:

For single woman, grab the guy if he has any of the following Bazi features:

1. +wealth (zheng-cai) sits in spouse palace:  +wealth stands for wife for male chart.  When wife star sits in spouse palace, it is considered a perfect star and palace match and means this male only loves this woman.  The probability of getting this guy is 1/60– Wu-earth DM with zi-water as +wealth.  Wu-zi DM is usually NOT poor!  But you need to make sure there is no -wealth (pian-cai, stands for mistress) in other pillars before betting yourself to this guy.  The following four day-pillars are the “runners-up” with hidden +wealth in spouse palace:  jia-wu, ji-hai, xin-hai and ren-wu.

2. output (shi-shen) sits in spouse palace:  -output is the original producer of +wealth.  When -output sits in spouse palace of a male chart, it means this man will wholeheartedly love, nurture and give-in to wife’s demands, including the unreasonable ones.  The probability of getting this guy is 1/6.  Here are the day pillars that have -output in spouse palace: Bing-chen, bing-xu, ding-chou, ding-wei, wu-shen, ji-you, geng-zi, xin-hai, ren-yin and gui-mao.  Like in #1 above, make sure there is no -wealth (mistress) in other pillars.

3. Daymaster (DM) combines with +wealth:   +wealth stands for wife for a male chart.  When +wealth combines with DM, it means the couple gets along well and loves each other with a trusting relationship. The probability of getting this guy is less than 1/12.  Here are the DMs that will combine with +wealth (zheng-cai)–Geng-DM with yi  as +wealth;  bing-DM with xin, ren-DM with ding, jia-DM with ji and wu-DM with gui.  You may notice these men are all yang DMs. 

4. No combination in spouse palace:  Day-stem represents the man in a chart.  Day-branch represents his psyche and also spouse palace.  When day-branch has no combination with other branches, it means DM is likely a faithful husband with no association with other females.

Of course, you also have to check other pillars to see no other woman/ women is/ are in the chart,  if this guy jinxes wife or not, if he can be rich, if he will run into major life-threatening events in next 20- 30 years……. before placing your bet on the guy.  If you need help, take the following course:

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POSTSCRIPT:  This article is posted in advance in my Bazi groups.  A student asks me for the Bazi characteristics of “one-man woman“.  It is already embedded in this article– the opposite of the characteristics from #1 to 3.  #4 is applicable to both sexes.

Ken Lai

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