BFFIt is not unusual to see BFF (best friend forever) “steals” boy friend from her friend.  The following Bazi characteristic list helps you filter out your potential man-snatcher pals before your treat them as BFF.  If you are not familiar with Bazi terms, simply go to, enter your friend’s birthday and see if you find the specific elements listed below in her chart.


1.  Numerous -power (qi-sha) elements— charts with 2 or more qi-sha elements means there will be numerous men/ lovers in their life.  It means your man would be fair game.

2.  Numerous +peer (bi-jian) elements— charts with 2 or more bi-jian elements means the DMs like competition.  It means they like to show they can get your man, play with him for a while, dump him and get another target.

3.  Ding and Bing-fire daymasters—  Ding and Bing-fire daymasters are likely cheerful, passionate and attractive.  They may find it fun and all right to actively engage your man.

4.  Ren and Gui-water daymasters—  Ren and Gui-water daymasters are likely sentimental, emotional and likeable.  They tend to like or love another man easily.  If there is metal in their charts, they are likely attractive and draw your man into them easily.

If your friend’s chart has just one of the above characteristics, you put her on “watch list”.  If she has one or more of the above,  hide your man from her.

Good man is hard to come by.  Good luck safeguarding your “man-interest“.

If “your man” is easily tempted by another woman, you may not want to “keep” him either.

Knowledge of Bazi or 4-Pillars is very useful. It can help you find a “good man/ woman”, predict if and when your spouse will cheat or not, predicts your future lucks and even handle Feng Shui and date-selection.  It is difficult to cover all the mechanics involved in this blog, take the following course if you want to learn more:

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