meanPpl2Xiao ren” or “little people” is the Chinese term for mean people, backstabbers and gossipers — people who make your life miserable or blocking your progress in life.

Common Feng Shui features that attract mean people are:

  1. External negative energy (sha-qi) like T-junction, heaven-chopping sha, and other form sha.
  2. Missing corner in home or office, especially SE or NW side.
  3. Overhanging beam above your seat or bed
  4. Door facing door, whether with your neighbor’s door or door facing door inside your home or office
  5. Window behind sofa, bed or office chair (no support or helpful mentor)
  6. Yin” plants with thorns like roses, cactus, climbing plants/ vines
  7. Clutters and  garbage accumulation in your home or office
  8. Sleeping or sitting in the annual 3-wood star location (2018 in NE, 2019 in south, 2020 in north).  This star stands for disharmony and mean people.

Some remedies or cures for the above are from simple to difficult.  The easy ones are simply removing or relocating the offending Feng Shui items.  For the difficult ones, please consult your Feng Shui teacher or take the following course for cures or remedies:

“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video

Ken Lai

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
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“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
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dominant_hubbyOriginally, I want to use the word “control” instead of “manage“.  But “control” sounds manipulative and politically incorrect….

Ladies!  Today is your lucky day if your husband drives you nuts or bosses you around.  The cavalry is coming to your rescue with this little taught husband management Feng Shui.  It is based on simple Form Feng Shui theory of green dragon and white tiger (not elaborated here, take my “Visual Form Feng Shui” course if you want to know more).

FENG SHUI FEATURES THAT MAKE YOUR HUSBAND DOMINANT

1.  Too many furniture is put in the left side of your house

Fix:  move some furniture to the right side of your house; make it a balance if you want an egalitarian relationship

2.  Most activities taking place in left side of your house

Fix:  arrange more activities to the right side of your house

3.  Bedroom door is in left side of bed

Fix:  move your bed so that the door is at the right side

4.  Bedroom location is close to a road with traffic

Fix:  relocate your bedroom

5.  Stove has no support mountain (back side of stove is a window)

Fix:  relocate your stove to place it with a wall at its back

6.  Husband sleeps close to window side or open side of the bed (this will increase his peach-blossom and authority)

Fix:  switching sleeping location with husband

7.  Toilet in southwest side (SW represents woman of the house)

Fix:  stop using this toilet or at least keeping it clean

STRUCTURAL PROBLEMS FOR MALE-DOMINANT FENG SHUI

Below house features will contribute to male chauvinism to a marriage.  Avoid these features when buying a house.  If you have already bought the house, consult a Feng Shui teacher or take my “Visual Form Feng Shui” course for remedies.

  • Southwest side of your house is a missing corner
  • Northwest side of your house has a big protrusion
  • Left side of your house is much bigger than right side
  • House on top of a hill (no support and makes husband more dogmatic)

husband_beaterKen, do you have “wife management Feng Shui“?  Woman can be bossy too.”

Smart men can see this is a BOGO  article with “wife management Feng Shui” already embedded.  Simple do the opposite of the list above, like change right back to left or northwest to southwest.

May the Auspicious Qi  be with you.

Ken Lai 

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sleepingWe spend one-third of our life in sleeping.  It is important that our heads pointing to the direction that is beneficial to our body.  The followings are favorable and unfavorable sleeping directions based on your Chinese zodiac animal sign.  The sleeping directions here refer to the pointing direction of your head while sleeping.

RAT (years born: 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020, 2032, 2044) 
Favorable directions:  north, west
Unfavorable directions:  northwest, southwest 

OX (years born: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973,  1985, 1997, 2009, 2021, 2033, 2045) 
Favorable directions:  west, north, northeast
Unfavorable directions:  northwest, southwest, south

TIGER (years born: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022,  2034, 2046) 
Favorable directions:  east, south, north
Unfavorable directions:  west

RABBIT (years born: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023,  2035 ) 
Favorable directions:  east, south, north
Unfavorable directions:  west

DRAGON (years born: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976,  1988, 2000, 2012, 2024, 2036) 
Favorable directions:  north, west, southeast
Unfavorable directions:  east, northwest, south

SNAKE (years born: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013,  2025, 2037) 
Favorable directions:  east, south
Unfavorable directions:  north

HORSE (years born: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026, 2038, 2050)          Favorable directions:  east, south
Unfavorable directions:  north

RAM (years born: 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027, 2039 )
Favorable directions:  south, southwest
Unfavorable directions:  northeast, northwest, north 

MONKEY (years born: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016,  2028, 2040)
Favorable directions:  west, southwest, northeast
Unfavorable directions:  south

ROOSTER (years born: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981,  1993, 2005, 2017, 2029, 2041)  
Favorable directions:  west, southwest, northeast
Unfavorable directions:  south

DOG (years born: 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970,  1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030, 2042)
Favorable directions:  east, south, northwest
Unfavorable directions:  northeast, southeast

PIG  (years born: 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2019, 2031, 2043 )
Favorable directions:  north, west
Unfavorable directions:  northwest, southwest

NOTE:  If a person was born between January 1 and February 3 of the year, his/ her animal sign would be the sign of previous year (due to the Chinese solar calendar).

Ken Lai 

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Below is a list of inauspicious Feng Shui images that you do not want to see upon entering one’s house or at the door.stairway

  1. Greet by a wall— may cause obstacles in life and declining luck
  2. See a mirror— deflects away good energies coming into the house and absorbs negative energies into the house
  3. See a toilet—  greeting guest with foul energy; attracting bickering and disharmony among family members 
  4. See a stairway—  leaking energy and wealth
  5. See bedroom—  attracting lust and affairs
  6. See the kitchen— causing lawsuits, wealth losses and hot temper
  7. Walks under heavy beam over the door—  disunity among family members and dwindling luck
  8. See the balcony through the door— leaking qi or energy, hurting people and failure to accumulate wealth and keep people in the family
  9. See 3 doors in a straight line—  “sword piercing heart sha” that hurts people and loses wealth
  10. See piles of shoes/ garbage— negative qi suppresses residents’ luck; difficult life for the residents and attracting “mean people” or backstabbers.
  11. See objects like knife, sword, gun, tiger, snake and etc.— unsettling family with bloody events and lawsuits

Most of the above are under traditional Form Feng Shui area.  Consult a Feng Shui practitioner for remedy or take this course:

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Ken Lai

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“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 1: Forecasting and Decision Support” w/32 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 2: Basic Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Destiny/Luck Mgmt. 3 w/ Advanced Bazi Therapy w/18 hr. HD video
“Feng Shui Toolbox: Sha-qi, Health/Wealth and Career” w/ 7 hr. HD video
“Period 7/8 FS Toolkit w/ Advanced Flying Star techniques” w/ 6 hr. HD video
“Practical Date-Selection Methods (incl. XKDG) w/ 12 hr. video
“Practical Imperial Qi-Men-Dun-Jia 4G” w/ 12 hr. video
“Professional Imperial QMDJ 4G” w/ 21 hr. video
“EZ QMDJ series: Astrology, Date/Task Selection, Annual Luck/ FS”w/ 3 hr. HD
“EZ QMDJ Advanced Feng Shui” with 4 hr. HD video
“Daoist Talismans for Feng Shui/Blessing” w/ 24 hr video
“Practical Door Feng Shui for Wealth” w/ 3 hr. video
“4-Pillars Forecasting Bootcamp+ 2017 edition” with 18 hr. video
“Advanced Visual Form Feng Shui” w/23 hr. HD video
“Visual Form Feng Shui” w/13 hr. HD video

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