Ken Lai


Where do all these penalties come from?  I have created the tables below for you to figure out the relationship at a glance:

SOURCES OF PENALTIES

One approach to derive penalties is matching 3-unities (San He) with 3-meetings (San Hui) like additions.  From the tables above, we have the following penalties:

3-Penalties

  • Yin-si-shen  (from 4 sub-cardinal branches)
  • Red is 4 cardinal branches; blue is sub-cardinal; brown is 4 storages

    Xu-chou-wei  (from 4-storages)

  • Zi-mao  (from 4 cardinal branches)

Penalties:

  • Yin-si, yin-shen, si-shen
  • Xu-chou, xu-wei, chou-wei

Self-Penalties:

  • Chen-chen
  • You-you
  • Wu-wu
  • Hai-hai

It will be a long story to explain the above individually.  Please check my past blog articles on this topic for details.

Ken Lai

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This article assumes you are biological capable of producing a baby AND your Bazi birth chart shows you have children in your chart.  But for whatever reason, you have problem conceiving a baby.  Then we suspect it has something to do with your house Feng Shui.

Here are some Feng Shui tips to help you overcome this baby-making difficulty.

Feng Shui separates your house into 8 major sectors:  N, S, E, W, NE, SE, SW and NW.  Each direction handles some functions and representations.

North stands for water and reproductive system for Feng Shui.  When this sector has Feng Shui problem, the residents will likely have reproductive illnesses.  Hence the North sector of your house must have correct Feng Shui arrangement before you can make any baby.  (Free bonus here:  fix this sector if you have impotence or ED problem)

In Yi-jing (“Book of Changes“), young boy is represented by Gen trigram or NE sector.  Pre-heaven location of Gen is in NW and post-heaven location is in NE.  Hence, if you want a baby boy,  make sure the Feng Shui of NE and NW sector of your house are not messed up.  Otherwise, the boy born will be a weakling.  Gen is earth and NW is metal in nature.

Dui trigram or West represents young girl in Yi-jing.  Pre-heaven location of Dui is SE and post-heaven is West.  Hence, if you want a baby girl, you make sure this two sectors are clean and the appropriate Feng Shui setup, especially if you want a pretty girl.  SE is wood and West is metal in nature.

Before you fix the baby Feng Shui, fix the North side first because you need a working reproductive system before you can make babies.

Ken, you have not told us what is appropriate Feng Shui for these sectors.”

This is simple Bagua Feng Shui.  Consult your Feng Shui teacher or books for details.  Simply put, do not put things that clash the elemental nature of a specific sector.  For example, water is the elemental nature of North sector, avoid putting earth element there and put things that will strengthen water, especially if you have impotency problem  (please donate your saving in Viagra to charity).

Special Chinese New Year Bonus:  North, West and NW also stand for wealth and career luck.  SE stands for academic luck.  Fix up the Feng Shui in these sectors will also help procreation, wealth, career and academic progress.

Ken Lai

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In Chinese astrology, everyone is assigned an animal sign from a pool of 12 animals based on the birth year.  This article discloses a rarely taught secret of “12 worrisome birth months“.

People who were born in their “worrisome month” of their own specific birth animal sign likely to have the following characteristics:

Personality:  worrisome, gloomy, grumpy, down, pessimistic and feel disaster coming anytime, self-defeatist, “shooting oneself in the foot” type.

Life chances and social interactions:  not getting along with neighbors and family relatives, loner and quiet type, lacking friends, marital problems and career problems.

HOW TO CALCULATE YOUR WORRISOME MONTH

Worrisome month is calculate in terms of solar months (it is about a month slower than western month).  The easiest way to calculate it is to use the bazi-calculator link below, key in your birthday and check the left side table as shown below:

https://bazi-calculator.com/

The example below is to check someone with December 4, 1980 birthday was born in his worrisome month or not.  The birth animal sign is monkey for the person and birth month is pig or hai.

Then we check the list of worrisome month in terms of birth animal sign below.  The worrisome month for monkey sign is pig or hai month.  Hence this person was born in a worrisome month  (potential client for psychologist). 

The followings are worrisome months based on Chinese zodiac animal signs: 

RAT (years born: 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020, 2032, 2044) 

–Worrisome month:  rabbit or mao (second solar month)

OX (years born: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973,  1985, 1997, 2009, 2021, 2033, 2045) 

–Worrisome month:  dragon or chen  (third solar month)

TIGER (years born: 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022,  2034 )

 –Worrisome month:  pig or hai (10th solar month)

RABBIT (years born: 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023,  2035 ) )

–Worrisome month:  horse or wu (fifth solar month)

DRAGON (years born: 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976,  1988, 2000, 2012, 2024, 2036) 

–Worrisome month:  ox or chou (twelfth solar month)

SNAKE (years born: 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013,  2025, 2037)

–Worrisome month:  tiger or yin month  (first solar month)

HORSE (years born: 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014, 2026, 2038, 2050)

–Worrisome month:  rooster or you month  (eighth solar month)

RAM (years born: 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027, 2039 )

–Worrisome month:  dog or xu month (ninth solar month)

MONKEY (years born: 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016,  2028, 2040)

–Worrisome month:  snake or si month (fourth solar month)

ROOSTER (years born: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981,  1993, 2005, 2017, 2029, 2041)  

–Worrisome month:  rat or  zi month (eleventh solar month)

DOG (years born: 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970,  1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030, 2042)

–Worrisome month:  ram or wei month  (sixth solar month)

PIG  (years born: 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1994, 2007, 2019, 2031, 2043 )

–Worrisome month:  monkey or shen month  (seventh solar month)

“Ken, can you explain the rationale behind these worrisome months?”

This will take 12 letter-sized pages to explain.  Most of you will have no patience to read and me no time to write.  For the intellectually curious– this has something to do with the interactions between the hidden elements inside the animal signs and the “12 life stages of stem” theory.

Now psychologists have one more tool to diagnose depression– to check if the patient was born in a worrisome month.

Ken Lai
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In simple terms, “reality follows mind” (境隨心轉 jìng-suí-xīn-zhuǎn) implies one’s perception, intention or thought controls one’s own reality and affects how one acts and behaves.  “Mind follows reality” (心隨境轉 xīn-suí-jìng-zhuǎn) means one’s perception is dictated or manipulated by one’s own reality and becomes a slave of this reality.

This topic may sound “sleepy” to you.  But if you grasp the concepts behind, you will have one foot stepped inside “Club Enlightenment”.

To make these concepts easier to understand, please watch a 98 seconds video below about a 11 years old boy who had failed his exams in China, the land of “tiger moms“:

Click the link below if you cannot see the video
http://kenlaifengshui.blogspot.com/2018/11/reality-follows-mind-vs-mind-follows.html
The boy and his father

The video may run too fast.  Let me recap the contents for you:

  1. This 11 years old boy got 7 points (out of 100) from a school exam.  A Chinese boy with this low and failing score is very likely scolded or beaten up by his parents. Academic failure is a cardinal sin in the mind of traditional Chinese parents.
  2. Surprisingly, his father was very happy to see his boy get 7 points.  He even had bought a car-load of fireworks that costed him US$160 to celebrate the boy’s exam result.
  3. It is because this boy had zero scores in his previous exams.
  4. After this incident, this boy has a change of attitude towards school works and become self-motivated to study.
  5. He got 57 points in an exam held a few days ago.

Originally I have planned to explain the dynamics behind.  But I don’t want to sound like a preacher.  So I let you figure this out and make your own judgement.

Happy thinking (and weekend)!

P.S.  Consult “Diamond Sutra” if you want to know more about “reality follows mind“.

Ken Lai
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Hi guys!  Today is your lucky day.  This article may save your happy or miserable life. It helps you determine if your potential wife will just irritating you or jinxing you to death.  This is done by reading the Bazi birth chart of your potential mate.

In Bazi, power star or zheng-guan stands for the husband in a female chart.  Shang-guan is the star that “hurts” or jinxes her husband.  To check the level of husband-jinxing is to look at the balance between power and output star in a female chart.

To help you understand the dynamics, here we use an earth female daymaster (DM) as example.  Her husband star is wood element and output star is metal.

LEVEL OF HUSBAND-JINXING

1. Both power and output stars are about equally weak:  This means both wood and metal are weak.  Metal can only pokes at metal from time to time.  Wife irritates husband with verbal attacks or behaviors  Husband puts up with it but dissatisfaction accumulates over time.

2. Output stars are weaker than power stars:   This means metal is weak and wood is relatively stronger.  Metal still instigates wood, but wood will not put up with the skirmishes and strike up.  Wife would irritates and picks on her husband.  Husband does not put up with her and result in quarrels and fights. 

3. Both powers and output stars are about equally strong:  Metal and wood are equally strong and in balance.  Wife has a good grasp of husband’s weakness and can effectively keep husband at bay and no funny business.  This combination keeps the marriage stable.

4. Output stars are about above 100% but below 300% stronger than power stars:  This means metal is much stronger than wood.  The reality becomes:  husband is prone to illness, injuries, disasters, obstacles in life and the couple is prone to separation or divorce.

5. Output stars are above 300% stronger than power star:  This means wood is very weak.  The reality becomes:  husband is prone to premature death.

If unfortunately your current wife falls into #4 or #5 of the above,  pray or run or hopefully you have a wife-jinxing chart to neutralize the other party’s husband-jinxing.  If you do not have a wife-jinxing chart, you may take the courses below for help:

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fu_yin_pixIn Bazi and Feng Shui,  Fu-yin means “identical” or “duplicate”.  For example, if a Bazi chart has two identical pillars or just two identical stems or branches, that pillar or element is called “fu-yin“.

Depending on the contexts, Fu-yin has multiple meanings.  There are Fu-yin meanings or implications in terms of pillars, stems, branches, illness, family members, 10 transformation stars (“10 gods“) and luck periods.

In this post, we just cover the Fu-yin meanings of luck periods.  This includes annual luck and 10-year-luck periods.

WHEN LUCK PERIOD FU-YIN (is identical to) 

  1. Hour pillar:  traveling, long trips, pregnant, giving birth
  2. Resource star (zheng-yin/ pian-yin):  changing residence, job relocation
  3. Wealth star (zheng-cai/ pian-cai):  losing/ gaining wealth, wealth-related events, relationship matters, loan given out
  4. Day-branch:  one person becomes two (marrying, dating); two persons become one (separation, partner has long trips) 
  5. Relative stars (e.g., output, power, wealth..etc):  relative getting sick, injury, disaster or death.
  6. Favorable element (“yong-shen/ useful god”): doubles the joy/happiness
  7. Unfavorable element (“ji-shen/ annoying god”): doubles the misfortune, sadness, sickness

Besides doubling the effect, Fu-yin also means repetition, reality does not match expectation or planning, or success slips away in the last minute.  This is especially accurate with day-branch.

Fu-yin” does not always mean negative as long as the element “duplicated” is favorable or at least not negative.

BONUS:  FU-YIN BETWEEN NATAL CHART PILLARS

Today is your lucky day because I am in a good mood.  I throw in the following bonus info:

  • Year/ hour pillar fu-yin (i.e.: identical stems and branches)DM did not meet older relatives when born or jinxed them when DM was young;  DM jinxes his descendants at old age or lacks relationship with them 
  • Month/ day pillar fu-yin :   DM has unstable marriage, jinxing close relatives, emotional/ psychologically unstable, family disharmony 
  • Month/ hour pillar fu-yin :  numerous ups and down in career, obstacles and stagnation 
  • Day/ hour pillar fu-yin :  alone/ lonely during old age (descendants do not stay close to DM), unstable marriage/ romance

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This is a “green” article recycled from last year with updates.  If you are darn lazy, simply read the following picture and go back to your sweet dream.

No digging/ movements in regions with blue arrows:

  • Region between 142.5- 217.5 degrees  (San Sha and 5-yellow locations)
  • 247.5- 292.5 degrees (2-black star)– use metal cure
  • 292.5- 307.5 degrees (Grand Duke)
  • 112.5- 127.5 degrees (Sui-Po or year-breaker)

Minimalist Feng Shui”  here fixes only 2-5, 5-5, and 9-5 star combinations in regions with activities.  You don’t need to put up remedies or Feng Shui monsters in all 9-palaces of your house, especially in region with no activity like storage room or guest room.

This year Sui-po (year-breaker) is in the 8-wealth star region.  Be very careful with the location where you put your water-fountain or other wealth-enhancement monsters.

You should do a good date-selection if you need to do construction in any of the above locations with blue arrow (mountains/ palace).  San-sha and 5-Yellow star share the same location this year.  Make sure you do not provoke their “anger” by digging and movements there.

People with dragon and dog zodiac signs should avoid seeing corpse being put into a coffin or burial for this year if they don’t want bad luck and sickness.

Yang nobleman sign for this year is Chou (ox).  Yin nobleman is Wei (ram).

2018 Wu-xu Feng Shui year will start on February 4 @ 5:30 am.  Remember to move your Feng Shui monsters/ remedies before that time.  Do a house-cleaning/ cleansing on Feb. 3 if you have suffered misfortunes during 2017 ding-you year.

Ken Lai 

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