The following is a common 4-Pillars question on marriage:

couple“According to 4 Pillars, can a person ( male ) born in the year of  Ox marry a person ( female ) born in the year of sheep, even though there is a direct clash ? I have observed several such cases wherein such married couple get along very well with each other !”

Chou (ox) and Wei (sheep) are basically the same— earth, so clashes between the two are not that antagonistic like monkey (shen-metal) clashing tiger (yin-wood).

Also Chou is “metal storage” and Wei is “wood storage”. If a person or DM needs such storage, it will work well with a spouse who brings it to the pot.

I also found, in some rare cases, a person’s clashing animal sign may also be the “nobleman” of the person.

Besides, animal clash is only part of the equation. You still have to look at the day pillars between the potential couple– to see if there are clashes or combinations. You prefer combinations in this case. It means attraction and getting along between the two. Clashes mean fighting.

Then come to the most important part– (contents are posted in “4P Bootcamp” discussion list).

This 4P principle on mate-selection can also be applied to business partner selection and hiring of employees or looking for your “helpful people“.

Ken Lai
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